Wives - How many lovers have you had?

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This is for all the married ladies (or engaged or even in long term relationships). How many men have you had sex with since you got married? Some details and stories would be appreciated as well (who, when, where, how often, etc. and especially without without your husband's approval/knowledge and arousal. People's definition of what constitutes sex will differ but I'm looking for penetration vaginally or anally from another mans penis.