why do you give a blowjob?

[Jason_2006]

Do the ladies on here give blowjobs because mainly they want to please their guy, or because they honestly enjoy it? Does it really stimulate you at all. Ive often wondered about it. Some guys i know expect it from their girlfriends and others would only accept it if she really wanted to. I guess im just really asking do girls really enjoy a bj nearly as much as a guy does or do they just want to make their guy happy?

 

[~Elizabeth~]

I do so for myself and my partner. I love giving him pleasure so I literally worship his cock...

 

[Kahlo]

His cock in my mouth doesn't necessarily make me wet but the look on his face when it is, does. I don't get turned on my the physical act of sucking his cock, but turning him on, turns me on so I enjoy doing it.

 

[Jason_2006]

I do so for myself and my partner. I love giving him pleasure so I literally worship his cock...

Makes sense i guess...

 

[Noor]

a few thoughts

There are a lot of guys who don't like blow jobs and never come from them, somehow I have known a lot of them.

I don't tend to do them unless I really feel like it as there are so many more interesting things to do. I am more likely to give hand jobs with some oral involved.

I have TMD which doesn't help so face fucking means pain for me and possible spasms which could mean serious pain/injury for my lover.

I don't find that particular sex acts themselves turn me on, its more the lovers with whom I am having sex.

Blow jobs in general seem kind of dull except as a control and a pleasing someone else thing, as they are not really very intimate and have limited body contact.

 

[BongoGal]

It isn't physically pleasing for me, but I've never given a blow job without getting very turned on by it.

 

[Jason_2006]

There are a lot of guys who don't like blow jobs and never come from them, somehow I have known a lot of them.

I don't tend to do them unless I really feel like it as there are so many more interesting things to do. I am more likely to give hand jobs with some oral involved.

I have TMD which doesn't help so face fucking means pain for me and possible spasms which could mean serious pain/injury for my lover.

I don't find that particular sex acts themselves turn me on, its more the lovers with whom I am having sex.

Blow jobs in general seem kind of dull except as a control and a pleasing someone else thing, as they are not really very intimate and have limited body contact.

I think you make a good point. I dont watch porn that often, but when i do it gets a little boring watching someone give a bj for like 15 minutes. And it doesnt look like she even enjoys it. But everyone is different i guess. Personally it doesnt turn me on much really if someone is doing something in bed and they look like they hate it :l

 

[Noor]

I think you make a good point. I dont watch porn that often, but when i do it gets a little boring watching someone give a bj for like 15 minutes. And it doesnt look like she even enjoys it. But everyone is different i guess. Personally it doesnt turn me on much really if someone is doing something in bed and they look like they hate it :l

My philosophy is that if you hate something, don't do it

Yes, watching a BJ for me is dead boring, even if the woman appears really into it.

15 mins seems like making an appetizer a full meal.

 

[Jason_2006]

It isn't physically pleasing for me, but I've never given a blow job without getting very turned on by it.

I think i understand what you are saying. Physically, it isnt the most intense for you, but the act of it and the pleasure your partner gets from it is what is stimulating you.

 

[Jason_2006]

15 mins seems like making an appetizer a full meal.

Lol. I guess i never thought of it that way.

 

[Airka4real]

The hotness of the cock in my mouth, feeling his pulse, the softness, throbbing, then the swelling, and release- I don't understand how anybody (male or female) could help but be turned on by that.

 

[Jason_2006]

The hotness of the cock in my mouth, feeling his pulse, the softness, throbbing, then the swelling, and release- I don't understand how anybody (male or female) could help but be turned on by that.

When you describe it like that, i think everyone is turned on lol

 

[Senuda]

The hotness of the cock in my mouth, feeling his pulse, the softness, throbbing, then the swelling, and release- I don't understand how anybody (male or female) could help but be turned on by that.

Hell described like that I'd suck a cock.

 

[Lynn_B]

I just love making him go from soft to hard and watching him cum

 

[BongoGal]

I just love making him go from soft to hard and watching him cum

Indeed! The soft to hard thing gets me every time. It's sexy as hell in my hands, but it's even hotter to feel it grow in my mouth. "I built that!"

There have been a few guys who denied that I could make them come with just my mouth in under 10 minutes if they were determined to resist it. Not one made it to six minutes.

 

[Thickguy4]

Indeed! The soft to hard thing gets me every time. It's sexy as hell in my hands, but it's even hotter to feel it grow in my mouth. "I built that!"

There have been a few guys who denied that I could make them come with just my mouth in under 10 minutes if they were determined to resist it. Not one made it to six minutes.

I accept your challenge!!!

 

[Jason_2006]

I just love making him go from soft to hard and watching him cum

Thats cool. Its kinda interesting to see how many women on here actually LIKE pleasing their guys.

 

[mijayoo]

I enjoy giving pleasure to the person I am with and oral sex is part of that.

 

[ffdan]

I just love making him go from soft to hard and watching him cum

I don't think I could ever be soft when I was about to have sex, or even the potential. I still get excited easy like a high schooler.

 

[destined]

I do so for myself and my partner. I love giving him pleasure so I literally worship his cock...

Those are also my exact sentiments!

 

[Rowan00]

The hotness of the cock in my mouth, feeling his pulse, the softness, throbbing, then the swelling, and release- I don't understand how anybody (male or female) could help but be turned on by that.

Wow, anyone on the receiving end of a blowjob from you must be a really lucky guy.

 

[positivetension]

Both.

I actively enjoy it. It's physically fun to use my mouth and hands like that...it just feels very playful. It's also a huge turn on. I like boy parts and getting up close to explore and play is exciting. Each one is so different and the way they respond is amazing and fascinating. I'm always wet after getting to experience my lover like that.

And I do it to please my partner. I like to let him sit back while I lavish some attention and affection on him. Getting fucked is great and gets me off, but it always feels passive. He's doing almost all the work no matter how much I move hips to meet him. Even if I can get him to sit still while I ride him, I don't have a lot of control over what he's feeling. It still seems like it's mostly about getting me off. But when I use my mouth and hands it's very precise and very deliberate and very much about just making him feel amazing.

 

[mistletoe1963]

I adore his cock, I do..

omg, I love to suck my hunnies cock, it gives me great pleasure as well as him...he was the first I swallowed as well...and when we are intimate, I believe 9 times out of 10, my mouth ends up on his cock, and it`s ok fine by me!!...his cock is mighty fine, and he is very tasty too....mmmmmm

 

[Jason_2006]

omg, I love to suck my hunnies cock, it gives me great pleasure as well as him...he was the first I swallowed as well...and when we are intimate, I believe 9 times out of 10, my mouth ends up on his cock, and it`s ok fine by me!!...his cock is mighty fine, and he is very tasty too....mmmmmm

That brings me to my next question, do most women swallow because they like it or because their guy does?

 

[mistletoe1963]

well....he was my first...and I sure enjoy it!!! he does too....so for us, it`s a win-win...lol