Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[Hipshot1554]

I can’t wait to explore the world of lit like you all did already!
And I hope to have many interesting conversations so I can share my experiences in this thread one day

Brace yourself. Your inbox will soon explode!

 

[Lulu_pleasing]

Brace yourself. Your inbox will soon explode!

I won’t mind to get some nice messages
But please with a bit of content

 

[Hipshot1554]

I won’t mind to get some nice messages
But please with a bit of content

You'll likely get all kinds... some not so good.

 

[vibes]

But please with a bit of content

it's all about content, depending on how and where you post

 

[Damanhere]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

My thinking it opens you up to other people other things that you may not have even considered that they've done or considered doing that it's Anonymous and you can actually be yourself without being judged or criticized

 

[Lulu_pleasing]

You'll likely get all kinds... some not so good.

Hope there are more good though

it's all about content, depending on how and where you post

the best content will probably be in my privat messages I hope

 

[StrongMaster7]

For me, I like being able to speak freely about the things no one is supposed to talk about in 'polite company'. I can't imagine telling one of my wife's friends (or my wife, for that matter) what porn star I jerked off to this morning. The anonymity is wonderful.

Maybe it's just the world I live in, but I never hear any conversations about sex. Especially not from women.

I was very disappointed when I found out that I was not going to be getting the amount or variety of sex I wanted in my marriage from my wife. Not wanting to cheat, I turned to pornography and masturbation pretty much every day to keep from going crazy. The 'Lit world' understands and empathizes with me, whereas much of the larger world would condemn me if I even dared to say such a thing. It's nice not to be judged.

 

[Paul1995]

Any woman that would like to masturbate with me and cum together? I'm M27 and very very horny!

 

[magicalmoments]

I think if it was acceptable to gather around the water cooler at work and share details of your previous evenings sexual adventures it would quickly become as boring about the chat about last nights soap operas or the football game. It's the naughtiness of Lit that makes it so appealing, that you can pour out your most intimate activities and read about other peoples... It's all so naughty, so dirty, so, "bad little boys and girls" stuff, the things your parents and other grown ups discouraged you from when you were growing up.
I know the feeling of having a secret about your sexual activity that you wouldn't even share with your closest friends is highly appealing to me. Apart from my current and former wives and partners from over the years the people who know me would be totally shocked at some of the sexual things I've done over the last 40 years.

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

Because I don't express these feelings or thoughts in my head with people I know in real life (my user name is not just for show haha) and it would drastically change their views of me.

Writing it rather than saying it face to face is also less inhibiting for me . Some of the things I've written I've never said out loud haha

 

[van_delay]

The removal of any inhibitions to talk about deepest darkest fantasies.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Being vulnerable is also arousing. Talking about pleasuring ourselves allows us to be vulnerable, and here we can share that in a way that feels safe.

 

[AdamPhoenix]

I'm just saying I've had so much fun talking about jerking off with other men and women on here. And obviously we can't just talk about it with other people around the water cooler at work. Shame.

I love mutual maturation. No talk other than sound effects and sitting facing eachother so that my wife's pussy is in range of my cumshot. When she starts to come, she spreads her labia apart and madly finger fucks herself while rubbing her clip. This move literally pulls my trigger and I always aim foe the bullseye. Sometimes if I'm lucky she'll just jump on me right as my first splash hits her...almost like she's possessed! I love it and love that she loves my large volume of sperm. I do sometimes want to watch her sucking on another man's cock in this same scenario....yes I know, that's more than mutual maturation but come on. What could possibly be hotter?!

 

[haventdonethat]

I love mutual maturation. No talk other than sound effects and sitting facing eachother so that my wife's pussy is in range of my cumshot. When she starts to come, she spreads her labia apart and madly finger fucks herself while rubbing her clip. This move literally pulls my trigger and I always aim foe the bullseye. Sometimes if I'm lucky she'll just jump on me right as my first splash hits her...almost like she's possessed! I love it and love that she loves my large volume of sperm. I do sometimes want to watch her sucking on another man's cock in this same scenario....yes I know, that's more than mutual maturation but come on. What could possibly be hotter?!

Not much!
Watched two wives suck on another mans cock and it was always suoer hot!

 

[OldnCurious]

I just think it's more fun to have company when doing it.

 

[nightowl75]

I would absolutely love to be in a room with friends (or some family) and talk about this subject for hours. I have discussed it with a couple of people. But it’s not easy to casually bring up the topic. And it would surprise a whole lotta people o know me.

But being on Lit has been like therapy. I had a lot of thoughts I hadn’t shared before, and it was fun to hear from others too.

 

[hulmule]

It doesn't have to be even on Lit. Believe me or not, but I've have had some crazy conversations just in stores with ladies I've met !! Just wish it could went a little farther !

 

[Tatted_Dad]

I think it’s just the feeling of knowing others are as sexual as us, and think sexually as often!

Reassurance is a good feeling I think we all seek!

 

[van_delay]

Free to be me.

 

[Deleted member 4038640]

Love to watch, chat about masturbating with other x

 

[xdresssissytoes]

The mental images and titillation it creates doing it with strangers...the feeling of being watched and watching another in the act...teasing and flirting while describing what you're doing to yourself...edging to near orgasm and backing off with them to extend your pleasure......

 

[Deleted member 4038640]

Anyone?

 

[tnnikon]

Our society has made sex such a taboo subject we are all reluctant to mention it. I think strangers are easier to talk with because they don’t have our back story to flavor what we say with. There is no judgement and we can be freer about what we say.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Anyone?

Jerking sooo hard ....leering at your wife...my hand a blur on my hard cock.....sooo sexy and inviting to fondle and grope.....

 

[Erosfan]

Like others have stated, anonymity is a pretty big factor and it is not polite water cooler talk. I don't discuss my masturbation proclivities at work or with friends. This is a safe place to be open and honest and just let go.
Here, I have found that many people share similar thoughts and feelings and there is some commonality. We all like how masturbation feels in our own ways. Sharing with like minds is so arousing.