Why does BDSM attract lunatics?

[Marquis]

Sarcasm, I assume? Hey man, I know things.

Not at all, I just found out myself the other day.

 

[Netzach]

That's some fruity nutty goodness there.

 

[FurryFury]

We shouldn't laugh at things like this. The mentally impaired people are special. Poor girl.

*nods a lot*

Marquis, I have liked most of your avs. I REALLY like this one in part because you are in the sun.

I love the sun and can't wait to get to the beach.

I never thought you looked like anyone but you. In fact, it never even occurred to be that you were black until you mentioned it somewhere. I didn't care for the pictures of any girls with you in your avs other than your slave who looks so sweet. This one on what I think much be the beach is great. You are very photogenic from what I can tell. I like the look of you in the sun.

Speaking of the sun, today is a beautiful day here. The skies are deeply blue and bright. The clouds are surreal. I once saw a painting that captured what the sky looks like today.

The clouds are partially bright but the southern edge is lined with gray. You can see the bright light of the sun is caught in the clouds and wants to burst out. The waning moon is also visible in the sky as you drive north. Some of the clouds have a tangerine cast to them. They are very feathery looking too. I'm so glad I had to go do a gig today and got to see the sky! It makes me want to speed my way to the beach just that much faster!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

. . .. In fact, it never even occurred to be that you were black until you mentioned it somewhere. . . .

LOL Me, either. I figured I was just like totally clueless or someting, but I thought he was just dark skinned, like my sister.

 

[Marquis]

I think that calling me black is an oversimplification, but I do have African heritage.

 

[FurryFury]

I think that calling me black is an oversimplification, but I do have African heritage.

Sorry no offense was intended.

Fury

 

[Marquis]

Sorry no offense was intended.

Fury

Nor was it inferred.

 

[graceanne]

I think that calling me black is an oversimplification, but I do have African heritage.

Yeah, we're part cherokee - which accounts for my sisters perpetual tan.

 

[FurryFury]

Nor was it inferred.

Glad to hear you feel that way!

Yeah, we're part cherokee - which accounts for my sisters perpetual tan.

I have a little of that and many other things in my ancestry. I call myself a Heinz 57. When I first met my exes Grandfather he asked my ex "what" I was. Lovely of him to put it that way and not ask me when I was in the same damn room.

 

[Betticus]

Hey Marquis,

Thank you for posting this bit of insanity. I was worried that I may be a bit strange for a while but now that I have this to compare with I feel like a Jesuit priest walking out amongst the peons.

In other words, that chick is fucking nuts.

 

[Epona's Chylde]

*sigh*

For once in my life, I feel remarkably sane.....

Always nice to find out there are people out there more messed up in the head than I am

 

[Xelebes]

You want weird?

You really want weird?

Really really?


Like really?

I mean seriously?


Do you want weird people in the kink community?

Cuz I do.

Shut up.

Wait, who was that.

Just the person controlling my fingers.

Wait that doesn't make sense.

What doesn't make sense?

I don't know.

What?

I said I don't know.

You said you knew.

No I didn't.

What?

I said I didn't.

Sorry, my fingers are deaf.

Oh, that's good to know.

 

[Killishandra]

Xelebes, you definitely belong in Ka Azdor. Plus, you'd look really cute holding that sparkley flag.

 

[Quint]

Honestly, the weirdest thing for me was to read her blog about normal life. "My room-mate sucks, I'm moving again," and so on. Have her ass thrown into the wilderness, forsooth!

 

[INSIDEYOURMIND]

I say thank god for the internet, it gives these people an outlet to spew forth their words of wisdom, if not, these are the people that become the Hinckleys, Damhers, and Kaczynskis of the world!

The flip side is that the vanilla world looks at the BDSM community in the same light, bunch of freaks and weirdos.

If we didn't have this as an outlet, would we have become the Clintons, Kennedys, or the Gates of the world? OR HAVE WE?

"I wouldn't recommend sex, drugs or insanity for everyone, but they've always worked for me."
Hunter S. Thompson

 

[Betticus]

Honestly, the weirdest thing for me was to read her blog about normal life. "My room-mate sucks, I'm moving again," and so on. Have her ass thrown into the wilderness, forsooth!

There was a blog? Oh my! I'm actually glad that I couldn't read down that far.

 

[Miss Trickery]

Is it just me, or does the BDSM community seem to attract the completely unstable?

I'm not talking about the average quirks a person who's going to put extra thought into their sex life is likely to have, I'm talking about the lost sense of identity that makes a place like collarme prime hunting ground for svengalis of every shape and size.

I thought that's why we were all a part of the BDSM lifestyle in the first place - because of out instability? lol Then again, who's to judge what stable or unstable is? But yes, this whole made up country thing is a little strange, hell, it's crossed over the ridiculous border - but whatever works for them, works for them, I suppose. In a similar light (no offense to the religious people out there), a plethora of various different religions exist in the world today with their little takes on what could be outright BS and/or fantasy- though some believe heavily in them and to them could be the right.

Ok so that didn't have much to do with the borderline sociopaths, psychopaths, and schizos galore that can be found on collarme and similar places... I blame the internet partly, then my blame goes to the teletubbies. The svengalis will always exist somewhere, if not on collarme, maybe hanging around a local pub or in their parents' basement playing D&D or spanking their monkey while wearing mommy's pantyhose. The www has since allowed every crazy person access to the rest of the world - and they're just utilizing this means to prey upon the masses.

Kinda exciting... ok no it's not... in fact i'm going to rent a cave and hope the pervs don't find me. Well maybe some of the pervs ^_^

 

[MasterSnatch]

I’m sure more than a few people out there would call us sick disgusting lunatics and then some but got to say…..this woman is royally off her rocker….that or she is just having some kooky fun, some people are like that and kooky people are some of the best people.

 

[Marquis]

Right before I started this thread I sent her this message, not expecting to get a reply:

"What is so unpleasant about this world, that you must choose to live in another?"

Today I found this in my Collarme inbox:

"Greetings,

Actually I am still very much living in this world, I just live life as much by my terms as it is possible. Just because someone is trying something new or different does not mean that they are "trying to run away" from something. It just means that they are trying something new. This has been done plenty of times in history, it is done currently, and it will be done plenty of times in the future as well.

And yes, I actually do live my life as much as possible by that culture. It is not easy, it is not simple, but it is worth every bit of effort I have invested in doing so, and in the long run it has made me a much better and much more fulfilled person. It is fully possible to live a different way from others around you, if you have the determination and will to do so. As for the reactions of others around me, yes some pretty much react like you do. However, most actually find it fascinating and some wished they had the guts to go for what they wished as much as I have and still make it work.

While things are not easy starting from scratch, they are workable. There are of course changes as things are tried out and as we find the things that work well and seperate them from those that don't work as well in actual practice. This will likely be an ongoing process that will likely take many years, as there is nothing pre-existing we are going from. Everything is new. The Languages. The Music. The Arts and Entertainments. Even our system of D/s is new and done up from scratch. To explain it all would be like trying to take a conventional culture and trying to explain it to someone who had never seen or heard anything like it before.

As for me personally, I'm actually a fairly well traveled, intelligent individual. I have a wonderful relationship with my family, as I do with my Beloved. My job is stable and pays well, I am financially secure, retired my mother, and have friends. In the past I've self published a book, served in two branches of the military, and did well in High school. So this is to show that I am not some dissillusioned teenager in my families "basement" or anything such as that. .

I hope this cleared some of this up for you.

Haya Sierra"

 

[shy slave]

You want weird?

You really want weird?

Really really?


Like really?

I mean seriously?


Do you want weird people in the kink community?

Cuz I do.

Shut up.

Wait, who was that.

Just the person controlling my fingers.

Wait that doesn't make sense.

What doesn't make sense?

I don't know.

What?

I said I don't know.

You said you knew.

No I didn't.

What?

I said I didn't.

Sorry, my fingers are deaf.

Oh, that's good to know.

I have never really figured out if Xelebes is actually a computer pretending to be human or something completely out of my range of thinking...

if its the latter its going to give me many, many weird and wonderful fantasies

 

[DVS]

Right before I started this thread I sent her this message, not expecting to get a reply:

"What is so unpleasant about this world, that you must choose to live in another?"

Today I found this in my Collarme inbox:

"Greetings,

...This will likely be an ongoing process that will likely take many years, as there is nothing pre-existing we are going from. Everything is new. The Languages. The Music. The Arts and Entertainments. Even our system of D/s is new and done up from scratch. To explain it all would be like trying to take a conventional culture and trying to explain it to someone who had never seen or heard anything like it before.

A new language? New music? New everything, it seems. That's a bit "out there", if you ask me. The language they could keep, the music, that's OK to change, but the D/s is different too? How so, I wonder? No, I'm not going to ask her. Surely, I would get an answer like "to explain it would be like trying to take the convenrtional D/s lifestyle and trying to explain it to someone who had neer seen or heard anything like it before." Sounds like a cop out, to me. She's just creating her own little perverted sex club and is screening her members. Devoted followers only!

But she goes on to say...
As for me personally, I'm actually a fairly well traveled, intelligent individual. I have a wonderful relationship with my family, as I do with my Beloved. My job is stable and pays well, I am financially secure, retired my mother, and have friends. In the past I've self published a book, served in two branches of the military, and did well in High school. So this is to show that I am not some dissillusioned teenager in my families "basement" or anything such as that. .

Well traveled? She could be a whore, for all that says. Her job is stable and pays well? A popular whore. "Served" in two branches of the military? A whore on a miltary base, perhaps?

"So this is to show that I am not some dissillusioned teenager in my families "basement" or anything such as that." They probably kicked her out long ago, for being weird!

"I hope this cleared some of this up for you. Haya Sierra"

Well, not really, but thanks anyway.

 

[graceanne]

A new language? New music? New everything, it seems. That's a bit "out there", if you ask me. The language they could keep, the music, that's OK to change, but the D/s is different too? How so, I wonder? No, I'm not going to ask her. Surely, I would get an answer like "to explain it would be like trying to take the convenrtional D/s lifestyle and trying to explain it to someone who had neer seen or heard anything like it before." Sounds like a cop out, to me. She's just creating her own little perverted sex club and is screening her members. Devoted followers only!



Well traveled? She could be a whore, for all that says. Her job is stable and pays well? A popular whore. "Served" in two branches of the military? A whore on a miltary base, perhaps?

"So this is to show that I am not some dissillusioned teenager in my families "basement" or anything such as that." They probably kicked her out long ago, for being weird!


Well, not really, but thanks anyway.

LOL

 

[Guest]

 

[Xelebes]

Xelebes, you definitely belong in Ka Azdor. Plus, you'd look really cute holding that sparkley flag.

Yes, yes I would.

 

[Xelebes]

I have never really figured out if Xelebes is actually a computer pretending to be human or something completely out of my range of thinking...

if its the latter its going to give me many, many weird and wonderful fantasies

I am pushing buttons
On my pocket calculator

- Kraftwerk


I never knew those four were so kinky.