Ok, I have no idea if women do this, because I do not...here goes...
A friend of mine has been seeing this guy for almost a year. In November, he moved in with a "friend" of his. A woman, who was expecting a child. The father was a supposed prick, and left her after the pregnancy occured. Neither of them could afford a place on their own, and both needed to move out...they decided to get a place together.
All along, my friend has been suspicious that there was more going on than this guy let on...but continued to believe that he was being truthful whenever he denied her suspicions.
She saw him the other day, and he made mention of the fact that he was moving out of the apartment and back home.
Now, the woman contacts her, claiming to be his fiance. She still isn't sure if this is true, as the woman has always had designs on him, and is extremely jealous of any relationships he has with anyone. But upset with the fact that he may have lied to her. He was not the only guy she was dating, so it wouldn't have bothered her, and she may have continued to see him, regardless. He knew of her other men, so there was no real reason to lie.
I guess my question is...Why do men (er, people) lie? What is the point? Eventually, your lies will all catch up to you. Has anyone been in this situation (either end)? How did you handle it?
Right now, she's just waiting for him to call her back so she can find out what is going on.
A friend of mine has been seeing this guy for almost a year. In November, he moved in with a "friend" of his. A woman, who was expecting a child. The father was a supposed prick, and left her after the pregnancy occured. Neither of them could afford a place on their own, and both needed to move out...they decided to get a place together.
All along, my friend has been suspicious that there was more going on than this guy let on...but continued to believe that he was being truthful whenever he denied her suspicions.
She saw him the other day, and he made mention of the fact that he was moving out of the apartment and back home.
Now, the woman contacts her, claiming to be his fiance. She still isn't sure if this is true, as the woman has always had designs on him, and is extremely jealous of any relationships he has with anyone. But upset with the fact that he may have lied to her. He was not the only guy she was dating, so it wouldn't have bothered her, and she may have continued to see him, regardless. He knew of her other men, so there was no real reason to lie.
I guess my question is...Why do men (er, people) lie? What is the point? Eventually, your lies will all catch up to you. Has anyone been in this situation (either end)? How did you handle it?
Right now, she's just waiting for him to call her back so she can find out what is going on.