Wife Confessess Sexual Encounter

[cm1popeye]

I originally posted this in the How-To section, this is probably a better area. I came across a video where a wife was giving her husband a hand job and talking about sex with another man. This was amazing. I would love for my wife to do this to me. I just need to ask her. Not sure how to bring it up. Does anybody else enjoy this? Does anyone know where i can find other videos where the wife is telling her husband about sex with other people?

 

[Goey]

It might come under humiliation so look there in whatever tube like site your using.

As for asking for it try saying, "I would find it really hot if you jacked me off while telling me about having sex with another man"

- Simple. It never hurts to ask.

 

[DarkPleasures]

When seeking advice, the How To board is the correct one. I have noticed; however, that many different OPs tend to not like the advice given there.

Simply talking to your wife, sharing your fantasies, and asking her is the best way to go. Good luck!

 

[Johnnyboy30]

You should try talking with your wife about her sexual desires and fantasies and see where that takes you. Maybe she has already fantasized about it. Try a little dirty talk with her and talk about another man or if there is some movie star or model she has a star crush on, then try to get her to talk about that person. With some communication you can really get things moving in that direction in no time

 

[Blue_Duck]

Good luck with your efforts. I have been attempting/encouraging my wife to share her fantasies with me for years. She either does not have any or she ain't sharing. Again, good luck!

 

[fettpett1]

Good luck with your efforts. I have been attempting/encouraging my wife to share her fantasies with me for years. She either does not have any or she ain't sharing. Again, good luck!

know the feeling. Have the same issue, though the one that she did share was pretty hot

 

[earth7913]

I have had the same issue with my wife, she wont share at all. I did have an affair with a woman and she would tell me stories about being with other guys while we were having sex. Turned me on like you wouldnt believe!! Wish my wife would do that even is the story was made up.

 

[Goey]

I have had the same issue with my wife, she wont share at all. I did have an affair with a woman and she would tell me stories about being with other guys while we were having sex. Turned me on like you wouldnt believe!! Wish my wife would do that even is the story was made up.

What ever chance you had or exploring your fantasies with your wife died when you cheated on her. These things take trust.

 

[earth7913]

What ever chance you had or exploring your fantasies with your wife died when you cheated on her. These things take trust.

You are absolutley correct but it was the same even before the affair.

 

[Goey]

Maybe it's just me but there seems to be a lot of sexually incompatible relationships here. Didn't you mention your fantasies before committing your life to each other?

 

[marriedlooker73]

Wife and I have shared fantasies before. I love it when she talks dirty, and wish she was more comfortable doing it. Would love the dirty talk to include her experiences with her past lovers. I love when she used to make up stories about random encounters from her travels. All of the benefits of a slutwife with none of the downside.

 

[Goey]

Personally I'd avoid using past lovers, it's something I don't know of any women being comfortable with (even fake stories about real past lovers) but I can see no harm in her creating fictional past lover.

 

[earth7913]

Maybe it's just me but there seems to be a lot of sexually incompatible relationships here. Didn't you mention your fantasies before committing your life to each other?

We did but we were very young at the time and we really did not know what we wanted at that age. Also things change after 25 years of marraige and you dont always change in the same ways.

 

[infinity706]

Personally I'd avoid using past lovers, it's something I don't know of any women being comfortable with (even fake stories about real past lovers) but I can see no harm in her creating fictional past lover.

I actually don't have enough fingers to count the number of women that have described sex with past partners to me. Of course, it's probably related to my promotion of poly. It's always one of those things I bring up from the beginning.

 

[Goey]

Well rather different in you case giving the life-style. Poly has always interested me but my man doesn't seem keen on another woman being with us as more than a friend.

 

[Blue_Duck]

Maybe it's just me but there seems to be a lot of sexually incompatible relationships here. Didn't you mention your fantasies before committing your life to each other?

Yes I did. While dating, the wife and I often enjoyed a running threesome with my best friend (once with one of her girlfriends). After we married, we continued the threesome with my friend. After we moved away from my friend the fun stopped. We still have sex, but no amount of alcohol or coaxing will get her to share a fantasy.....very very frustrating.

 

[Somehowyou]

What ever chance you had or exploring your fantasies with your wife died when you cheated on her. These things take trust.

This is the same Bull shit you get in the How Too thread...just don't tell her. what she does not know won't hurt her. Now if you want to get her to talk about other guys tell her while you are fooling around (during foreplay) that you are jealous of other men around her and that it excites you and you dont really understand it. See if she catches on. Mine did and that has been a source of fun.

 

[klippert]

Everyone has a fetish. I personally find it exciting knowing about Mrs K's sexual past. On the other hand. She isn't the least bit interested in mine.

 

[Skeebo11]

Maybe it's just me but there seems to be a lot of sexually incompatible relationships here. Didn't you mention your fantasies before committing your life to each other?

Most people when they are young have no idea of how their sexual relationship will evolve. Most of the time, the guy in the relationship is happy just to cum. As time goes by, things change.

The problem is that most couples fantasies do not take the same path, and with some couples (Me included) those fantasies are frowned on.......

It is total B.S that you even write this........Pretty sanctamonious really.......

 

[Goey]

Most people when they are young have no idea of how their sexual relationship will evolve. Most of the time, the guy in the relationship is happy just to cum. As time goes by, things change.

The problem is that most couples fantasies do not take the same path, and with some couples (Me included) those fantasies are frowned on.......

It is total B.S that you even write this........Pretty sanctamonious really.......

I'm not saying people don't change and that every one should love every fantasy under the sun (being urinated on twice was twice too many for me) but the sheer amount of PMs and posts I read about how "boring" someone's wife is is staggering. Specially how it's always her fault, as if she just one day said "Nope, it's been 3 years - not doing that any more!"

Sure she may now be unwilling to discuss fantasies with you, or she isn't keen on things she was in the past but it's not like it just happened one day. Sex is a big part of a relationship and when sexual behaviour changes it's because the relationship has. Instead of men just throwing up they're hands and saying "Well I tried!" after asking a few times to talk about it I believe that if more care was given it would have never go to that state in the first place.

I'm not saying this is the case every time and sometimes it is just a case of "tough luck" but I still feel in many cases it's too little too late.

 

[racerXXXXXX]

I have my wife tell me about her past (fictional) sexual adventures. Our conversation might go something like this "you really love sucking on that cock don't you" and she will stop sucking and look up at me and say "yes I love cocks in my mouth and pussy", me "wow you really are a slut aren't you"? Her "yes", I love cock. Me "have you ever fucked more than one cock at a time"? Her "sure, when I was in college or on a trip ect. etc. etc.

It's gotten to the point where if we are doing a quicky and she wants me to cum faster she will start this kind of slutty talk.

This type of thing is incorporated in our role playing as well. For instance, I may come home from work at lunch and knock on the door and pretent to be a young laborer and she invites me in and assumes the role of a horney housewife etc.

 

[foxpass]

God, you don't know how hot this makes me.

 

[cm1popeye]

I have talked to her about this and she gets very aroused while i am talking about her having sex with others. She even ordered a video along the theme. She is opening up. I love it.