Why Facials?

jerbear

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I never really understood why a guy woul want to ejaculate onto a girls face... I've knowwn several people that use this... techinique, but I never had personally had this desire, and I was wondering what the attraction was?
 
jerbear said:
I never really understood why a guy woul want to ejaculate onto a girls face... I've knowwn several people that use this... techinique, but I never had personally had this desire, and I was wondering what the attraction was?

Can be various:

-Because it's damn hot to have dirty messy naughty taboo sex.

-Because it can be incredibly intimate. Like burying yourself in her juices, it can be a turn on for both to cover her in your come..

-As a (playfull) act of domination. To have her waiting for your load after she gave you an excellent blowjob. On her knees, waiting with her mouth open, both of you knowing she acts like a 'whore'...


As with everything: if it doesn't turn you on - don't do it.. if it does: good! We know what we're talking about.... :D

T.

edited: We poor non native speakers... always have to edit afterwards....;)
 
Well, not being a guy I don't know if I qualify to answer but, I'm going to anyway. First of all you get to direct the final product of the lust you feel towards her, in a place where you can actually watch it happen. That in and of itself has got to be a big turn on. She (or he, sorry to be gender limited) likes you and trusts you enough to let you blow your wad in her face risking humiliation and cum in the eye, which by the way, really fucking stings! She let you do it and, she probably didn't look grossed out or horrified either. Likely, she looked into your eyes with the same amount of lust that you were looking into hers. She may have even stuck her tongue out and licked it off of her face while you were doing it. Try it, you might find that you like it.
 
Re: Re: Why Facials?

Ass_tronaut_T said:
Can be various:
-Because it's damn hot to have dirty messy naughty taboo sex.
-Because it can be incredibly intimate. Like burying yourself in her juices, it can be a turn on for both to cover her in your come..
-As a (playfull) act of domination. To have her waiting for your load after she gave you an excellent blowjob. On her knees, waiting with her mouth open, both of you knowing she acts like a 'whore'...
As with everything: if it doesn't turn you on - don't do it.. if it does: good! We know what we're talking about.... :D
T.
edited: We poor non native speakers... always have to edit afterwards....;)

good answer!
 
Minout said:
Well, not being a guy I don't know if I qualify to answer but, I'm going to anyway. First of all you get to direct the final product of the lust you feel towards her, in a place where you can actually watch it happen. That in and of itself has got to be a big turn on. She (or he, sorry to be gender limited) likes you and trusts you enough to let you blow your wad in her face risking humiliation and cum in the eye, which by the way, really fucking stings! She let you do it and, she probably didn't look grossed out or horrified either. Likely, she looked into your eyes with the same amount of lust that you were looking into hers. She may have even stuck her tongue out and licked it off of her face while you were doing it. Try it, you might find that you like it.

mmmm, another good answer! Its the whole visual that gets them every time! lol
 
jerbear said:
I never really understood why a guy woul want to ejaculate onto a girls face... I've knowwn several people that use this... techinique, but I never had personally had this desire, and I was wondering what the attraction was?

I've asked my guy more than once, and his answer varies. Some of them, though:

Possessiveness. It's like marking territory. After a long night of loving, if I'm covered in his cream, he feels like Superman.

Taboo. Naughty, naughty, like cursing in church or fucking in the schoolhouse. It's something that you normally wouldn't do, but sometimes you just want to get as naughty as possible, and a facial is the very clear evidence of that. Especially if he helps clean me up. :devil:

Dominance. He loves to know that I am on my knees, in a submissive/delighted sort of way, just waiting for it. He loves to watch it drip from my face, then he likes to demand that I clean it up with my fingers while he watches. It's his sexual power trip. I don't question it, I just do it. :D

Turning ME on. I love to get facials. I love the feeling of his essence on every part of my body, but especially on my face. Why? I have no fucking clue, and who cares? I really get off on it, and he loves that more than anything else.

But his most frequent answer? Possessiveness. :) And come to think of it, maybe that's why I like it, too.

S.
 
The most wonderful turn-on when I'm with my lover is making him cum. It's wonderful when I can make him cum in my mouth when I give him a blow-job. When he cums deep inside me when he's fucking me it makes me cum with him. The beauty of a facial is just another expression of how hot your lover is for you, so hot that he can shoot his cum all over your face, and so uninhibited to be able to make himself cum in front of you..........and you love sex with him so much, and he gives you so much pleasure that you want his cum streaming down your face...........hot, hot, hot......and, as was mentioned before, there is that submissive role that the woman plays here...........god, I love the strong hand of a man, taking over, pulling my hair, pulling me to my knees, making me take hiim in my mouth, then shooting a load of hot cum on my face..........:)
 
Let me relay that I read an article with verification of semen being an opiate. No wonder I feel so good after swallowing!!

Chuckles,
Wantonica:rose:
 
Wantonica said:
Let me relay that I read an article with verification of semen being an opiate. No wonder I feel so good after swallowing!!

Chuckles,
Wantonica:rose:


The articles I read about it being a mood elevator suggested it worked vaginally only
 
James G 5 said:
The articles I read about it being a mood elevator suggested it worked vaginally only

The articles I read also said that it was vaginally (maybe same ones as you), but then why not moreso ingested by mouth???

Smiles,
Wantonica:rose:
 
Wantonica said:
The articles I read also said that it was vaginally (maybe same ones as you), but then why not moreso ingested by mouth???

Smiles,
Wantonica:rose:

Because when you swallow it, you just digest it
Vaginally, it triggers a hormonal reaction that releases seratonin & dopamine
(seratonin is the brain chemical that Prozac and drugs like it work on)
 
This is something that my partner enjoys too. I was surprised to hear that it's a territorial thing because he won't commit to a relationship. Is it always a territorial thing?
 
:: blink blink :: where can i find this article?... i actually never knew that, never even heard of it. I've learned a few things from Lit, which is cool, its another reason i joined the boards... but this... this is totally new to me. wow... this is great...
 
oh yeah.. and the facial thing...right.. haha..

dominance/submissive thing definetly.
Territory and claiming "this land..." ((thinking of eddie izzard now haha... do you have a flag..?!))
texture, feel, prize at the end, pleasure release that you worked towards, the lust ... this is the moment you built up to... by now you're both so up there and out there and totally far gone and in the mood, saying/hearing things maybe possibly you don't think you would have said when the session first started...
 
Belilica said:
This is something that my partner enjoys too. I was surprised to hear that it's a territorial thing because he won't commit to a relationship. Is it always a territorial thing?

No
But guys can be possesive even when they say they don't want anything
And it's a marking deal, like dogs pissing around the yard
 
BlueSugar said:
:: blink blink :: where can i find this article?... i actually never knew that, never even heard of it. I've learned a few things from Lit, which is cool, its another reason i joined the boards... but this... this is totally new to me. wow... this is great...

Here're the articles on unprotected vaginal sex decreasing depression...apparently it can also decrease PMS and improve your sense of smell

http://groups.google.com/groups?selm=1ffz9n4.1cko2yu1syksx4N%merwench@earthlink.net&output=gplain

http://groups.google.com/groups?selm=SPR1020813142117-30567@psychcentral.com&output=gplain

http://groups.google.com/groups?q=c...1cko2yu1syksx4N%merwench@earthlink.net&rnum=3
 
for me, it's all about how turned on i am at seeing how turned on he gets by the thought of coming all over my face.

and let's not discount the times he just wants to own me during D/s play.

plus i really get off on the whole 'you're tied up and can't escape me - i'm going to blow where and when i want' thing.....

:devil:
 
psyche said:
The most wonderful turn-on when I'm with my lover is making him cum. It's wonderful when I can make him cum in my mouth when I give him a blow-job. When he cums deep inside me when he's fucking me it makes me cum with him. The beauty of a facial is just another expression of how hot your lover is for you, so hot that he can shoot his cum all over your face, and so uninhibited to be able to make himself cum in front of you..........and you love sex with him so much, and he gives you so much pleasure that you want his cum streaming down your face...........hot, hot, hot......and, as was mentioned before, there is that submissive role that the woman plays here...........god, I love the strong hand of a man, taking over, pulling my hair, pulling me to my knees, making me take hiim in my mouth, then shooting a load of hot cum on my face..........:)

Phew... the imagery concoted here!

But to me it's always been a thing about trust & just the exploration of something taboo. Knowing that you can do that with a partner such a naughty thing to be shared.
 
Me too

I agree with Lust Engine. I really don't want to mark my territory and I really really don't want to own another human being that I care about. But lusty, taboo, messy moments are great fun, like when she gets her own juices on her fingers and lets/makes me lick it off.
 
James G 5 said:

I knew sex itself/orgasams make a person less deperssed. There are many people out there (from time to time) or all the time... have sex to just feel human. Bc of all the endorphins and adrenaline etc...etc... released. I knew it helped with the common cold, and complexions, everyone has recieved *that* fwd email before (and did a little research to find that most of them are true) but i haven't heard that semen could be an opiate.
TY for my new research project! I've been bored.
 
BlueSugar said:
I knew sex itself/orgasams make a person less deperssed. There are many people out there (from time to time) or all the time... have sex to just feel human. Bc of all the endorphins and adrenaline etc...etc... released. I knew it helped with the common cold, and complexions, everyone has recieved *that* fwd email before (and did a little research to find that most of them are true) but i haven't heard that semen could be an opiate.
TY for my new research project! I've been bored.


Glad I could contribute
Let me know if you want to do any real-time experimentation ;)
 
heh, who hasn't had sex to feel human at some point... and who hasn't had unprotected sex and prefer it? I don't know anyone.

I'm more careful and count and cross my fingers, bc I don't agree with the pill/shot/etc. Too much fine print. So until I'm 100% ready for a more definite posibility for children... we'll just have to keep that on the back burner ;)
 
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