Wife is into being a victim

[paplayingcouple]

How can i help create a situation where she would be a victim, but under fairly safe circumstances?

 

[Yang4yin]

How about a kidnap scene with a friend? Arrange a place and time for her to be blindfolded, bound and abducted, staying nearby, of course. Have the friend deliver her to a predetermined location (while you follow). With her still bound and blindfolded, make her your victim.

 

[wyckdwench]

Has she really told you that? You need to find out exactly what her boundaries are so that she isn't pushed to the point that she doesn't enjoy it. Definitely has to be a trust issue there - make sure that she knows she won't be hurt whatsoever. I wouldn't arrange it without you playing a part. If it were a thing with a friend I would say be in the vehicle but don't speak. Being there gives you more of a say in what happens. I would say work it out between the men so there is no guesswork but don't let her know when. Just be very careful period.

 

[SpencerAlanMacLeod]

These suggestions are reputedly from a policeman.
He made this advice public elsewhere on the net.

Write down exactly what is to happen on a piece of paper.
Have both her and anyone else involved sign this (including you).
Make sure that all names are also printed out, as well.
Carry this piece of paper with you during the scene.
Have a safe word or action that is clearly understood by all.

If the unthinkable should happen and you get stopped by the police, tell all.
Hold nothing back and even if you feel foolish, it's better than being charged.

 

[missofdarkness]

the "rape" is always 1 of the mostly erotic scene

 

[MechaBlade]

I approve of this thread.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Looking at other posts you have made about your lifestyle, I would say you need to discuss this with her initially, then take it from there. I imagine it is more a role play thing then actual making it feel real and believeable. The fact she already has sex with other men minimises some of the impact you can have by introducing someone else to your play. The reason you need to talk with her apart from covering your own arse is to get inside her head as to how it is most likely going to work for her.

Catalina

 

[Moxon4]

Great suggestions by the posters, especially about the pseudo contract, great suggestion.

The most important thing is to communicate with her as to what she wants and what her definition of "victim" is. Make sure everything is more or less known beforehand, talk it out, and then the real surprise isn't what is happening, but when its happening since conceivably it could take place at any time.

 

[liberatedslave]

As you're in an open marriage and your wife seems a very open minded lady maybe she could invite one of her dates to help play out a scenario. You say she likes aggressive men so surely one of her dates would be willing?

You could combine the 'victim' idea with the 'watching her get fucked' idea by collaborating with one of her dates to overpower and 'victimize' her. Make sure everyone has the same agreed safeword and hard limits for the scene. Get her consent but maybe keep the exact timing a secret so you have the element of surprise and 'attack'. The possibilities are endless - especially if she enjoys anal sex.

You could spring on her in the house, have your way with her and watch her service the other guy, then leave her locked in the room till round two. Make her feel like a kidnap victim by controlling her use of the bathroom, whether she eats etc. Maybe leave her tied up for a while or handcuffed to something just to reinforce the point. You could make a day or even a weekend of it if you wanted to.

By doing this at home your much less likely to get arrested for kidnap or indecent exposure. You could even plan it as an overnight stay in a hotel as long as you ensure the chambermaids don't get an eyeful or call the police.

Have fun whatever you do x

 

[catalina_francisco]

A precaution though, don't leave her in a room or elsewhere alone while restrained.

Catalina

 

[liberatedslave]

A precaution though, don't leave her in a room or elsewhere alone while restrained.

Catalina

Good point well made. That'll teach me to get carried away when scheming.

 

[KnightInArmour]

Well i guess i can make your job simple.
I can rape her while you watch.

 

[helix27]

As you're in an open marriage and your wife seems a very open minded lady maybe she could invite one of her dates to help play out a scenario. You say she likes aggressive men so surely one of her dates would be willing?

You could combine the 'victim' idea with the 'watching her get fucked' idea by collaborating with one of her dates to overpower and 'victimize' her. Make sure everyone has the same agreed safeword and hard limits for the scene. Get her consent but maybe keep the exact timing a secret so you have the element of surprise and 'attack'. The possibilities are endless - especially if she enjoys anal sex.

You could spring on her in the house, have your way with her and watch her service the other guy, then leave her locked in the room till round two. Make her feel like a kidnap victim by controlling her use of the bathroom, whether she eats etc. Maybe leave her tied up for a while or handcuffed to something just to reinforce the point. You could make a day or even a weekend of it if you wanted to.

By doing this at home your much less likely to get arrested for kidnap or indecent exposure. You could even plan it as an overnight stay in a hotel as long as you ensure the chambermaids don't get an eyeful or call the police.

Have fun whatever you do x

Wow! Liked that post alot! Very hot. Made my mind wonder and imagine lots of things. Anyone want to be a "victim"??

The contract post also sounds like a must have for this situation. Defiantly will have to remember that one. He does ask how to do it in safe circumstances so it does seem like he has her best interests in mind. (at least a lil )

Have you two already talked about this? Do you know more of what she may be looking for in this venture?