SpicyBean99
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Spicy beans Tipsy Thoughts and Ramblings
I was just sat thinking⊠and I wanted to share some of my thoughts, some of my inner ramblings. Because why the fuck not. Sonder( by definition: is the feeling of realising that every other individual you see has a life as full and complex as your own, with their own thoughts, experiences, and stories.). Weâre all here, hundreds of thousands of different types of people; horny, lonely, curious, choosing as and when to enter in and out of this beautiful and erotic online âcarnivalâ.
Sometimes I find myself wondering about the people behind the usernames and avatars. Not in a creepy, âI need to know everything about youâ way, but in a very human way. Because as much as we all interact, flirt, play, and connect, most of us are doing it through a version of ourselves weâve chosen, (or needed) to construct.
I just think thereâs something so fucking fascinating about that.
Some of you might be using Lit as a place to express desires or parts of your personality that donât get airtime in your day-to-day ânormalâ life. Maybe youâre not so confident in the âreal worldâ and being here allows you to explore a more carefree side to your personality. Maybe youâre in a relationship or a marriage that doesnât allow room for your actual preferencesâŠMaybe youâre exploring sexuality in a way that isnât âsafeâ to do offline. Maybe youâre just bored or unfulfilled in your current reality and this is an outlet. Or maybe, just maybe, youâre horny, and thatâs okay too.

And then thereâs the social layer: the not so silent validation, the power dynamics you may build with other users, the âattention economyâ. Itâs hard to ignore how those things shape our behavior here. Itâs performance, yes, but not necessarily fake. Often, these âmasksâ we put on arenât fabrications. Theyâre extensions of ourselves. Ways of figuring out who we are outside the constraints of daily life, societal roles, or personal obligations!
So when I say I often wonder about the people behind the characters, I mean I respect the complexity. (Sonder)
Iâm so very, very aware that youâre (the people reading this & interacting) are not just what you present here.
None of us are.
THOUGHT and rambling number 2.
Iâve always believed that behind every seemingly innocent or conventional person, thereâs a version of them thatâs deeply perverted in the best possible way. Some people are just better at ignoring that part of themselves. But I canât help wondering how suffocating that must be. To constantly repress something that is hardwired into you. To be afraid of a desire simply because it doesnât fit what society finds palatable. So what if you fantasise about being peed on? About being âkidnappedâ by a masked man and taken deep into the woods? So what if you fantasise about your cock being used by a dominatrix for hours on end? But the idea of actually doing it scares you? Why? Because people might not approve? Because itâs âweirdâ? Right. Well, in my humble opinion, enjoy the hollow satisfaction of staying within the lines. Enjoy knowing that one of the most instinctive, human things weâre capable of (sexual exploration) is something youâve decided to treat like a threat instead of a possibility.I feelâŠwell⊠bad for you.
And THAT ladies and gentlemen is why I freaking love this place, it doesnât make space for repression, it allows us to express and be who we want! Anyway, ramblings, random thoughts done. Hope you found some of it at least a little interesting, I know itâs not half as enticing or interesting as nudes or my butt and tits ⊠but nevertheless!