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Spicy beans Tipsy Thoughts and Ramblings

I was just sat thinking… and I wanted to share some of my thoughts, some of my inner ramblings. Because why the fuck not. Sonder( by definition: is the feeling of realising that every other individual you see has a life as full and complex as your own, with their own thoughts, experiences, and stories.). We’re all here, hundreds of thousands of different types of people; horny, lonely, curious, choosing as and when to enter in and out of this beautiful and erotic online ā€˜carnival’.

Sometimes I find myself wondering about the people behind the usernames and avatars. Not in a creepy, ā€œI need to know everything about youā€ way, but in a very human way. Because as much as we all interact, flirt, play, and connect, most of us are doing it through a version of ourselves we’ve chosen, (or needed) to construct.

I just think there’s something so fucking fascinating about that.

Some of you might be using Lit as a place to express desires or parts of your personality that don’t get airtime in your day-to-day ā€œnormalā€ life. Maybe you’re not so confident in the ā€œreal worldā€ and being here allows you to explore a more carefree side to your personality. Maybe you’re in a relationship or a marriage that doesn’t allow room for your actual preferences…Maybe you’re exploring sexuality in a way that isn’t ā€œsafeā€ to do offline. Maybe you’re just bored or unfulfilled in your current reality and this is an outlet. Or maybe, just maybe, you’re horny, and that’s okay too. šŸ˜‰

And then there’s the social layer: the not so silent validation, the power dynamics you may build with other users, the ā€˜attention economy’. It’s hard to ignore how those things shape our behavior here. It’s performance, yes, but not necessarily fake. Often, these ā€œmasksā€ we put on aren’t fabrications. They’re extensions of ourselves. Ways of figuring out who we are outside the constraints of daily life, societal roles, or personal obligations!

So when I say I often wonder about the people behind the characters, I mean I respect the complexity. (Sonder)

I’m so very, very aware that you’re (the people reading this & interacting) are not just what you present here.

None of us are.


THOUGHT and rambling number 2.

I’ve always believed that behind every seemingly innocent or conventional person, there’s a version of them that’s deeply perverted in the best possible way. Some people are just better at ignoring that part of themselves. But I can’t help wondering how suffocating that must be. To constantly repress something that is hardwired into you. To be afraid of a desire simply because it doesn’t fit what society finds palatable. So what if you fantasise about being peed on? About being ā€œkidnappedā€ by a masked man and taken deep into the woods? So what if you fantasise about your cock being used by a dominatrix for hours on end? But the idea of actually doing it scares you? Why? Because people might not approve? Because it’s ā€œweirdā€? Right. Well, in my humble opinion, enjoy the hollow satisfaction of staying within the lines. Enjoy knowing that one of the most instinctive, human things we’re capable of (sexual exploration) is something you’ve decided to treat like a threat instead of a possibility.I feel…well… bad for you.

And THAT ladies and gentlemen is why I freaking love this place, it doesn’t make space for repression, it allows us to express and be who we want! Anyway, ramblings, random thoughts done. Hope you found some of it at least a little interesting, I know it’s not half as enticing or interesting as nudes or my butt and tits … but nevertheless!
I love all those thoughts. I too am fascinated by who the people behind the username are , what is their story, their fantasy , their unspoken kink, what this site gives them that normal life doesn’t. Everyone has a story and I bet it is interesting and probably a little depraved
Thanks for your thoughts
 
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Spicy beans Tipsy Thoughts and Ramblings

I was just sat thinking… and I wanted to share some of my thoughts, some of my inner ramblings. Because why the fuck not. Sonder( by definition: is the feeling of realising that every other individual you see has a life as full and complex as your own, with their own thoughts, experiences, and stories.). We’re all here, hundreds of thousands of different types of people; horny, lonely, curious, choosing as and when to enter in and out of this beautiful and erotic online ā€˜carnival’.

Sometimes I find myself wondering about the people behind the usernames and avatars. Not in a creepy, ā€œI need to know everything about youā€ way, but in a very human way. Because as much as we all interact, flirt, play, and connect, most of us are doing it through a version of ourselves we’ve chosen, (or needed) to construct.

I just think there’s something so fucking fascinating about that.

Some of you might be using Lit as a place to express desires or parts of your personality that don’t get airtime in your day-to-day ā€œnormalā€ life. Maybe you’re not so confident in the ā€œreal worldā€ and being here allows you to explore a more carefree side to your personality. Maybe you’re in a relationship or a marriage that doesn’t allow room for your actual preferences…Maybe you’re exploring sexuality in a way that isn’t ā€œsafeā€ to do offline. Maybe you’re just bored or unfulfilled in your current reality and this is an outlet. Or maybe, just maybe, you’re horny, and that’s okay too. šŸ˜‰

And then there’s the social layer: the not so silent validation, the power dynamics you may build with other users, the ā€˜attention economy’. It’s hard to ignore how those things shape our behavior here. It’s performance, yes, but not necessarily fake. Often, these ā€œmasksā€ we put on aren’t fabrications. They’re extensions of ourselves. Ways of figuring out who we are outside the constraints of daily life, societal roles, or personal obligations!

So when I say I often wonder about the people behind the characters, I mean I respect the complexity. (Sonder)

I’m so very, very aware that you’re (the people reading this & interacting) are not just what you present here.

None of us are.


THOUGHT and rambling number 2.

I’ve always believed that behind every seemingly innocent or conventional person, there’s a version of them that’s deeply perverted in the best possible way. Some people are just better at ignoring that part of themselves. But I can’t help wondering how suffocating that must be. To constantly repress something that is hardwired into you. To be afraid of a desire simply because it doesn’t fit what society finds palatable. So what if you fantasise about being peed on? About being ā€œkidnappedā€ by a masked man and taken deep into the woods? So what if you fantasise about your cock being used by a dominatrix for hours on end? But the idea of actually doing it scares you? Why? Because people might not approve? Because it’s ā€œweirdā€? Right. Well, in my humble opinion, enjoy the hollow satisfaction of staying within the lines. Enjoy knowing that one of the most instinctive, human things we’re capable of (sexual exploration) is something you’ve decided to treat like a threat instead of a possibility.I feel…well… bad for you.

And THAT ladies and gentlemen is why I freaking love this place, it doesn’t make space for repression, it allows us to express and be who we want! Anyway, ramblings, random thoughts done. Hope you found some of it at least a little interesting, I know it’s not half as enticing or interesting as nudes or my butt and tits … but nevertheless!
You have a wonderful sense of empathy. People are here for so many different reasons and to find so many different things. Some of us are lonely, and this is a great forum and outlet we'd never find anywhere else. I came here to write and to meet people, and this site has helped me explore myself and my desires. It's been such a fascinating process.

Love reading perspectives like this, and people who are seeking to connect and understand others. That's rare and extraordinary. And exciting x
 
I’m not religious, whatsoever. But I also don’t think this is the place to share our opinions on religion either. 🤣
Ok so I won’t talk to you about the grace of the Flying Spaghetti Monster and the loving embrace of his noodly appendages.

(Also SFM upper cased on their own so it’s clearly a respected religion)
 
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