Why so wet?

[Guest]

Not really a how to, today I was happily going at it with my partner and he occasionally makes comment about how wet I am, times before this I thought he liked it since I get really wet really fast. But today I was so wet I left a rather big wet spot on the mattress, he pointed it out but I figured it was normal, I mean considering the circumstances but it made me wonder, is it normal? is there a point to where too wet is actually bad? Should I be going to my gyno about it?

 

[Reba67]

If the wetness has a foul odour, then you should see your doctor. If not, then just put a towel under yourself and enjoy.

 

[smexygirl]

i grt very wet very fast

 

[Guest]

If the wetness has a foul odour, then you should see your doctor. If not, then just put a towel under yourself and enjoy.

It doesn't, it smells same as ever, I was cleaning up and I jokingly told my partner that it was wrong, and he agreed. I feel like I grossed him out haha

 

[emap]

If it smells fine there is nothing wrong, though perhaps cut down on your liquid intakes before sex, or drink alchohol it has the same effect. If it happens again simply tell your guy you were just so ready to have him you were in flood mode, total ego boost and guys love that.

 

[Darla_Darling]

Not really a how to, today I was happily going at it with my partner and he occasionally makes comment about how wet I am, times before this I thought he liked it since I get really wet really fast. But today I was so wet I left a rather big wet spot on the mattress, he pointed it out but I figured it was normal, I mean considering the circumstances but it made me wonder, is it normal? is there a point to where too wet is actually bad? Should I be going to my gyno about it?

Seriously? Of course there's nothing wrong with that! It's weird if he thinks that ISN'T normal.

 

[hidden_shadow]

That's only "wrong" in all the right ways! Seriously, that is incredibly hot, and he should be taking it as a compliment that he turns you on so much that you soak the mattress.

 

[satindesire]

If he is grossed out by it, then he's a little too sexually immature, dontcha think?

 

[Experiencedguy]

Christ, what's wrong with that guy

Don't you know, the wetter, the better.

To be real blunt, the best fuck of my life was the wettest gal. She was so hot, I couldn't stop (didn't even get soft) and I came at least twice (and she usually more). Most guys would kill for a woman like you. You should feel proud, and he should be thrilled that you are so into it.

 

[wildehafer]

He should be going down on you and lapping up all that sweet nectar

 

[Gaslamp_Society]

i agree, nothing wrong with that.... while you can't control his like/dislikes, he must also realize that he can't control your biology. his response sounded a little rejecting which probably wasn't his intent. talk it out and see it through...nothing worse than having insecurity enter into a sex life.

oh yeah, i'm new, so i apologize i'm i'm a little too fresh on the boards to blather on your personal matters.

 

[Guest]

i agree, nothing wrong with that.... while you can't control his like/dislikes, he must also realize that he can't control your biology. his response sounded a little rejecting which probably wasn't his intent. talk it out and see it through...nothing worse than having insecurity enter into a sex life.

oh yeah, i'm new, so i apologize i'm i'm a little too fresh on the boards to blather on your personal matters.

haha thanks, don't worry about it, it did feel a bit offensive since before this time he was usually amazed at how wet i'd get. I dont know why he doesn't take it as a compliment, its kind of weird.

If he is grossed out by it, then he's a little too sexually immature, dontcha think?

a little too immature in a lot of ways actually.

 

[infinity706]

Seriously? Of course there's nothing wrong with that! It's weird if he thinks that ISN'T normal.

Well, it's not "normal." Most women don't get so wet that they literally drip. It's not like it's really a bad thing, though, unless the woman gets so wet so fast and easily she has to wear maxi pads every day so she doesn't soak her pants or gets so slippery it affects her and her partner's enjoyment. It's not really any bigger of a deal than cum leaking out or women that squirt making a mess. Just get a towel like was said, and be pleased you have enough lube that you can enjoy yourself. Besides, you probably won't be able to soak things forever. That lube production will slow down with age, so you'll probably get to be one of the lucky ones that won't need a tube of KY or Astroglide to get fucked comfortably, by the time you hit menopause .

 

[george51]

I'm no doctor, but I think it would be marvellous...

 

[cowslinger64]

That lube production will slow down with age, so you'll probably get to be one of the lucky ones that won't need a tube of KY or Astroglide to get fucked comfortably, by the time you hit menopause .[/QUOTE]

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Not so sure about that...the wettest women I have been with, have been in their mid to late 40's. One woman was 49, and I was 40...we had to keep a towel handy and every now and then, wipe her off. I have a friend that only in the last few years, is exactly the same way, plus she's turned into a squirter....and I have known a couple others that started squirting when they had gotten into their 40's. Maybe it's just finally being in tune with their bodies, I dunno...


So, I'm gonna have to disagree with the lube statement, in my experience, any ways.

 

[satindesire]

a little too immature in a lot of ways actually.

Oh, honey, I'm sorry.

Well, if it bothers you, you should tell him. It's not like you can control it. You're a woman, not a sink.

 

[infinity706]

That lube production will slow down with age, so you'll probably get to be one of the lucky ones that won't need a tube of KY or Astroglide to get fucked comfortably, by the time you hit menopause .

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Not so sure about that...the wettest women I have been with, have been in their mid to late 40's. One woman was 49, and I was 40...we had to keep a towel handy and every now and then, wipe her off. I have a friend that only in the last few years, is exactly the same way, plus she's turned into a squirter....and I have known a couple others that started squirting when they had gotten into their 40's. Maybe it's just finally being in tune with their bodies, I dunno...


So, I'm gonna have to disagree with the lube statement, in my experience, any ways.

I'm not surprised women would start squirting later. It's not generally something that just tends to happen without some effort for most women. It's also becoming much more popular in the mainstream that it's not only possible, but pretty neat instead of worrying about pissing themselves. If you had a friend that was wet enough to wipe off at 49, it's a pretty safe bet she was pretty soaked years ago too, though. Of course, things don't happen at the same rate for everyone, either. It's not only genes, but sex life, potential infections someone might have had (medicine is even finding out that cancers can be caused by hidden infections), and other things that might not even be currently known.

 

[TheMysticMan]

That's only "wrong" in all the right ways! Seriously, that is incredibly hot, and he should be taking it as a compliment that he turns you on so much that you soak the mattress.

Agreed, I've got a boner just from reading that. Wetness is hot! And even if he doesn't agree, he'll get used to it. My mates girlfriend does the same, they just enjoy it.

 

[Bigsexynipples]

Nothing wrong with it!! Enjoy it..
i get soaked too and there is always a wet stain after all is said and done hehe
you just get very wet..same with guys- some cum buckets, and some dont cum as much....

 

[revchev]

Not really a how to, today I was happily going at it with my partner and he occasionally makes comment about how wet I am, times before this I thought he liked it since I get really wet really fast. But today I was so wet I left a rather big wet spot on the mattress, he pointed it out but I figured it was normal, I mean considering the circumstances but it made me wonder, is it normal? is there a point to where too wet is actually bad? Should I be going to my gyno about it?

Hold your head high girl, there is NOTHING wrong with you. Hopefully you will someday have a lover that can unleash your O to the point you have to start building an Ark! With a wet girl it's easy to see how good it was for them, just remember to slide your ass to his side of the bed and make HIM sleep in the wet spot

 

[Guest]

Well, it's not "normal." Most women don't get so wet that they literally drip. It's not like it's really a bad thing, though, unless the woman gets so wet so fast and easily she has to wear maxi pads every day so she doesn't soak her pants or gets so slippery it affects her and her partner's enjoyment. It's not really any bigger of a deal than cum leaking out or women that squirt making a mess. Just get a towel like was said, and be pleased you have enough lube that you can enjoy yourself. Besides, you probably won't be able to soak things forever. That lube production will slow down with age, so you'll probably get to be one of the lucky ones that won't need a tube of KY or Astroglide to get fucked comfortably, by the time you hit menopause .

Okay well its not that extreme, I'm not wet or dripping all the time to be wearing maxi pads or anything, it just happens when I'm really turned on which is usually when I'm doing stuff with him, so its not that bad haha, the last couple of times I've left considerable-sized stains on the bed covers and couch but its really only then.

Hold your head high girl, there is NOTHING wrong with you. Hopefully you will someday have a lover that can unleash your O to the point you have to start building an Ark! With a wet girl it's easy to see how good it was for them, just remember to slide your ass to his side of the bed and make HIM sleep in the wet spot

hahaha will do

 

[BBW_Goddess_Anna]

It is totally fine! I get VERY wet too. I stay mildly wet most of the time, so there never is a "wait to get wet" period for me. If he has a problem with it, he is most likely no used to it. I have never needed lube, ever, & some women out there can't have sex without it, so consider yourself LUCKY!! Good luck with him too!

 

[tastykandykane]

My gf is 55 and for the last 5 years things have gotten wetter and wetter.... once we realized how wonderful the feelings could be we decided to see how wet we could really get things....... if your open minded go for it youll never regret it !!!!!
Just hang on when your partner dives in for oral when your wet......... he better wear a snorkel its going to get wetter............. hey if we were made to have that happen, were also supposed to enjoy it
dn

 

[subwannabe]

My wife can make a good sized wet spot on the mattress. We usually always have to use a towel to lap it up.

 

[ThinkWrite]

For him to cause you to feel anything less than wonderful about your sexual response is a "violation." Next cold night he has to sleep on the wet spot