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koalabear said:
don't really give a fuck what you think....you stuck your nose in......you got my three cents...tough shit if you don't like it....they have an iggy button. So who is the dumb ass....you are still talking to me.....and yes I am an asshole......
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dude, so much anger? :kiss:
 
southerntierguy said:
I hate to say this, but maybe your beliefs need some adjustment. And it shouldn't hurt your heart and soul to see the truth.

There are a number of people who are rather scummy. It doesn't mean everyone is, and it doesn't mean that you are some sort og magnet for them. They just are there in the general populace, and if you think people are different than that, you are wrong.

Frankly, maybe on just a couple of occasions you should refuse impolitely, and in public, just so the word will get around. :rolleyes:
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I don't think it's my beliefs that need the adjustments. I don't think there is anything wrong with believing the good in people. some say that makes me stupid but so be it. I do realize there are scummy people out there and I realize that they are everywhere.... I'm just saying i've noticed a definate trend since I've hit 30.



koalabear said:
well, if you haven't noticed you are on a porn board. A porn board full of guys that as it appears rarely get sex, they will fuck a snake if someone holds it's head. Many love conning gals feeding them bullshit to get a piece of ass, happens all to often here. start by putting in your sig "NO MARRIED MEN" if they still PM, iggy them....simple things to do. Of course then they will just not tell you they are married. this isn't disneyland. keep being nice to the married men, they will keep bugging you. you will be conned lied to any and other devious maneuver created by man to use you. Welcome to Lit, enjoy your stay. and the same applies to real life......
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I'm talking more in real life than on here. And just because this is a porn site doesn't mean that there aren't decent people on here. I count myself on that list. Just because I enjoy sex doesn't mean that I can't have morals too.



As for everyone else I appreciate the advice and I don't want to start a war. I'm just looking for some explainations. I guess it's more of a what is the mentality of someone who would "cheat" on their partner? I know there are individual cases to look at but is it just for sex? And why risk the emotional connection you have with someone else just to get your rocks off?
 
myth1exists said:
I don't think it's my beliefs that need the adjustments. I don't think there is anything wrong with believing the good in people. some say that makes me stupid but so be it. I do realize there are scummy people out there and I realize that they are everywhere.... I'm just saying i've noticed a definate trend since I've hit 30.





I'm talking more in real life than on here. And just because this is a porn site doesn't mean that there aren't decent people on here. I count myself on that list. Just because I enjoy sex doesn't mean that I can't have morals too.



As for everyone else I appreciate the advice and I don't want to start a war. I'm just looking for some explainations. I guess it's more of a what is the mentality of someone who would "cheat" on their partner? I know there are individual cases to look at but is it just for sex? And why risk the emotional connection you have with someone else just to get your rocks off?
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same goes for real life........men are just dogs out sniffing.;)
 
myth1exists said:
As for everyone else I appreciate the advice and I don't want to start a war. I'm just looking for some explainations. I guess it's more of a what is the mentality of someone who would "cheat" on their partner? I know there are individual cases to look at but is it just for sex? And why risk the emotional connection you have with someone else just to get your rocks off?
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There are any number of threads here about men and women who's spouses have lost interest in sex but the rest of the relationship is still intact. It is possible to "get your rocks off" without losing everything else. But without knowing more about the guys who hit on you, who's to say why?
 
No these three gentlemen are not close friends. They were customers at work. I simply helped them find something they were looking for ie a toy for their kid for christmas. They asked me out when I helped them and as a woman does I glanced at the ring finger and there it was. I always ask and what would your wife think of that? and the response is usually a Does it really matter? To which I reply No thanks.

Go figure.

And guys if you don't behave I will have to report you. seriously i'm just looking for advice here. take your fighting elsewhere.
 
myth1exists said:
No these three gentlemen are not close friends. They were customers at work. I simply helped them find something they were looking for ie a toy for their kid for christmas. They asked me out when I helped them and as a woman does I glanced at the ring finger and there it was. I always ask and what would your wife think of that? and the response is usually a Does it really matter? To which I reply No thanks.

Go figure.

And guys if you don't behave I will have to report you. seriously i'm just looking for advice here. take your fighting elsewhere.
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eh?

i gave some advice.

here
 
myth1exists said:
No these three gentlemen are not close friends. They were customers at work. I simply helped them find something they were looking for ie a toy for their kid for christmas. They asked me out when I helped them and as a woman does I glanced at the ring finger and there it was. I always ask and what would your wife think of that? and the response is usually a Does it really matter? To which I reply No thanks.

Go figure.

And guys if you don't behave I will have to report you. seriously i'm just looking for advice here. take your fighting elsewhere.
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and my advice still stands, men are dogs always sniffing. here or real life. Married guys don't care if there is a ring or not. look at the high divorce rate.
 
geronimo_appleby said:
mebbe just tell 'em, 'no thanks'. if they're players they'll move the hunt on perhaps?

as for the 'vibe' thing? possible, but that doesn't come across via lit very efficiently. is there a r/l female friend you can ask about this?
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Yes and I have asked her. but her being a married woman she's not out there on the market and getting these "offers". And she has not viable advice to give.
 
myth1exists said:
No these three gentlemen are not close friends. They were customers at work. I simply helped them find something they were looking for ie a toy for their kid for christmas. They asked me out when I helped them and as a woman does I glanced at the ring finger and there it was. I always ask and what would your wife think of that? and the response is usually a Does it really matter? To which I reply No thanks.

Go figure.

And guys if you don't behave I will have to report you. seriously i'm just looking for advice here. take your fighting elsewhere.
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Fair enough. The only thing I can think of is that you're just very hot. :D

Seriously, that's low rent.
 
koalabear said:
and my advice still stands, men are dogs always sniffing. here or real life. Married guys don't care if there is a ring or not. look at the high divorce rate.
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True true. so your advice is Men are dogs. Not very helpful. It just seems like the ONLY people who are interested in me are married. Why is it so wrong for me to think that that is wrong?
 
myth1exists said:
True true. so your advice is Men are dogs. Not very helpful. It just seems like the ONLY people who are interested in me are married. Why is it so wrong for me to think that that is wrong?
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In a strange quirk of fate, I used to get hit on a lot more when I was married. When the ring came off, the flirting came to a grinding halt :confused:

Maybe it was because I was married, and therefore inaccessible, and therefore safe
 
myth1exists said:
True true. so your advice is Men are dogs. Not very helpful. It just seems like the ONLY people who are interested in me are married. Why is it so wrong for me to think that that is wrong?
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it's not, you just have morals.
 
myth1exists said:
And you think that's wrong? Is it wrong for me to ask the questions I am? Is it wrong to try and understand something that has been bothering me for weeks?
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nope, very few have morals these days...good on you. nothing wrong with you, just society.
 
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