why is she reading this

[wildrain]

 

[lilfrk]

Because she can.

Just because she READS a story about a gangband doesn't mean she want to DO a gangbang. It also doesn't mean she wants to WATCH one in a porno movie either. Women aren't visual like men. Her fantasies inside her head are fueled by the words she reads. Some women like to keep them right there, in their heads where they are safe.

 

[morninggirl5]

Second opinion.

Because she READS.

I read a great many stories, even some that are a turn-off, but I love to read and each one I read is a new experience, a new story, a new way of looking at how people interact.

Compare it to serial killer books. Some people truly enjoy reading those type of books, but would never want to watch a movie about a serial killer and certainly wouldn't consider it as a career choice.


Best advice --- ask her why she enjoys reading them and what aspect is important to her.

 

[Guest]

You must not like the opinions of your fellow Litians.

This is the 3rd time you have posted the same question now. Are you not satisfied with our answers? It seems to me that almost everyone who took the time to answer you has said basically the same thing. We're not gonna change our answers and we're not gonna help you "make" your girlfriend dothe things you want her to. Just face that fact and move on.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

 

[Gilly Bean]

Reading stories that are not the about the normal garde veriety sex allow people to fantasize, without having it happen, or without doing it. It gives them freedom to imagine what might happen if... Some of the stories might not nteres her as much as you think, either. Just because she started to read a story, doesn't mean she finishes it. I do that ALOT. I start a story, then don't like it, and stop reading. If you think she might be interested in something that you are also interested in, try talking with her about it.

 

[Guest]

Here, here!

4. Stop posting this question

 

[cyndiesweet]

Maybe she doesn't trust you enough to talk freely with you about sex.Some people require a very deep level of trust before they will open up about fantasies and sex.I f you have posted this question before and didn't listen to fellow lit readers maybe you are not listening to her either.

 

[SoftPeaches]

My husband was a little disconcerted when he realized I was posting on a board of this nature, especially when he realized I was not only reading these stories, posting, but that I was also submitting a couple of stories. It was an aspect of my sexuality that we had never really discussed, but I never tried to keep secret from him. He accepts it now with no problem (I think he was worried I was going to have some cyber-affair or something), and likes my stories. For me, erotic literature is more enticing than porn videos, because to a large extent, I control the images created by the author, and the dialogue (most of the time) is not nearly as cheesy as in porn flicks. Try to accept her interest in this, and perhaps your sex life will get better.
(I have not seen your other posts, so I don't know if you have already gotten similar advice. Hope this was helpful.)