Post menopause vaginal issues

Sad, a lot of us in the same boat
Yes. It’s lead to lots of conflict as my libido is still high and hers is near zero. I won’t cheat on her but have expanded my range of interests to include both men and women and lots of kink including exhibitionism. I do crave the feedback that pure solo masturbation lacks.
 
I'm sorry she's experiencing this..
I am 51 and losing my wetness is my fear.. I'm in menopause now, my libido isn't great, but I'm still wet..
but maybe try a water based or even silicone lube?
I use a water based, and love it!
D had the genius idea of getting coconut oil...the unclarified type used for cooking. He melts it into a container, puts it into the refrigerator (it goes solid at just below body temperature) and then he can then cut the block into long spears which we keep in the refrigerator. We get them out before sex and they're great for foreplay...love the feel of their coolness against my nipples and labia. If I'm having issues lubing, the spears slip inside my pussy nicely and I love how they feel cool in my as my body melts them into slickness. When he mounts me, I'm as slick as if I was ovulating.
 
Coconut oil gives my wife issues. So its been a long time. Plus even with the lube - back in the day my wife said it was VERY painful... So been since 2019... miss sliding in deep. Wont take anything thats cancer causing
 
Coconut oil gives my wife issues. So its been a long time. Plus even with the lube - back in the day my wife said it was VERY painful... So been since 2019... miss sliding in deep. Wont take anything thats cancer causing
same here.. she’s a breast cancer survivor so very careful about that.
 
I know I'm late on this post, but as someone mentioned here earlier, the "Mona Lisa" procedure is an excellent treatment for vaginal dryness and pain related to that condition. My wife, at the age of 49 or 50, had this done in her OB/GYN's office. She experienced little to no discomfort, and the results were amazing. It was as if a clock had been turned back 30 years. Her doctor told her at the time she might need to come in periodically for a "touch up", but it's now been 17 years and she's still doing great!
 
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