Will Writing a Gay Male Story stop me turning?

NoJo

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I've never submitted any gay male stories here, but I might have to shortly, if only to prevent Michael Avenatti from continually intruding on my wank-fantasies -- He always bursts in on me and Stormy and subpoenas me just as I'm about to come.
 
I've thought the same thing lately.

My answer is this: Nothing can really change what you are if you do not allow it to do so.

Lately, I've been challenging myself to write about topics that are completely alien to me. I am more of a "have to experience" type of writer. In this endeavor, I will not attempt such an experience. I shall try to conference w/those who are Gay/Lesbian/Bi and couple their experience w/mine and see how it goes. Being mindful of their own self-preservation and that this is/can be a dangerous game to play for many.

Good luck. Don't stop here. Perhaps we can chat/pm on this later.

Challenge your mind and the person within you.
 
It’s hard for me to write non gay oriented TG/Tv/CD erotica since I’ve been with more guys than women in my life - not that I ever preferred men more than women in bed. It’s just that my relationships with women lasted a lot longer. From experience, it’s easier to write “gay” erotica in a sense even though I no longer date guys and ,no, it’s not a coping mechanism.

I guess on the flip side, would it be possible for a gay transvestite to turn heterosexual writing straight erotica? Doubtful. I had a lot of sexual encounters with guys that fell short of my expectations, some were abusive, others that just lacked anything meaningful. Ultimately, I gave up on chasing dick. My writing had nothing to do with my sexuality or preferences in bed. 🌹Kant👠👠👠
 
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I've never submitted any gay male stories here, but I might have to shortly, if only to prevent Michael Avenatti from continually intruding on my wank-fantasies -- He always bursts in on me and Stormy and subpoenas me just as I'm about to come.

Good luck.
 
My colleague, Mr Clearwater, is always trying to convince me to write my heroines as young men, or at least, add in scenes that cater for his whims. Apparently, my latest small breasted and slim hipped heroine isn't enough, and I am bombarded regularly with suggestions that have a singular focus, but little relationship to any over-arching plot. His suggestions, however, are very creative.

I've suggested he supply me with a list; meanwhile he was pleased that we were able, recently, to tick off "stable boy" :).
 
Writing gay erotica is tricky when you aren't gay. I'm gay and I've read lots of it written by straight women. They tend to make the mistake of writing gay men like women with dicks who value monogamy and don't really eat ass.
 
Writing gay erotica is tricky when you aren't gay. I'm gay and I've read lots of it written by straight women. They tend to make the mistake of writing gay men like women with dicks who value monogamy and don't really eat ass.

Trying to get EB to write ANY gay content is hard enough, never mind non-monogamous, or arse-eating.

Baby steps. :D
 
Trying to get EB to write ANY gay content is hard enough, never mind non-monogamous, or arse-eating.

Baby steps. :D

WTF? You got an entire half a chapter in a lead role AND you got your own stablehand AND permission to quote a bit of it!

See, this is what I have to put up with ;).
 
It's okay, Jo....its not like it was when we were kids. Its okay to let the gay out. Do it, you'll feel so much better.:D

Psst...Watch out for Jason, he likes to hump legs.
 
It's okay, Jo....its not like it was when we were kids. Its okay to let the gay out. Do it, you'll feel so much better.:D

Psst...Watch out for Jason, he likes to hump legs.

Gonna have to try humping my own leg now. I might look like a pretzel 🥨 afterwards
🌹Kant👠👠👠
 
Writing gay erotica is tricky when you aren't gay. I'm gay and I've read lots of it written by straight women. They tend to make the mistake of writing gay men like women with dicks who value monogamy and don't really eat ass.

this is the best thing I've ever read here. Officially.
Just saying
 
i'm thinking carson avenatti sandwich


if you seriously don't want to turn, then have a sex hookup with thatstheguy. he could make a queen with a 12 dick a day habit turn straight.
 
I write mom-son incest stories to stave off my otherwise insatiable desire for hot, middle-aged, lycra-clad mothers who feign innocence and reluctance but secretly burn with the consuming need to hook up with their offspring. And you know what? So far it's worked! I think you're on to something.
 
I write mom-son incest stories to stave off my otherwise insatiable desire for hot, middle-aged, lycra-clad mothers who feign innocence and reluctance but secretly burn with the consuming need to hook up with their offspring. And you know what? So far it's worked! I think you're on to something.

Wait, what? Simon, does this mean you're going to wear lycra in the gym showers? You did mention you were gong to try your hand in other categories, but I didn't expect GM so soon ;). Clearwater will be along to help - watch your leg!
 
Refuses to eat arse? Insists on monogamy?

:eek:

I've done monogamy successfully for 12 years now. And not the kind of monogamy like in the past, where I say I will be monogamous and then I do what I want. I don't value monogamy but my partner does; he requires it of me, and I've accepted that. It's commitment by enertia. It's lasted this long, what's the point in giving up now.

I'm not commenting on the ass eating :D
 
I've done monogamy successfully for 12 years now. And not the kind of monogamy like in the past, where I say I will be monogamous and then I do what I want. I don't value monogamy but my partner does; he requires it of me, and I've accepted that. It's commitment by inertia. It's lasted this long, what's the point in giving up now.

I'm not commenting on the ass eating :D

I'm not overly fussed by monogamy, but I do believe in being upfront about everything. Play together and stay together. You can have your heart in one place and your... ehm...tongue? in another place. :D

12 years. Christ. Nice inertia you've got there. ;)
 
I'm not overly fussed by monogamy, but I do believe in being upfront about everything. Play together and stay together. You can have your heart in one place and your... ehm...tongue? in another place. :D

12 years. Christ. Nice inertia you've got there. ;)

Right? I kind of gasped when I typed that number.

Agree with you about the tongue and the heart. My problem is my heart can be in more than one place at the same time and I have no problem with it. My partners past and present have not agreed.

I think the 12 year stretch is mostly that he's so high maintenance that I don't have time or energy for a side piece anyway :D
 
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