Wife with another lover and you've agreed to it: Would she want you there? Next room? Away?

[Mike302]

My wife knows she could, and reserves the right, but has never had serious interest in it.

I'm going to ask her this question but I'm also curious what other women would want or what guys think their wives would want.

Here is the question:

She's going to have sex with another guy. She doesn't want the guys playing with each other, it's all about her. Does she want:

1. To be alone with the guy

2. Have you in another room, listening

3. Have you in the same room, watching

4. Have you in the same room and on the bed, helping them, in either a supportive role or full participation


I'm going to guess my wife's answer. I think it will be a "it depends". #1 wouldn't happen unless she knew the guy extremely well. I doubt she'd want #2 or #3 because she'd find that distracting and a little cruel to me. I think she'll say #4.

 

[JackStayII]

1. Usually, since I was in the Navy she'd meet her fwbs while I was either deployed or when I had overnight duty, so she was alone and would have hot tales to tell me about her busy little tail.
2. Nope but would have.
3. Nope never came up.
4. Whenever we did have her fwbs over it was for a threesome or if they brought a date over a foursome.

 

[Sgts19]

With all but one couple which we do all of the above

I'd say #1.

I of course would love to watch, listen or help out.

 

[cadman7777]

Wife would never do it

 

[Mike302]

Well, I spoke with her about it. I was mostly correct.

She said, if I didn't know about it, obviously #1, I wouldn't be there.

But, if I did know about it, I'd be there doing whatever she tells me to do.

 

[zoso682001]

In our case it was #1 a time or two but #4 was the usual arrangement . Whether it was three or four of us .

 

[Islander55]

It has been 1, 3 and 4 for us. He got to see me fuck my first lover as a hotwife and has seen me with more since. Sometimes I prefer it to be solo and he does not mind as long as I tell him all about it.

 

[switchersm]

Always 4. Wife has the same lover in the 10th year now and wanted me in the supportive roll from the first time on.

 

[NCWSLvr]

Wife and I have done it. #3 and #4. She prefers #4

 

[wouldloveto]

In my fantasy she wants #3 and/or #4, because that is what I fantasize about. I'm sure my wife would want none of the above.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It seems that cuckoldress wives don't want the husband in with a new lover the first time or few times, and then when they get comfortable, they might be okay with him watching and maybe joining.

 

[Mike302]

It seems that cuckoldress wives don't want the husband in with a new lover the first time or few times, and then when they get comfortable, they might be okay with him watching and maybe joining.

Perhaps it depends whose idea it is? Either way it will end up the woman's choice.

If she intends to have a completely different experience with the new guy, she'll probably prefer to have that alone, but only if she knew him well enough to trust him.

If part of the allure is having two guys working for her pleasure, she'll obviously want her regular man there. Mine has stated that if she's going to have a threesome, which she doubts she'd ever seriously consider, it would be me and another guy focused on her, not eachother.

The vibe I get from her is she'd rather have a different experience alone with the other man, being submissive to him in bed, then coming home to be adored by me, as I do.

 

[Not Normal]

The reality is my wife wouldn't want any of those, but 4 would be her 'I can talk dirty to him' fantasy. We've had how fantasy talk, but that's all it would ever be.

I'd have more possibility of 4 with my paramour. That might actually happen some day.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Perhaps it depends whose idea it is? Either way it will end up the woman's choice.

If she intends to have a completely different experience with the new guy, she'll probably prefer to have that alone, but only if she knew him well enough to trust him.

If part of the allure is having two guys working for her pleasure, she'll obviously want her regular man there. Mine has stated that if she's going to have a threesome, which she doubts she'd ever seriously consider, it would be me and another guy focused on her, not eachother.

The vibe I get from her is she'd rather have a different experience alone with the other man, being submissive to him in bed, then coming home to be adored by me, as I do.

True, it's usually the woman's choice. Or submissive's.

I've noticed that there are women who love bisexual guys as much as guys love bisexual and lesbian girls, but so many of them are jealous and upset if the guys are having fun with each other. Usually the guys are having fun with her too, so I don't see why they should control what else the guys do and insist on soaking up or focusing all the attention on themselves. What greed.

The last part makes sense, she wants to know what she's comfortable with. I think I'd can go both ways. But it's better to get more intimate by honestly sharing what you want to see each other do and actually do it.

 

[JamesHenry70]

My wife would want me there to watch and help her,she’d leave the discion to me,she knows I’d be very happy for her

 

[hiker283]

My wife is absolute that I cannot watch her with another man. Also absolute that there will not be pictures or videos.

 

[Mike302]

My wife is absolute that I cannot watch her with another man. Also absolute that there will not be pictures or videos.

Oh, those are pretty much forbidden for me, too! She would accept photos or videos on non-connected devices kept a short time before destruction. I may have some leeway with photos that don't include the face.

Pics with someone else? No way she'd allow that.

 

[loves3spooge]

If it were up to me, I would make my husband hide in the closet. When the other guy is fucking me, I would glance at the small crack of the closet and see if he is looking at us. Its really fucking hot when someone is spying at me when I'm fucking another guy.

But this is still a fantasy, for now...

 

[CuckToWife]

My wife always wants me there watching, perhaps taking some pictures and helping in whatever way she and her lover want.

 

[cowboyup6977]

We always play together

 

[lc69hunter]

Depends upon the relationship between the married couple. My second wife and I played all the variations

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

My wife knows she could, and reserves the right, but has never had serious interest in it.

I'm going to ask her this question but I'm also curious what other women would want or what guys think their wives would want.

Here is the question:

She's going to have sex with another guy. She doesn't want the guys playing with each other, it's all about her. Does she want:

1. To be alone with the guy

2. Have you in another room, listening

3. Have you in the same room, watching

4. Have you in the same room and on the bed, helping them, in either a supportive role or full participation


I'm going to guess my wife's answer. I think it will be a "it depends". #1 wouldn't happen unless she knew the guy extremely well. I doubt she'd want #2 or #3 because she'd find that distracting and a little cruel to me. I think she'll say #4.

I gotta be there!

 

[screwher]

With her current boyfriend, my wife has her sex with him at our place in our bedroom. I love watching them obviously. But Mrs. Screwher is still a bit inhibited with me in the room. So we’ve developed a compromise of sorts. I watch their first session. Then leave the room to give them privacy to fuck again.

So if it were 100% her choice, my wife would want either:
1. To be alone with him or 2. In our house but with me listening.

 

[screwher]

It seems that cuckoldress wives don't want the husband in with a new lover the first time or few times, and then when they get comfortable, they might be okay with him watching and maybe joining.

I agree. I’m able to watch my wife with her current lover. But I know there will be more men ( hopefully sooner than later). And I know for at least the first time with a new man, she s going to want total privacy. So that means either his place, I get them a hotel room or our place and I step out for the evening. And I understand that I may never get the opportunity to watch her again.

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

My wife knows she could, and reserves the right, but has never had serious interest in it.

I'm going to ask her this question but I'm also curious what other women would want or what guys think their wives would want.

Here is the question:

She's going to have sex with another guy. She doesn't want the guys playing with each other, it's all about her. Does she want:

1. To be alone with the guy

2. Have you in another room, listening

3. Have you in the same room, watching

4. Have you in the same room and on the bed, helping them, in either a supportive role or full participation


I'm going to guess my wife's answer. I think it will be a "it depends". #1 wouldn't happen unless she knew the guy extremely well. I doubt she'd want #2 or #3 because she'd find that distracting and a little cruel to me. I think she'll say #4.

My wife would be fine with any of these, with a guy, but if she got together with a woman (which she'd like to try) she'd prefer to be alone with her. I think this is more because it's a new/different experience (she's been alone with plenty of guys), rather than her being jealous of anything that might happen between me and said woman.