Why is it that while I get older...

mnwidrummer

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I also seem to get more and more horny? It's like I can't get enough sex, even though it doesn't happen enough, or even jerking off. I'm open to trying more things and just more exploring.

When does a Male reach their sexual peak? I'm 40 and I just can't seem to get enough lately.
 
I attribute horniness at an older age to the fact that I have a sex life.

When I was 23 and a virgin, being horny only means that I want some action. At 33, being horny not only means that I want some action but I know what the aforementioned action feels like and this increases my desire for action.
 
I think it's generally accepted that males are at their sexual peak at about 18 or 20. But at that age, they (we) don't tend to be very imaginative. That comes later. A chap in his 80s told me that, in his head, he was having some of the best sex ever. And now here I am heading for my 80s. Stand back, world. :)
 
It depends on how much testosterone a person is getting.

I have cancer and so I have prescriptions for it, and I can manipulate my sexual desires by taking more or less, I found out.

According to my endocrinologist, the non-prescription testosterone is fake and does not work, despite the advertising claims on television.
 
I am a woman so a different perspective. I am 63 and while I don't think I have gotten any hornier, I don't think I have gotten any less horny. Certainly I am not as agile as I used to be but the feelings are all still there and having learned how to get them makes it even better. Also being retired and having the time to think about and do fun things helps too. I think it is easy to settle into a rut as we get older, I am finding the more I do, the more I want to do it. I am sure there is an upper limit but I am talking about once a week moving up to 3 or 4 times a week. Perhaps the other key is being healthy and I have been lucky in that regard. I also think getting a bit more creative as we age helps. Don't rely on straight sex all the time but add more foreplay and spice things up with more variety.
 
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I am a woman so a different perspective. I am 63 and while I don't think I have gotten any hornier, I don't think I have gotten any less horny. Certainly I am not as agile as I used to be but the feelings are all still there and having learned how to get them makes it even better. Also being retired and having the time to think about and do fun things helps too. I think it is easy to settle into a rut as we get older, I am finding the more I do, the more I want to do it. I am sure there is an upper limit but I am talking about once a week moving up to 3 or 4 times a week. Perhaps the other key is being healthy and I have been lucky in that regard. I also think getting a bit more creative as we age helps. Don't rely on straight sex all the time but add more foreplay and spice things up with more variety.

Just want to say I enjoyed your post! Very insightful. I would like to hear more, please keep up the positive comments.

Btw Bobby here 61 year old man. Thanks again.
 
I am a woman so a different perspective. I am 63 and while I don't think I have gotten any hornier, I don't think I have gotten any less horny. Certainly I am not as agile as I used to be but the feelings are all still there and having learned how to get them makes it even better. Also being retired and having the time to think about and do fun things helps too. I think it is easy to settle into a rut as we get older, I am finding the more I do, the more I want to do it. I am sure there is an upper limit but I am talking about once a week moving up to 3 or 4 times a week. Perhaps the other key is being healthy and I have been lucky in that regard. I also think getting a bit more creative as we age helps. Don't rely on straight sex all the time but add more foreplay and spice things up with more variety.

Well said. My wife in menopause doesnt want to do anything... Sits , hangs in the house. I'm on the go, walk , hike etc. Always going. Trying to learn how to slow down and enjoy more. But for me I've always been the sexual one in our marriage. I love kissing- she dont, So it can be tuff. But my drive is very good or i wouldnt be on here. Summer here - so now to work on my no tan lines;)
 
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