Why do you like_______?

Why do men (and maybe some women) like watching porn where the girl performer is wearing high heels?

It's an unnecessary distraction to me. I find I have the weird concern that she could really do some damage if she accidently (or maybe on purpose) stabbed the guy she was with! I suppose maybe my distaste for high heels goes hand in hand with my general distaste with girls who wear way too much makeup in videos. I suppose I prefer those kind of things to be natural, so a woman in a scene with bare feet is much better for me.

Your thoughts?
Anyone doing anything in high heels should get credit :)
 
Why do some men like being in Chastity for their woman?

I don't get the appeal of it or why it is a big turn-on. I know some women like this too, so I guess I could ask them the same question.
ES
 
Why do men (and maybe some women) like watching porn where the girl performer is wearing high heels?

It's an unnecessary distraction to me. I find I have the weird concern that she could really do some damage if she accidently (or maybe on purpose) stabbed the guy she was with! I suppose maybe my distaste for high heels goes hand in hand with my general distaste with girls who wear way too much makeup in videos. I suppose I prefer those kind of things to be natural, so a woman in a scene with bare feet is much better for me.

Your thoughts?

There are certain items of clothing that women wear and that appear to say, "I went out of my way to intentionally look sexy today." For me those can include:
  • A particularly flattering skirt or dress.
  • Well-tailored or otherwise well-fitted clothing.
  • "the good underwear" (rather than the comfortable stuff).
  • A certain style of makeup that I can't describe cause I don't know how to.
  • That just-right combination of jeans and a t-shirt or tank top.
  • Just the t-shirt without the jeans.
  • Yoga/workout clothes have really gone a long way in this direction.
The right kind of heels fit right into this. By that I mean the dainty kind of heels, like pumps, kittens, etc. (Not a fan of wedges or other chunky heels.)

So if a woman is wearing that specific kind of heel, she appears to be saying, "when I had a choice between my shoes, I chose sexy today." That apparent intention is a bit of an aphrodisiac to me.
 
Heels turn up the excitement for me....along with her nice legs...great combo...stilletto pumps are her favorite...
My personal thrill is listening to women/girls (often alcohol lubricated) talk about first realizing the effect they have on most/many/this man. It's so cute!
 
To me the 'good' is the 'comfortable'. The other stuff seems more like a costume to me.
That was my attitude before I met Hubby. I had one lace demi bra (blue) and everything else I owned were t-shirt bras and sports bras. And I had matching panties for the lace bra. Hubby loved that set when he first saw it. And when it became clear I was in an actual relationship with him, I started buying different underwear, knowing he liked it. Then I started really liking it too, and it went from there. However, my everyday underwear is usually a t-shirt bra and cotton panties.
 
However, my everyday underwear is usually a t-shirt bra and cotton panties.
I remember buying and wearing some lacy thong panties years ago. I quickly learned to hate butt floss. I'm sure it looked 'hot', but it annoyed me way too much to feel at all sexy.
 
I remember buying and wearing some lacy thong panties years ago. I quickly learned to hate butt floss. I'm sure it looked 'hot', but it annoyed me way too much to feel at all sexy.
Oh, I get what you're saying. I'm not a fan of thongs. I wear them sometimes if I want to make sure I don't have a panty line, but bikini cut panties are my go to. 😁
 
Why do you like anal sex?

Maybe I'm the only one asking that in a place like literotica, but I never tried it with a woman. My buddy in college told me the only time he tried it he pulled out and had a little turd surprise on the end of his dick. So I knew right then that I would not be into it. But around here I seem to be in the minority. 😀
 
Anything with feet. I just don't get it?
Personally, because I like to feel like I am “underneath” a woman, kissing or massaging her feet “puts me in my place”. However, I don’t like it when her feet are sweaty or smelly. I don’t know about other people who like feet, but that’s just my personal take on it.


Why do you like sadism or masochism?
Having a submissive personality, I’m definitely into some pain, but in great moderation, I truly can’t fathom myself being subjected to almost tortuous levels of pain though. To each their own, I’m just curious
 
Why do you like anal sex?

Maybe I'm the only one asking that in a place like literotica, but I never tried it with a woman. My buddy in college told me the only time he tried it he pulled out and had a little turd surprise on the end of his dick. So I knew right then that I would not be into it. But around here I seem to be in the minority. 😀
I would nevvver let that happen 🤢 I LOVE anal if I'm playing with my clit at the same time. My orgasm feels like it's coming from my butt and all around down there, much more spread out than an orgasm from only clit stimulation or sex.
 
Why do you like anal sex?

Maybe I'm the only one asking that in a place like literotica, but I never tried it with a woman. My buddy in college told me the only time he tried it he pulled out and had a little turd surprise on the end of his dick. So I knew right then that I would not be into it. But around here I seem to be in the minority. 😀
I love when that happens so I may lick his cock clean.
 
Why do some men like being in Chastity for their woman?

I don't get the appeal of it or why it is a big turn-on. I know some women like this too, so I guess I could ask them the same question.
ES
It’s fits in where we are in our intimacy. Spices and energizes and is just really erotic. The denial part is a component for sure. View attachment 2255163
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So the Cock cage is not to prevent him from cheating or masturbating on his own, it is more about control for the woman? Him giving up and her taking control. She has the key to the cage, she has control of his dick and his orgasms.

My thoughts on this have changed. I can see how the cock cage can be a constant reminder of her control...which can be erotic, sensual, and intimate.
ES
 
Agree with everything you said about heels, especially those damn spikes. What are they doing to my expensive sheets? What are they doing to my mattress? No thanks!
This, but with cars.

Get those heels off the fucking paint!

I'll jack off to the thought of titty prints on the hood/trunk/windows but for fucks sake don't leave the hood looking like a pack of squirrels held a royal rumble on it!
 
Why do I like Hentai/cartoon porn?

Growing up in the 80s, cartoons were a staple in my life so there is a natural draw towards toons (especially toons of the era had some beautiful looking women, not to mention Jessica Rabbit in Who Framed Roger Rabbit). So there is probably some impression there onto my love map as it developed. But I also enjoy it because Hentai can show some extreme sexual scenarios that are not easily replicated in real life porn, either due to physical logistics are that real actors just wouldn't do some of the things in Hentai.
 
Why do I like Hentai/cartoon porn?

Growing up in the 80s, cartoons were a staple in my life so there is a natural draw towards toons (especially toons of the era had some beautiful looking women, not to mention Jessica Rabbit in Who Framed Roger Rabbit). So there is probably some impression there onto my love map as it developed. But I also enjoy it because Hentai can show some extreme sexual scenarios that are not easily replicated in real life porn, either due to physical logistics are that real actors just wouldn't do some of the things in Hentai.
I like Hentai too. It seems like I would not really care for it since the bodies and sexual organs are usually exaggerated beyond normal and sometimes they don't even show the genitals. But most of all, I enjoy the story lines and dialogue. There is usually a good story that leads to the sex. Sometimes the story is a complete fantasy that would never happen in the real world, but they make it happen in the cartoon world. So I enjoy it when they have the dialogue in English subtitles.
ES
 
So the Cock cage is not to prevent him from cheating or masturbating on his own, it is more about control for the woman? Him giving up and her taking control. She has the key to the cage, she has control of his dick and his orgasms.

My thoughts on this have changed. I can see how the cock cage can be a constant reminder of her control...which can be erotic, sensual, and intimate.
ES
That’s a pretty accurate appraisal. Plus I am lesser endowed and we have an added dynamic of her having cheated with a handful of guys in our distant long ago pre- marriage past. So there’s a definite undertone of cuckoldry to what we get up to now. I eroticized it alone for a long time and now we’ve eroticized it together.
 
I like Hentai too. It seems like I would not really care for it since the bodies and sexual organs are usually exaggerated beyond normal and sometimes they don't even show the genitals. But most of all, I enjoy the story lines and dialogue. There is usually a good story that leads to the sex. Sometimes the story is a complete fantasy that would never happen in the real world, but they make it happen in the cartoon world. So I enjoy it when they have the dialogue in English subtitles.
ES
Just :love: those big eyes and small noses.
 
I am very addicted to blowjobs and as much as I love fucking I’d probably opt for an incredible blowjob - is it odd to be so infatuated with wanting my cock sucked?
I'm the same way. Given the chance I'd probably pick all oral maybe 2/3 of the time we have sex. Fortunately my wife also enjoys oral (giving and getting), so we spend most of our time doing that. She prefers vaginal orgasms to any other kind, so we do usually finish that way, which is fine because vaginal sex is awesome too. I probably have stronger orgasms vaginally than I do orally myself, but all the other things I love about blowjobs tend to make me keep my cock there as long as possible. We started having our best sex after she got used to doing pussy to mouth, because now we can switch back and forth often during a good session.
 
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