Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[SmokingFap]

Like others have stated, anonymity is a pretty big factor and it is not polite water cooler talk. I don't discuss my masturbation proclivities at work or with friends. This is a safe place to be open and honest and just let go.
Here, I have found that many people share similar thoughts and feelings and there is some commonality. We all like how masturbation feels in our own ways. Sharing with like minds is so arousing.

Perfect. Well done.

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

For me a large aspect is that it's so personal, I'm getting myself off and know exactly how I like it and telling someone exactly what you want from them or are doing to yourself is so arousing. I also love knowing I'm getting someone to masturbate to or for me which in turn makes me hornier

 

[LizVegas79]

For me a large aspect is that it's so personal, I'm getting myself off and know exactly how I like it and telling someone exactly what you want from them or are doing to yourself is so arousing. I also love knowing I'm getting someone to masturbate to or for me which in turn makes me hornier

I agree 1,000%. This is the perfect answer on every level imho.

 

[LizVegas79]

Like others have stated, anonymity is a pretty big factor and it is not polite water cooler talk. I don't discuss my masturbation proclivities at work or with friends. This is a safe place to be open and honest and just let go.
Here, I have found that many people share similar thoughts and feelings and there is some commonality. We all like how masturbation feels in our own ways. Sharing with like minds is so arousing.

Hmm, this is a pretty fantastic answer that I 1,000% agree with too!

Everyone on Lit is so smart today!

 

[ShaneoD]

I agree 1,000%. This is the perfect answer on every level imho.

I'm predicting quite a few erections are about to hit both of your inboxes

 

[Bisexguy70]

Ive learned a lot from watching my partners masturbate. Growing up, masturbation was made fun of. It was something you werent allowed to do and thought of as perverse. When we can open up and talk about the subject it allows us to get all these repressed thoughts out into the open. Its hot knowing someone else shared these feelings about the subject. We learn what pleasures us and how we can pleasure each other. I think woman have learned how to jerk or stroke a mans cock from watching men pleasure themselves. As im describing it with words, im going through the motions my mind. The anonymity adds to the freedom to express our deepest desires without judgement. I wish we could be more open to talking with our coworkers or friends about our self pleasure techniques.

 

[Hipshot1554]

For me a large aspect is that it's so personal, I'm getting myself off and know exactly how I like it and telling someone exactly what you want from them or are doing to yourself is so arousing. I also love knowing I'm getting someone to masturbate to or for me which in turn makes me hornier

Pretty much describes the ideal.

 

[SallyIsHere]

I was taught that masturbation is wrong so it is not always easy to talk about it with friends or partners. Chatting or sharing e-mails can be easier and really exciting. It’s like confessing, sharing my secret naughty side. If he (or she) is aroused and pleasures themselves, that really excites me. Simple pleasures.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

Love knowing someones masturbating b/c of me and my posts

Or that you're masturbating for me when we exchange sexual liberating PM's with each other

 

[johnnyampleed]

The secrecy of it all turns me on more

Maybe it's the same thing, but it's the sharing of an intimacy ... a hidden side that no one who knows you ... knows.

 

[ILuv2Taste]

The secrecy of it all turns me on more

Tell me a secret...............privately.

 

[30bandits]

I was taught that masturbation is wrong so it is not always easy to talk about it with friends or partners. Chatting or sharing e-mails can be easier and really exciting. It’s like confessing, sharing my secret naughty side. If he (or she) is aroused and pleasures themselves, that really excites me. Simple pleasures.

PM me sometime ?

 

[hulmule]

It's stimulating, taboo, you can tell you inner thoughts

 

[Dashabout]

I can say what I want and like and may even do some of it while writing about., no one knows.

 

[van_delay]

Because my wife is bored with my cock.

 

[Dashabout]

Because it's fun to open up with like minds.

 

[Handeguy]

Because it's fun to open up with like minds.

Indeed.

 

[CLK5002005]

It’s fun to find some type of connection that you can both play on…might even be fiction but stimulating to each other all the same. And it’s 100% discrete, so you can be or say whatever you want; nobody knows you from the next person.

 

[mellowyellows]

It’s the commonality of knowing dirty minds think alike.

 

[Erodicus]

I suspect most of us enjoy just chatting about sex. By engaging with strangers, you get a broader perspective on people's different sexual orientations, interests, fetishes and experiences. I find it not only educational but also wonderfully arousing.

 

[Adrock1981]

Need someone rn

sorry I missed you message

 

[ShapeShifter4u]

I'm glad it's not just me then! I enjoy porn, but what I enjoy even more is trading porn pics or gifs with others and chatting about them. It might be awkward to do that irl but it's nice to have that escape here.

 

[Uncut1969]

Love to talk freely to other like minded people! And not have to watch what I say!

 

[Katch123]

The other person isnt going to judge you because they're a bit twisted as well.

 

[Darkroom35]

The relatablility is real. You can understand their fantasies cause you probably have similar ones and vice versa.