Why am I Bleeding?

[SkyyAngel]

Okay... so the past few days after sex I notice that there's blood on the sheets. It doesn't happen EVERY time I have sex and it's not my period.

I'm on BC and I'm not "scheduled" for one for another week and a half. Plus, when I go to the bathroom there's no blood. So it's not my period. I just had my annual pap exam a few weeks ago and everything was fine. So, it's not anything else I can think of.

Sometimes I can feel him hitting my cervix... so is it possible that his hitting that is causing some menses to "leak" out??

This is strange for me... and not to mention embarassing and starting to piss me off.



Any ideas?

 

[Ezzy]

From all I have read you are having an abnormal bleed. Click here to read more on unusual bleeds.

See a Doctor as soon as you can.

 

[BlueSugar]

Your BC may not be strong enough, you may need to switch types to get more of a boost from the BC.
Its that or you aren't doing something right with the pills?

And ofcourse the abnormal bleed post above mine.


Hope all get works out - report back please !

 

[SkyyAngel]

Been pretty good with my pills... take them every day, same time. And I've had the same scrip for about 3 years now... never had problems with it before.

 

[SkyyAngel]

I don't think it's the abnormal bleeding either... I looked over that link and it says to go to the doctor for a pap and physical exam....

I HAD one just 2 weeks ago and everything was fine. Not pregnant, no STDs...

I'm still thinking it's just him hitting my cervix...

It's NOT my period... I go to the bathroom and it's nothing... It doesn't do it when I'm just sitting here... and not everytime we have sex...

 

[MiloDRemix]

I'd say you're fine. Probably just that you're not used to having a guy as well endowed as the man you're with now. I've had "friends" complain about some bleeding after having sex with their "friend" who has a huge dick.

I wouldn't worry too much but if it IS worrying you just drop by for a doc visit when you have a break from the hot sex you're having.

props to Skyy for being an oral Goddess

 

[Bandit58]

I had that problem a couple of years ago, the doctor said my cervix was inflamed and gave me antibiotics and I was fine. Though if you've just had a pap maybe it's still a little sensitive after that, and him knocking it during sex is making it bleed.......

 

[SkyyAngel]

I had that problem a couple of years ago, the doctor said my cervix was inflamed and gave me antibiotics and I was fine. Though if you've just had a pap maybe it's still a little sensitive after that, and him knocking it during sex is making it bleed.......

That definately sounds plausible....

He seems fine with it.. I'm the embarassed one.

 

[lick_me_there]

i use to have this problem with my ex when we had really "rough" sex. i felt like he was hitting my cervex too. it never really bothered me too much so i never looked into it, i just went and washed up and it was over and done with... besides a little blood never hurt anyone...

but if there is any pain during or afterward go see a doctor!!!

 

[Bandit58]

From what I've read any post coital bleeding should be checked, as it could be a sign of cervical cancer. If nothing else it will put your mind at rest

 

[SkyyAngel]

No... not cervical cancer... pap is fine remember?

And no pain afterwards... general soreness but I would get that anyhow.

It twinges a bit when he hits my cervix... that's how I can tell he's doing it.... but no REAL pain....

 

[boston_bbw]

Did the bleeding occur prior to the pap or just since? My guess is either the pap or the SO has maybe caused a slight scratch or irritation .. it starts to heal up and bang your at it again irritating it before it's healed. Almost like a scab that keeps falling off and takes forever to heal. I agree lay off the sex for a little bit or change it up and see if you can't give things a chance to heal up in there.

 

[LadyG]

Not to sound mean or anything, but why would you come HERE to ask instead of going to a doctor??

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

That definately sounds plausible....

He seems fine with it.. I'm the embarassed one.

How much are you bleeding?

When I first started sexing my boy, I bled a bit because of his huge fucking cock of gigantanormous proportions.

And even the other day I noticed there was a tiny bit again after we'd had hard sex but it wasn't enough to bother worrying about. I can feel him hitting my cervix in certain pozzies too.

I'm also on BC and have been for like 4 years now and have never had probs with it.

I think it's just his huge dick that's the problem.

Oh, and if he fingers you a lot and has nails.... or if he fucks you from here to texas.. it's possible you might have a tear in your cooch.

 

[RavenousRae]

I kinda have the same problem, only mine is because my boyfriend and I live in separate states and don't see each other very often and when we do get together we have a lot of sex. For the first couple days I'm usually pretty sore and I tend to bleed a little. He is also fairly large and hits my cervix (I can feel it hit sometimes). I believe I just bleed because of the rate of infrequency of sex to all of a sudden a lot of sex in a short amount of time. We usually just try and make me super wet and use a lot of lube - sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I know when we did live together this wasn't a problem because our sex was more regular and my body became used to it. I also know that I am healthy, as is he, so this bleeding is not my period or the fact that something is wrong. He wants me to start using a vibrator/dildo to "warm myself up" (his words!) for him before we are together so it's not so uncomfortable etc.. once we are together. Something to think about it.

 

[Noneyabizness]

Been pretty good with my pills... take them every day, same time. And I've had the same scrip for about 3 years now... never had problems with it before.

If your pap was normal, then things are probably okay, but to be on the safe side, call your MD and talk with him/her. You could even have a yeast infection or some other type of vaginal infection, causing you to bleed some after sex.

 

[h_i_s]

Or ........ this could be a case of something even much more simple.

If your partner is well endowed, and/or the intercourse gets a bit rough at times, the blood may be due to tearing of left over bits of hymen tissue.

The hymen is located at the very opening of the vagina, many women even in later years in their lives still have bits of of the edges of their hymens still intact. Even AFTER having given birth to a child/children vaginally, many women still have small parts of their hymen still intact along it's edges. Hell, i'm 37 years old (quite petite at 5'2" 98 lbs ... 32AA/23/34), have given birth vaginally to two babies (each well over 8 pounds) one of them being a breech vaginal birth .... am very much into rough sex (example: been fisted, like it, enjoy such regularly enough)and i STILL have bits of my hymen intact.It's not at ALL uncommon for bits of hymen to remain intact even years after loosing vaginity. It's not at ALL uncommon for new positions, rougher than usual sex, or a thicker/larger cock to find and tear left over hymen bits and then cause temporary light bleeding. The same (rough sex etc) could cause inner vaginal tissues to tear a bit too, also resulting in light bleeding.

i doubt that cancer or an infection, or an 'abnormal bleed', or birth control would be the issue in this case. i doubt that bumping the cervix too hard would cause menses to 'leak' ... this is just NOT the way that it works (menses is due to the lining of the uterus shedding .... therefore would not bleed quite so temporarily .... would not have stopped by the time she reaches the bathroom). She HAS stated that she has been to her GYNO recently and had an exam plus a PAP, and has been on the same form of birth control for 3 years. My bet would be she is bleeding due to tearing of left over bits of hymen and/or slight tears to the vaginal walls. A small & temporary amount of bleeding at times during rough sex is not at all uncommon.

Regardless, a message board is not the most appropriate avenue in addressing any medical concerns ..............
Best advice anyone can offer here: See your doctor/nurse practitioner/gynocologist when seeking advice for any medical concerns.

 

[h_i_s]

*duplicate post* .. oops

 

[pink swirl]

If were just at the ob/gyn's office and your pap is normal, please don't start worrying dramatically about this. This happens from time to time when you have a lot of sex in a short period of time, if it's rough thrusting, or if the thrusting lasts a long time. It's even more likely to happen with condom use. The friction can cause microscopic tears in the delicate skin of your vagina and some blood can seep out. If you feel a little "raw" after a session, that's what it is. Your body will heal itself, but if you have more sex while you're still tender, then it will happen again.

If you're stressed out, give your ob/gyn a call and tell her what's going on. She'll be able to reassure you, since you've just been there and she can easily rule out other problems like STD's, yeast infections, etc.

But, honestly, this happens all the time. You've just been a little too well-fucked, my dear.

Use more lube during marathon sex and you'll be fine.

 

[Ucellis]

I agree with the posts below me. If your pap was fine, don't worry so much, my doctor at every visit has told me that there might be 'spotting' on my BC just because my body will fight against it to have my period. Alot of girls have it and it does happen now and then.

Now its cute when he freaks out after sex and that happends cuz he doesn't like hurting me without purpose but just next time you go to your doctor ask for a different pill or what spotting should look like.

 

[DivineClaud]

Bandit's cancer comment could be a possibility. Anything coul of happened between 2 weeks and now. These tests don't always show everything. My mom was tested for tyroid cancer but they didn't find it through the blood test but only by the visual method. I may not be a woman and all that but you can't always believe a test is 100% accurate. You should get is checked out specifically. thats what i think u should do anyways. Anyways you can forget what i said now if you want.

 

[ZeldaT]

I have had recently simular bleeding problems, though with me I know the guy 1.) isn't hitting my cervix, 2) my recent pap/ ob/gyn check up has came out fine 3.) He is the first guy I have been with since I have been tested for STIs a few years ago and 4.) the sex isn't that rough yet in fact it doesn't even last too long since I am his first

However, he wants me to be on top which is something I am not use too, so I was think that after factoring in me being a plus size girl and him thrusting it could be problemly tearing me a little, or could that be possible?

 

[SkyyAngel]

How much are you bleeding?

It just seemed to be very little. Mostly just a big red spot on the bedsheets the first time (well pinkish really... I think it was just a bit of blood along with my natural... umm... lubrication)

The 2nd time it was less and pretty much just stayed on his cock.

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I'm asking here because I'm on vacation. About 1200 mi away from my regular doctor and with little money to visit someone else I don't trust.

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The hymen thing? Hmmm... didn't even think about that. I mean, I lost my virginity about 6 years ago. Been with 4 different partners during that time but my SO now IS the widest I've ever been with. Not the longest.. but I can definately feel him hitting my cervix in certain positions. I know some women get off on that but to me, it just hurts.

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We haven't had any "alone time" with someplace to actually have sex again since Thursday so I guess I'm just about all "healed up".. lol. Anyone in the San Antonio area with a bed we could borrow?

 

[Guest]

Okay... so the past few days after sex I notice that there's blood on the sheets. It doesn't happen EVERY time I have sex and it's not my period.

I'm on BC and I'm not "scheduled" for one for another week and a half. Plus, when I go to the bathroom there's no blood. So it's not my period. I just had my annual pap exam a few weeks ago and everything was fine. So, it's not anything else I can think of.

Sometimes I can feel him hitting my cervix... so is it possible that his hitting that is causing some menses to "leak" out??

This is strange for me... and not to mention embarassing and starting to piss me off.



Any ideas?

Oh, I remember when this happened to me a few times. You're not alone. I always thought my cervix was low, and when I'm with larger men (penis size), I tend to bleed. My doctor says I don't have a low cervix, but I disagree. (of course, I always do

I definitely believe he's probably hitting your cervix, and making you bleed. I'm wondering if it's worse when you're on top. Everytime I was on top, I couldn't sit straight up when riding him because it would happen worse. Then I had to always hunch over, but I didn't mind much because I was closer to my lover. <smiles more>

All I can say is be careful. Bleeding during intercourse can be signs of cancer. Always get yourself checked. Cervical cancer can hide in tests, and later come out, and it could be too late. Also, try doing what I did. Don't grind!!!!!

Good luck, hon, and be careful!