Wit & Nipples 🍒

[NewCastle89]

Right people I’m heading to sleep. Thankyou for being so fun and engaging today I’ve really really enjoyed it. It’s this, whatever “this” is that I miss when I’m not around.

Sleep well, wank well, and I’ll be back tomorrow.

Ur very good fun ms bean. Thankyou for the Dm invitation tho I can’t figure out how to send you one yet sleep well and Ill be wanking well for sure you have procured me the goods that and maybe a fantasy of being fuxked by a man with u insteucting them

 

[NewCastle89]

Lovely of you to say…

Since you seem pretty new…

This is me most days: https://postimg.cc/ctNL3Jjq

This is me… sometimes: https://postimg.cc/56sQhwTz

And this is the picture I send you from bed: https://postimg.cc/xcpqx9Nk

that second pic is really fucking something and that thing your holding, that vibrator I suppose a buzzing thing It has me imaging all sorts eg your body wriggling around and eyes rolled back into your skull grabbing the bed. Anyway enough now time for sleep cough cough *grabs lube*

M

 

[athelticguy04]

Lovely of you to say…

Since you seem pretty new…

This is me most days: https://postimg.cc/ctNL3Jjq

This is me… sometimes: https://postimg.cc/56sQhwTz

And this is the picture I send you from bed: https://postimg.cc/xcpqx9Nk

Love that last pic.looks like a fun time

 

[Azuldrgon]

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

The best type is a willing partner. Considering I have a limited amount of partners, I couldn't identify a type.

• Has your “type” changed with age and experience?

Not really. My last one, not counting my wife, was an older woman who was pretty fit.

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

Mental definitely.

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

I feel like everyone is a mystery at the start.

• Do you have a favorite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

In real life, not really. In online play scenarios, I like the DD/BG dynamic a bunch.

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

Cuckold lifestyle and hotwife, although pretty hot, is something I don't think I'd be able to handle too well.

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

Both, but I would say a slight edge to giving up control only because I want her to be satisfied when we're done.

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

Both. I fantasize about a few online people (different sources), but also a few real life people who are local. It just hasn't worked out that I experienced them as of yet.

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

The DD/LG dynamic was from here with a former online partner. I learned about being a Dom from here, but found I was too much of a soft heart to really want to cause someone pain.

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?

To actually fuck my online fantasies. Not enough funds nor the best scenario to ty to make the trip most of the time.

 

[desperado1089]

I’d love to know your turn offs too!!

What is your appearance related preference?

Mmm maybe I should grow a little bush sometime… I just find it’s annoying and I never know if men like it grown out or trimmed or all off. So I’ve always kept a clean shave. I also (personally) find it much cleaner and fresher feeling when there’s 0 hair.

That is my appearance related preference. I suppose as far as turn offs are concerned...I dunno, I've had the misfortune of seeing one or two objectively hideous women in my time. I suppose I'd be very reluctant to mess around with a woman in her late 50s or more, particularly with regards to how wrinkly her skin might be. And on the other end of the spectrum, I'd feel very uncomfortable with a woman who looks overly youthful, shall we say (which is part of why I prefer pretty much anything except completely shaven). Exceptions exist, of course, present company included.

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

Totally agree!!

A sailing boat would be a dream.

Or a yacht.

A girl can dream

Once my divorce comes through I’m getting a catamaran and sailing around the world . Course it might take a few years to learn how to sail 45 ft lagoon

 

[kieranhalcyon01]

there is never enough time to have a good sleep and do everything that needs doing in a day… no matter how hard you try. I either finish everything and get no sleep or I try and get an early night and don’t sleep well so the next day is harder

I agree on the Chinese front I much prefer Indian or Thai for a takeaway. Italian is for eating out in my opinion… pasta/pizza is much better when it’s fresh Thai is also amazing, I love an extra spicy pad kee mau or pad krapow… Thai basil is delicious!

My local Thai place's wonton soup is fucking amazing. If they gave me a big mug full of their wonton soup broth and told me it was my beverage I'd be ecstatic.

 

[flickerfly]

Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

A bit. I typically find myself drawn to outgoing brunettes.

• Has your “type” changed with age and experience?

Some. I have become less focused on the superficial as I have aged.

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

70% mental, 30% physical. Most women are physically attractive in some way. But if the mental/emotional connection isn’t there, then nothing is going to happen.

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

Mystery can be fun, but not deceit.

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

I do. I’ve dm’d you before and mentioned it there.

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

Absolutely. Harem stories turn me on, but I would never want to try to live it out in real life. I 1) respect my partner too much and 2) don’t have the time for multiple partners.

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

I lean toward being in control.

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

Most recently people from here. Occasionally people from real life star in them.

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

Not yet, but I have certainly learned about some I hadn’t ever considered.

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?

A passionate night with a stripper or escort.

 

[UpT1gh7]

Well in that case… if people are around and willing to play?

Something a little different…

A QUESTION OF TASTE

Answer one. Answer them all. No wrong answers here and no judgment! Also absolutely no pressure to reply at all… thus comes from a place of pure curiosity.

• Do you have a type when it comes to sexual partners? What is it?

Ummm, not in the traditional sense, as long as I’m attracted to them.

• Has your “type” changed with age and experience?

Not really… I’m as open minded now as I ever was, as long as there’s some kind of connection that makes me want more.

• Is attraction for you mostly physical or mostly mental?

It used to be almost entirely physical when I was younger. Now I absolutely need someone that can make me smile an engage in a conversation for more than a few superficial minutes. Don’t get me wrong, hot still gets the fire going, but if it’s going to stay going, I need other stimulus.

• Does mystery heighten attraction for you, or do you prefer someone open and readable?

I’m definitely intrigued when I can’t pigeon hole someone right away. I’m reeeeeaaaaly good at reading people, so when I can’t quite figure someone out, it definitely heightens the arousal.

• Do you have a favourite kink or fetish that you come back to repeatedly. What is it?

Not really.

• Have you any sexual scenarios which you enjoy reading about/ or watching that you wouldn’t partake in, in real life?

Ooooh. I love the idea of being caught in a compromising position, physically exposed. Can’t imagine a scenario where I’d be brazen enough to participate in that in real life.

• What turns you on more: being in control, giving up control, or switching? If it’s either one or the other why?

No preference.

• Do your fantasies usually involve people from your real life, the internet (porn stars/social media/here?)

Definitely actual people I know.

• Have you discovered a new kink from spending time here?

No.

• What’s one fantasy you’ve had for years that you know may never come to fruition?

The idea of meeting up with someone from here after developing that connection here. I’m sure many of us have that fantasy, but real life tends to be more of a let down really.

 

[laszloholyfield]

I for one, spent half the night with the fam, I cooked beef bourguignon (hairy bikers recipe), polished off a bottle of champagne then went to a friends who was hosting:

I hadn't heard of that recipe, being from the other side of the pond; I'll have to give it a shake. I make a version of Julia Child's recipe modified for a slow cooker so it is (a bit) easier. Cheers!

 

[NewCastle89]

 

[SpicyBean99]

The best type is a willing partner. Considering I have a limited amount of partners, I couldn't identify a type.

Not really. My last one, not counting my wife, was an older woman who was pretty fit.

Mental definitely.

I feel like everyone is a mystery at the start.

In real life, not really. In online play scenarios, I like the DD/BG dynamic a bunch.

Cuckold lifestyle and hotwife, although pretty hot, is something I don't think I'd be able to handle too well.

Both, but I would say a slight edge to giving up control only because I want her to be satisfied when we're done.

Both. I fantasize about a few online people (different sources), but also a few real life people who are local. It just hasn't worked out that I experienced them as of yet.

The DD/LG dynamic was from here with a former online partner. I learned about being a Dom from here, but found I was too much of a soft heart to really want to cause someone pain.

To actually fuck my online fantasies. Not enough funds nor the best scenario to ty to make the trip most of the time.

Thankyou for taking the time to answer these!

I love people who don’t tend to have a type, those are usually the people who know how to have the most fun. The broader your horizons the more choice you can have (especially at sex parties )

I agree with the mystery question. For example I know that there are many people who “think” they know me very well because they’ve followed me a while on Instagram. We go on a date and they are shocked when they find that my personality is pretty much the opposite to what I share online… (ie; I can be reserved, quiet, I hate being the centre of attention (online is different), I’m very introverted unless around people that make me feel comfortable, I am also not a raging sex fiend that just wants to have sex despite what the memes I share say about me….) and it can be entertaining to watch someone’s eyes kinda widen with curiosity and/or disappointment.

Doms don’t always have to cause pain. In fact, some of the best “gentle” Doms (tho I don’t mind pain) I’ve met have been the clearest communicators I have ever met, taking care of all of my needs and being incredibly good at creating a safe place to explore! I know people who like to tie up their partner and tickle them, for an example but on the other end of the spectrum when regarding Spankings/Floggings/Whippings and other activities…. They don’t necessarily have to cause pain unless the dom sets out for them to be (it can just be… a light tap… or the idea of it that can be enough…) Some are into mind games and fear play, which is also in this category. So a soft dom is still a dom. potato/patata. (Also a different in S&M and BDSM… and that ties into what a dom is into, too…

 

[SpicyBean99]

My local Thai place's wonton soup is fucking amazing. If they gave me a big mug full of their wonton soup broth and told me it was my beverage I'd be ecstatic.

I freaking love wonton soup. I love it.

The same goes for Chinese chicken and sweetcorn soup with egg ribbons… when I’m sick it’s all I dream of (though I tend to add a bunch of lemon and a little grated ginger and chilli’s when it gets to me for an added bit of oomph.)

I am a soup lover in general and would always be happy with a large mug of soup!

 

[SpicyBean99]

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I need some milk, sugar and maybe a lil croissant on the side?

 

[deft]

Thankyou for taking the time to answer these!

I love people who don’t tend to have a type, those are usually the people who know how to have the most fun. The broader your horizons the more choice you can have (especially at sex parties )

I agree with the mystery question. For example I know that there are many people who “think” they know me very well because they’ve followed me a while on Instagram. We go on a date and they are shocked when they find that my personality is pretty much the opposite to what I share online… (ie; I can be reserved, quiet, I hate being the centre of attention (online is different), I’m very introverted unless around people that make me feel comfortable, I am also not a raging sex fiend that just wants to have sex despite what the memes I share say about me….) and it can be entertaining to watch someone’s eyes kinda widen with curiosity and/or disappointment.

Doms don’t always have to cause pain. In fact, some of the best “gentle” Doms (tho I don’t mind pain) I’ve met have been the clearest communicators I have ever met, taking care of all of my needs and being incredibly good at creating a safe place to explore! I know people who like to tie up their partner and tickle them, for an example but on the other end of the spectrum when regarding Spankings/Floggings/Whippings and other activities…. They don’t necessarily have to cause pain unless the dom sets out for them to be (it can just be… a light tap… or the idea of it that can be enough…) Some are into mind games and fear play, which is also in this category. So a soft dom is still a dom. potato/patata. (Also a different in S&M and BDSM… and that ties into what a dom is into, too…

This. All of it

 

[SpicyBean99]

This. All of it

Morning, you.

 

[deft]

Morning, you.

Morning, ma’am. Someone told me it’s the weekend now?

 

[SpicyBean99]

A bit. I typically find myself drawn to outgoing brunettes.

Some. I have become less focused on the superficial as I have aged.

70% mental, 30% physical. Most women are physically attractive in some way. But if the mental/emotional connection isn’t there, then nothing is going to happen.

Mystery can be fun, but not deceit.

I do. I’ve dm’d you before and mentioned it there.

Absolutely. Harem stories turn me on, but I would never want to try to live it out in real life. I 1) respect my partner too much and 2) don’t have the time for multiple partners.

I lean toward being in control.

Most recently people from here. Occasionally people from real life star in them.

Not yet, but I have certainly learned about some I hadn’t ever considered.

A passionate night with a stripper or escort.

Again, thankyou for taking the time to answer theseee!!

Outgoing brunettes definitely have more fun than blondes

Just to touch on the last question… what is it about the idea of a stripper/escort that excites you?

 

[NewCastle89]

I need some milk, sugar and maybe a lil croissant on the side?

Sugar (no emoticon)

 

[SpicyBean99]

Morning, ma’am. Someone told me it’s the weekend now?

Tis indeed sir it’s a Saturday morning, around 11:05am!

(all my days have melted into one since Christmas I’m only now regaining my bearings.)

 

[deft]

Tis indeed sir it’s a Saturday morning, around 11:05am!

(all my days have melted into one since Christmas I’m only now regaining my bearings.)

Gone 11? I’d better put some clothes on, then!

Yep, the Christmas Gooch is like an extradimensional, timeless pocket in our existence.

 

[subdudeme13]

Tis indeed sir it’s a Saturday morning, around 11:05am!

(all my days have melted into one since Christmas I’m only now regaining my bearings.)

I thought you were on the west coast of the US LOL

 

[SpicyBean99]

Ummm, not in the traditional sense, as long as I’m attracted to them.

Not really… I’m as open minded now as I ever was, as long as there’s some kind of connection that makes me want more.

It used to be almost entirely physical when I was younger. Now I absolutely need someone that can make me smile an engage in a conversation for more than a few superficial minutes. Don’t get me wrong, hot still gets the fire going, but if it’s going to stay going, I need other stimulus.

I’m definitely intrigued when I can’t pigeon hole someone right away. I’m reeeeeaaaaly good at reading people, so when I can’t quite figure someone out, it definitely heightens the arousal.

Not really.

Ooooh. I love the idea of being caught in a compromising position, physically exposed. Can’t imagine a scenario where I’d be brazen enough to participate in that in real life.

No preference.

Definitely actual people I know.

No.

The idea of meeting up with someone from here after developing that connection here. I’m sure many of us have that fantasy, but real life tends to be more of a let down really.

I think there’s a difference between recognising someone as attractive and actually being attracted to them. Attraction implies a pull, something that draws you to them, and those pulls in my opinion don’t happen without something doing the pulling… but fair enough! That means you like a bit of everything I’m guessing!

Connection > Attraction. (I agree.)

Ahh yes public exhibition… I love public fun (ie my forest audio was outside… I’ve had sex in cars, on cars, on a mountain side, on beaches, I’ve had hot and steamy makeout sessions in public bathrooms etc etc… but I’m yet to be caught red handed… (or with a dick in hand ) it’s part of the fun but I also think I would be MORTIFIED. (This would
Play into a Doms humiliation fetish, if they happened to have one.)

And regarding your very last comment. That spark/connection is easy to manufacture online… anyone can be “anyone” here…the way you communicate, how much you talk, bark being bigger than bite (in a sexual way)… and meeting can either reveal this or the opposite. It doesn’t necessarily mean that it will be a let down, more that you’ll see that person for who they really are. And then it’s a matter of personal preference as to whether they are a let down or not. I think people should have more confidence to meet someone they fantasise about and maybe it’ll surprise them! (As long as you’ve not lied about your personality, height, age… and how good in bed you are… I have met up with so called “doms” that have been HUGE let downs…)

 

[SpicyBean99]

I thought you were on the west coast of the US LOL

I am a British/Eastern European girly through and through

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Thankyou for taking the time to answer these!

I love people who don’t tend to have a type, those are usually the people who know how to have the most fun. The broader your horizons the more choice you can have (especially at sex parties )

I agree with the mystery question. For example I know that there are many people who “think” they know me very well because they’ve followed me a while on Instagram. We go on a date and they are shocked when they find that my personality is pretty much the opposite to what I share online… (ie; I can be reserved, quiet, I hate being the centre of attention (online is different), I’m very introverted unless around people that make me feel comfortable, I am also not a raging sex fiend that just wants to have sex despite what the memes I share say about me….) and it can be entertaining to watch someone’s eyes kinda widen with curiosity and/or disappointment.

Doms don’t always have to cause pain. In fact, some of the best “gentle” Doms (tho I don’t mind pain) I’ve met have been the clearest communicators I have ever met, taking care of all of my needs and being incredibly good at creating a safe place to explore! I know people who like to tie up their partner and tickle them, for an example but on the other end of the spectrum when regarding Spankings/Floggings/Whippings and other activities…. They don’t necessarily have to cause pain unless the dom sets out for them to be (it can just be… a light tap… or the idea of it that can be enough…) Some are into mind games and fear play, which is also in this category. So a soft dom is still a dom. potato/patata. (Also a different in S&M and BDSM… and that ties into what a dom is into, too…

As a fellow introvert I feel this very much. The psychology of attraction is fascinating, i need someone im comfortable with to open up as a person, but as soon as I find that, and there's an emotional intimacy, I'm worried about bringing up certain sexual things. Finding someone you can play with who will then understand and appreciate your turn ons isn't always easy....!