wife and ex boyfriend

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[ickle_stace]

Hello everyone.

My wife is out tonight celebrating her birthday in a town about 45 minutes away. Just before she left she made a phone call to her ex boyfriend. Now, I knew she was going over there and that she likes to go over there to catch a buzz. Tonite she is going to stay out late and sleep over at her sister's. Usually she'll come home at 2:30 am with all her makeup worn off and all disheveled. We have talked about her ex a lot. She goes out there at least once a month to see him. I have no problem with this and have told her that over and over. She has said things like "she's the closest thing to a girlfriend he has" and "if she wasn't married she'd still be his piece of ass".

I can understand if she wants a little privacy about it but, she knows I would like to know what is happening between them. I am one of those men who like to think about his wife with another man. I don't think of her as a "slut" or "whore" and have told her that. She had an affair with a different ex last fall and he ended up being an asshole to her, judging her for what she did. Go figure. I think she has some trust issues in that respect, but I assure her that I would never flip out on her or be judgmental. I just want her to go out and enjoy herself with no strings attached.

So, how do I get her to open up about it?

just have to explain to her that you love the thought of her with another guy, and if you show her she has the opportunity to turn you on with it then maybe she will tell you about it if she wants to

 

[eunuch]

Here is what I did...

I am one of those men who like to think about his wife with another man. I don't think of her as a "slut" or "whore" and have told her that. ... I just want her to go out and enjoy herself with no strings attached.

So, how do I get her to open up about it?

I invited him to meet me. Showed him I was not gonna shoot him or something. Then we made a plan to seduce her together after dinner. He was at our house when she got home from school. He and I were outside drinking beer and cooking some steaks.

She was more tense than anybody else. After dinner and a couple glasses of wine I began carressing her in front of him. Slowly at first. Then opened up her blouse and exposed her to him. Nothing he hadn't seen before but he and she were visably shaking with anticipation.

Well... we wound up screwing the heck out of her all night. We talked about it after he left. He cam back a few days later for another threesome.

She still went out with her girlfriends - met up with him and they still had sex together without me around. She would come home at 6 or 5 in the morning still filled with his juices and crawl into bed with me. She'd give me a blow-by-blow of their evening and I'd end up dumping my load in her along with his. This became a regular part of our lovemaking.

She just needed another man. I just needed her to have him. After that first evening there was no more tension, no more worring about getting caught, just some of the best sex and memories we ever had...

 

[MissL36]

Maybe your wife does not wish to exploit what she has with her ex. to please you. It's not all about YOU! Maybe it is meaningful to her. Maybe it is for her.