Why!!! It's Cheating!!

[thedopestt]

Those who has a wife/husband/bf/gf, arent you cheating by posting ur own naked pictures?!!!!

If you are single, I guess I may understand...

BUT what if you are engaged and going to marry in one month?!!!

I am thedopestt's fiancee and I just found out that he posted his own pic, looked at other girls' thread here, and pm them asking for more pics and chats here. I could never imagine this. It's cheating! compeletly cheating! I really dont understand you guys posting pictures here. I came from a conservative family, and seriously this disgusts me!!

Have you guys ever confessed to ur significant half that you have this kind of hobby?! Are you honest to her/him? Have you ever thought about how hurtful he/she will be if he/she finds out? If you say it's not cheating, cause you didnt cheat physically, I say FUCK THAT! IT IS CHEATING!

 

[goatchick1]

Those who has a wife/husband/bf/gf, arent you cheating by posting ur own naked pictures?!!!!

If you are single, I guess I may understand...

BUT what if you are engaged and going to marry in one month?!!!

I am thedopestt's fiancee and I just found out that he posted his own pic, looked at other girls' thread here, and pm them asking for more pics and chats here. I could never imagine this. It's cheating! compeletly cheating! I really dont understand you guys posting pictures here. I came from a conservative family, and seriously this disgusts me!!

Have you guys ever confessed to ur significant half that you have this kind of hobby?! Are you honest to her/him? Have you ever thought about how hurtful he/she will be if he/she finds out? If you say it's not cheating, cause you didnt cheat physically, I say FUCK THAT! IT IS CHEATING!

i'm sorry but this is just about the funniest thing i have read here lately (not counting the idiot people who are just here to say bad stuff to people).....i say, if you are gonna marry this guy in a month then maybe, just maybe, you should put that idea on the shelf for awhile....and then secondly, IF there are people here that are hiding something in their lives from a significant other, i fail to see where that is even remotely any of your business.....soooooo, let me suggest that maybe you just get over your little hissy fit and hey, how bout a picture of your tits????. afterall, this IS a picture forum.

and fyi, i am single and whether you understand my reasons for being here or condon it does not rate high on my priority list.....

 

[NJtoCalifornia]

Looks like somebody is in a heap of trouble tonight...

 

[goatchick1]

Looks like somebody is in a heap of trouble tonight...

lmao still.....i'm bettin he best get used to it.

 

[NJtoCalifornia]

Your suggestion at the end of your post is classic though. "Hey this IS a picture forum." LOL. Somehow I don't think she'll oblige.

 

[kellieanne]

thanks for the chuckle you guys...I too am single and have no one to answer to persay....and well I guess the one that made this post has had her eyes opened to the real world? maybe?

 

[kellieanne]

also under her nick name it says experienced so that means that there have been repsonses to postings....right??? hmmmmmm well then I say fair is fair wouldn't you?

 

[_stryder_]

The best way to get even with him is to post your own pics.

 

[goatchick1]

thanks for the chuckle you guys...I too am single and have no one to answer to persay....and well I guess the one that made this post has had her eyes opened to the real world? maybe?

kinda like...."can open, worms EVERYWHERE!!!!!!"

 

[kellieanne]

kinda like...."can open, worms EVERYWHERE!!!!!!"

HAHAHAHAHA YES YES IT IS

 

[goatchick1]

The best way to get even with him is to post your own pics.

i agree totally, now come on honey, have him snap a few real quick......i'm anxious to see what you have to offer physically that is gonna override your irrationality.

 

[vanoss]

Your suggestion at the end of your post is classic though. "Hey this IS a picture forum." LOL. Somehow I don't think she'll oblige.

I guess the question she should ask is "why did he feel the need to login on here". Your right...put this gig on hold baby until you can figure out why you are not fulfilling him. She calls it cheating? I say it is safer then some other alternatives. No matter what goes on here I love my husband only and if he says to stop this....I will. Until then ooolala ps...let me see your......

 

[Wyld52771]

Speaking as a man who has been with my wife for fifteen years, married for nine of them, I can say that one person's definition of cheating does not fit another's. Of course, I also never tried to hide the fact that I occasionally browsed on here either. My wife is well aware....I've never hid it from her.

Perhaps if I had visited here secretly, looking at pictures, fantasizing and such without my wife being aware of it, I might agree that it was decietful, and could be considered cheating, by some people's definition...but not all the married men here fall in that mold. Some of us have significant others who are well aware of the fact we are here, and are fine with it.

So, attacking everyone who visits here, generalizing and catagorizing us into a stereotype of us all being lying, cheating, unfaithful husbands, to fit your own viewpoints probably isn't the best way to win anyone over...not that this was your goal here. *shrugs*

At any rate, perhaps the main issue shouldn't be the websites he is visiting, that upsets you, but the fact that he kept information from you...which really has nothing to do with any of the rest of us here.

Anyway, that being said, I do feel bad, and am sorry that you had to find out something like this by accident (or by checking up on him). In either case, it shows that you two may need to have a long, open chat with each other, as there seem to be some major trust issues going on between you.


~Wyld

 

[thedopestt]

Yes, this really greatly hurt my confidence.

I wish he could be honest telling me about the needs. but he didnt. He says I am the sexiest, and when I wasnt around, he came here!? Lier!

U didnt tell ur husband, and you shared ur body with other men. That's against the spirit of marriage to me. Marriage should be "one and only" and if not, then why need to get married?!!

I guess the question she should ask is "why did he feel the need to login on here". You right...put this gig on hold until I can figure out why I am not fulfilling him. She calls it cheating? I say it is safer then some other alternatives. No matter what goes on here I love my husband only and if he says to stop this....I will. Until then ooolala

 

[kellieanne]

Speaking as a man who has been with my wife for fifteen years, married for nine of them, I can say that one person's definition of cheating does not fit another's. Of course, I also never tried to hide the fact that I occasionally browsed on here either. My wife is well aware....I've never hid it from her.

Perhaps if I had visited here secretly, looking at pictures, fantasizing and such without my wife being aware of it, I might agree that it was decietful, and could be considered cheating, by some people's definition...but not all the married men here fall in that mold. Some of us have significant others who are well aware of the fact we are here, and are fine with it.

So, attacking everyone who visits here, generalizing and catagorizing us into a stereotype of us all being lying, cheating, unfaithful husbands, to fit your own viewpoints probably isn't the best way to win anyone over...not that this was your goal here. *shrugs*

At any rate, perhaps the main issue shouldn't be the websites he is visiting, that upsets you, but the fact that he kept information from you...which really has nothing to do with any of the rest of us here.

Anyway, that being said, I do feel bad, and am sorry that you had to find out something like this by accident (or by checking up on him). In either case, it shows that you two may need to have a long, open chat with each other, as there seem to be some major trust issues going on between you.


~Wyld

TOTALLY GREAT POINTs! KUDDOS TO YOU!!

 

[kellieanne]

Yes, this really greatly hurt my confidence.

I wish he could be honest telling me about the needs. but he didnt. He says I am the sexiest, and when I wasnt around, he came here!? Lier!

U didnt tell ur husband, and you shared ur body with other men. That's against the spirit of marriage to me. Marriage should be "one and only" and if not, then why need to get married?!!

I think you need to have a major sit down with your boyfriend then

 

[oldasshippy]

i'm sorry but this is just about the funniest thing i have read here lately (not counting the idiot people who are just here to say bad stuff to people).....i say, if you are gonna marry this guy in a month then maybe, just maybe, you should put that idea on the shelf for awhile....and then secondly, IF there are people here that are hiding something in their lives from a significant other, i fail to see where that is even remotely any of your business.....soooooo, let me suggest that maybe you just get over your little hissy fit and hey, how bout a picture of your tits????. afterall, this IS a picture forum.

and fyi, i am single and whether you understand my reasons for being here or condon it does not rate high on my priority list.....

Get em Chickie !!! lmfao maybe she should figure out how to turn him on more ?

 

[oldasshippy]

Even President Bill Clinton didnt consider oral sex to be cheating so whats with a photo ??

 

[koalabear]

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[goatchick1]

Even President Bill Clinton didnt consider oral sex to be cheating so whats with a photo ??

OMG!!!! LMAO

 

[kellieanne]

Even President Bill Clinton didnt consider oral sex to be cheating so whats with a photo ??

HAHAHAHAH SOOO FREAKING TRUE!!! hahahahahahahahah

 

[kellieanne]

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn233/koalabear_photo/worthless.gif​

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

 

[vanoss]

Yes, this really greatly hurt my confidence.

I wish he could be honest telling me about the needs. but he didnt. He says I am the sexiest, and when I wasnt around, he came here!? Lier!

U didnt tell ur husband, and you shared ur body with other men. That's against the spirit of marriage to me. Marriage should be "one and only" and if not, then why need to get married?!!

Sweety, I am not a marriage counselor but I can tell you that early in our marriage I told hubby if you have a fantasy I will fulfill it...no questions asked. Things we experienced made our sex life together even better. AIt isn't for everyone but you can't label these people here because of your opinion. If you do feel that way simply....log out!

 

[kellieanne]

Sweety, I am not a marriage counselor but I can tell you that early in our marriage I told hubby if you have a fantasy I will fulfill it...no questions asked. Things we experienced made our sex life together even better. AIt isn't for everyone but you can't label these people here because of your opinion. If you do feel that way simply....log out!

another great point too and love your quote at the bottom of your post...there is love and then there is just sex! that too is VERY TRUE!

 

[vanoss]

another great point too and love your quote at the bottom of your post...there is love and then there is just sex! that too is VERY TRUE!

I have only had a few experiences with other men with my husband present. Since we began here that probably won't happen anymore. People here find common interests and they don't label one another. I chatted with a few men and women on here and they are good folks.