Why

[Nobody Special's wife]

Why do lovers always fight I hate it when me and the hubby fight. We just got done haveing one..I was angry because he made me feel stupid ....I hate that but I know he didn't mean too....So I'm sitting here in tears and he is riding around in the car cooling off....Yet usaually when we fight we have great sex But this time it was different I was really hurt by this..SO now I'm sitting here crying to all of you....Damb men!!!

 

[Sammyjo]

Honest to God...don't ever get married...that way when the fights get bad, you don't have to go through legal channels to get out!!!

And seriously, I can't believe Eric would make anyone feel stupid...there must be a side to him I don't know yet.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

he came home and said" ilove you" ahhhhhhhhh

 

[Sammyjo]

And you are gonna fall for this???? What is wrong with you woman? Don't you get it? Live and Learn...

 

[ranajja]

Sammyjo - marriage is absolutely great--with the right one, of course.

NSW - Anger is different from rage. Anger is healthy and can be vented easily, rage is not healthy 'cause it stays inside and festers. Fight fair, cool off and make up. And you're right, making up is the fuuuuun part....

 

[Guest]

Christy, babe, hang in there. If ever you need to talk, you know my screen name. I hope things work out. The best thing is for you two to keep open communication. Hell, that's why my ex and I are now exes... We fought a lot and didn't talk honestly about our feelings...