Why are most Doms either really fat and/or really ugly?

[renard_ruse]

Originally Posted by renard_ruse
DP, you've said that you've never had a real relationship. So, what is your fascination with this BDSM stuff? Why not try a normal relationship first, to at least see if you like it before you get into this stuff? What's the fascination?

To many that's like saying, you've never tried seafood, so why not try shrimp before lobster.

Sorry, I don't want to get into a big argument but its not a valid analogy. BDSM is, again not to start a major debate... but, an abnormal set of behaviors when compared to a caring loving relationship. Your analogy is like saying someone should eat cow brains before they's had Gerber baby food.

 

[CuteKittyCat]

Lol really? Post some pics of them DP.

 

[renard_ruse]

Well, I'm not going to let a man Dominate me if I'm not interested in him.

So, you're not really being dominated if you're letting him do it. In other words, you're using the BDSM thing as a fantasy so you can avoid real affectionate sex and an actual relationship. Again, I'll reiterate, whatever you choose to do later I suggest you get a real normal boyfriend first and try an affectionate relationship before running away to this fantasy world.

 

[lovetoread]

Again, I'll reiterate, whatever you choose to do later I suggest you get a real normal boyfriend first and try an affectionate relationship before running away to this fantasy world.

One can be dominated in an affectionate relationship.

If one doesn't have respect, it really doesn't matter what kinks you have.

 

[renard_ruse]

One can be dominated in an affectionate relationship.
If one doesn't have respect, it really doesn't matter what kinks you have.

According to DP's threads on here, she's never had a boyfriend before yet she spends time in various BDSM chatrooms. It seems to me she is looking for ways to avoid having what most people would consider a normal relationship by living in a fantasy world. That is my concern. I think she should try a, sorry if this bothers you, normal relationship with someone of the opposite sex. She's never even dated as I understand it (she's just had one time sex with two men who didn't even kiss her). This doesn't seem normal to me.

 

[lovetoread]

According to DP's threads on here, she's never had a boyfriend before yet she spends time in various BDSM chatrooms. It seems to me she is looking for ways to avoid having what most people would consider a normal relationship by living in a fantasy world. That is my concern. I think she should try a, sorry if this bothers you, normal relationship with someone of the opposite sex. She's never even dated as I understand it (she's just had one time sex with two men who didn't even kiss her). This doesn't seem normal to me.

Nah, I got what you meant, I was just pointing out that a bdsm relationship doesn't necessarily mean that it isn't normal.

Not that I have anything against "normal".

 

[CletusTheFetus]

Whats a Dom?

It's short for "Dom Deluise lookalike." That's why most "Doms" are fat and/or really ugly- they're trying to look like Mr. Deluise.

 

[doll_parts85]

According to DP's threads on here, she's never had a boyfriend before yet she spends time in various BDSM chatrooms. It seems to me she is looking for ways to avoid having what most people would consider a normal relationship by living in a fantasy world. That is my concern. I think she should try a, sorry if this bothers you, normal relationship with someone of the opposite sex. She's never even dated as I understand it (she's just had one time sex with two men who didn't even kiss her). This doesn't seem normal to me.

LOL I've kissed...and I've been on dates...and I only go in the age play room...at least so far...where I get to pretend I'm a little girl

 

[Byakuya]

LOL I've kissed...and I've been on dates...and I only go in the age play room...at least so far...where I get to pretend I'm a little girl

you can probably meet some FBI agents in there

 

[renard_ruse]

LOL I've kissed...and I've been on dates...and I only go in the age play room...at least so far...where I get to pretend I'm a little girl

I thought you said you've never tounge kissed. You're contradicting your previous threads now.

 

[doll_parts85]

I thought you said you've never tounge kissed. You're contradicting your previous threads now.

I said that I don't know how to kiss yet...not that I haven't done it...I just haven't figured it out yet...the first guy I slept with tried to do it but it didn't exactly work out hehe

 

[doll_parts85]

you can probably meet some FBI agents in there

nah...it's an adult role play room...Daddy/daughter role play...very common fetish in bdsm.

 

[Melodiosa]

Wait. Why are you looking for men on that site if you find them so unattractive? Seriously. All you have to do is go down to the nearest corner bar. I'm sure you could find someone "acceptable" who is drunk enough/desperate enough to sleep with you.

Furthermore, some of the most wonderful and beautiful men I've ever met have been overweight Doms. I really hate to say this, especially from one overweight woman to another, but you are an honest to goodness loser. You hang around this site all day, discussing your personality faults and various ailments with the intelligence of a 12 year old little girl, and then you criticize the people for their imperfections. You should be grateful for what you get because you don't even have enough personality to make up for what you lack in your appearance. I suggest you take the time to work on your personality (take up a few hobbies, read a few books) before you go out and have sex, because in the end, you're just going to be a pussy to some guy who found himself desperate enough to stick it in your twat.

I'm done. I tried reading your posts, I tried to be nice, but you just aren't worth it. I'm sorry, girl.

 

[doll_parts85]

Wait. Why are you looking for men on that site if you find them so unattractive? Seriously. All you have to do is go down to the nearest corner bar. I'm sure you could find someone "acceptable" who is drunk enough/desperate enough to sleep with you.

Furthermore, some of the most wonderful and beautiful men I've ever met have been overweight Doms. I really hate to say this, especially from one overweight woman to another, but you are an honest to goodness loser. You should be grateful for what you get because you don't even have enough personality to make up for what you lack in your appearance. I suggest you take the time to work on your personality (take up a few hobbies, read a few books) before you go out and have sex, because in the end, you're just going to be a pussy to some guy who found himself desperate enough to stick it in your twat.

I think you're just jealous b/c I'm hotter than you

 

[doll_parts85]

and I'm sorry but I don't see where wanting a man to be healthy and take care of himself is such a horrible thing.

 

[_prudence_]

Sorry, I don't want to get into a big argument but its not a valid analogy. BDSM is, again not to start a major debate... but, an abnormal set of behaviors when compared to a caring loving relationship. Your analogy is like saying someone should eat cow brains before they's had Gerber baby food.

That's the second time I've laughed already this morning.....your assumption that a BDSM relationship isn't caring and loving.... lol

 

[CutthroatMona]

well, when was the last time YOU had sex?

16, nope 17 minutes ago now. Came not once but 4 times and going back for more.

Sucks to be you!

 

[doll_parts85]

16, nope 17 minutes ago now. Came not once but 4 times and going back for more.

Sucks to be you!

I just had cam sex with a really hot guy and I'm probably going to be doing it with him in real life very soon.

 

[SigmaStigmata]

doll_parts85: I am not going to bother to wade through the many replies in this thread, but I have never been to a dom/sub/whatever lifestyle. Perchance I run into any overweight, ugly or other unsavory people, chances are, I will not fuck them but inquire how the lifestyle works.

 

[nippleslut]

nevermind