Who would marry a Prostitute?

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Most of prostitutes will finally get married, don't they?

 

[mercury14]

So, every foreign woman is a prostitute? What a psycho generalization.
Just goes to show that the gene pool needs to be thinned out and soon.

He said only the ones that American service members marry are prostitutes. It's still a psycho generalization, but remember we're talking to a guy that extolls the "great advances in the field of gay curing" that medicine has made.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

No my friends and I never did that. We saw women who worked through bars like that, but... I never saw any American men looking for wives this way.




I work in military mental health and spent three years as the flight commander over Air Force family advocacy (marital therapy, domestic violence, and abuse treatment) while I was stationed in Asia. I've seen infidelity that would turn you green in the face. Some of it involved Asian wives, most did not. Most involved American men cheating on their wives (Asian or not) while they were deployed, TDY in Korea or another base, or simply with someone they met at work.... while their wives were home raising their kids.

Again, I've suspected zero Asian wives I've met professionally or personally to be prostitutes or former prostitutes. Did they flock to a military base in hopes of meeting an American guy? You bet. But in my experience American men aren't interested in dating women who are fucking dozens of guys for money, let alone marrying one.



The answer of course is that racist fucks like yourself are worse than the group you choose to debase.

Bingo. We have a winner. I got under your skin apparently. Did that make you feel better? Face it: you life overseas just may not be representative of all overseas life. Subic Bay, Alongapo, Clark Air Base (Propeller heads like hookers too) areas. Holy cow: Hookers galore.

Sailors probably did not plan to meet hooker wives. They hung out with hookers, became attached, and some married there hooker girlfriends. End of story.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Did you know that Sailors have sex with prostitutes when they visit foreign lands? And if you see a Sailor married to a Filipino or Tai woman, you can betcha that they married a prostitute

Sad but true.

Bronzeage would do it. He forgives all women. Even his mother, who doesn't forgive him for not miscarrying.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

So, every foreign woman is a prostitute? What a psycho generalization.
Just goes to show that the gene pool needs to be thinned out and soon.

Reread the post please. Geez. That was clarified a long time ago.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

He said only the ones that American service members marry are prostitutes. It's still a psycho generalization, but remember we're talking to a guy that extolls the "great advances in the field of gay curing" that medicine has made.

Still ranting about "gay curing?" I thought we moved on and you agreed to no longer distort, and then attack, my position on genetic engineering.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Listen Mr. Ignorant, 3rd-world Asian women who come to areas near military bases by enlarge are NOT prostitutes. They generally don't hang out near bases to make money. They do it to meet an American guy and find a way out of grinding poverty where there is no hope for a better life. And they also do it because it's fun and exciting.

Woah, woah, woah, wait just a second.

"They generally don't hang out near bases to make money."

"They do it to meet an American guy and find a way out of grinding poverty"

I know I'm gonna get flamed for this but how exactly does "find a way out of grinding poverty" NOT mean "to make money"?

How are "find a way out of grinding poverty" and "to make money" not both highly economically-motivated reasons for getting with a guy?

 

[pornstarwannabe]

Woah, woah, woah, wait just a second.

"They generally don't hang out near bases to make money."

"They do it to meet an American guy and find a way out of grinding poverty"

I know I'm gonna get flamed for this but how exactly does "find a way out of grinding poverty" NOT mean "to make money"?

How are "find a way out of grinding poverty" and "to make money" not both highly economically-motivated reasons for getting with a guy?

Quoted for posterity, and as a prime example of sound logic.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Quoted for posterity, and as a prime example of sound logic.

His logic was glaringly unsound.

But your OP "And if you see a Sailor married to a Filipino or Tai woman, you can betcha that they married a prostitute" was equally horrifying.

I don't want to get fully engaged here without clarifying that.

What neither one of you touched upon was Option C: maybe these Asian women married the guy for love. It does happen. Or Option D: Asian women may also feel they acquire more rights as a human being if they marry an American and come back to America. That is not an economic interest.

 

[mercury14]

Still ranting about "gay curing?" I thought we moved on and you agreed to no longer distort, and then attack, my position on genetic engineering.

Your position is that "there have been major advances in the field of gay curing".

 

[mercury14]

Woah, woah, woah, wait just a second.

"They generally don't hang out near bases to make money."

"They do it to meet an American guy and find a way out of grinding poverty"

I know I'm gonna get flamed for this but how exactly does "find a way out of grinding poverty" NOT mean "to make money"?

How are "find a way out of grinding poverty" and "to make money" not both highly economically-motivated reasons for getting with a guy?

It's the same thing as a poor white girl from Iowa marrying a financially secure white guy.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

Your position is that "there have been major advances in the field of gay curing".

I call Bullshit. Show me the post where I said those words.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

It's the same thing as a poor white girl from Iowa marrying a financially secure white guy.

That's it? Consider yourself pimp slapped by LJ.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

It's the same thing as a poor white girl from Iowa marrying a financially secure white guy.

Which contradicts your statement that it's not about making money. When it is about escaping grinding poverty, it is very much about money.

Some women do marry for money, Asian or otherwise. They also marry to escape to a place where they are treated better, which is outside the context of mere economic interests.

 

[mercury14]

Bingo. We have a winner. I got under your skin apparently. Did that make you feel better?

Lol no I'm laughing at you. Let's go back and review your deeply racist comment, shall we? Let's replace Asians with blacks?

Geez, I do not know what's worse: a hooker black or a gold digging black. Can anyone help me out? I really do not know what's worse.

See? You're exposing yourself as a true racist bigot.

Face it: you life overseas just may not be representative of all overseas life.

Oh, but your vicarious experience or tidbits you heard from someone give you real perspective?

Sailors probably did not plan to meet hooker wives. They hung out with hookers, became attached, and some married there hooker girlfriends. End of story.

Oh then you must have some evidence if it's "end of story", right? What's that? You have not even the slightest bit of evidence to back your "confirmed" point?

Why not?

*braces for incoming "It's your job to provide proof for my point"*

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

That's it? Consider yourself pimp slapped by LJ.

You're an idiot. Please do not praise me or side with me in any way. I don't need anyone on this whole forum anywhere no way no how cheering me on, but you I really wish would not ever do it.

 

[mercury14]

Which contradicts your statement that it's not about making money. When it is about escaping grinding poverty, it is very much about money.

Some women do marry for money, Asian or otherwise. They also marry to escape to a place where they are treated better, which is outside the context of mere economic interests.

My point was that it's not about prostitution. And no, I do not consider a man or woman marrying (partially or otherwise) for financial security as prostitution.

 

[mercury14]

I call Bullshit. Show me the post where I said those words.

Great Ganesh, we had this thread already and I shoved your post where you said this down your throat. You lied, denying you said this and I quoted you. Going to lie again?

EDIT: Because I just opened your quote in another window and will slap you across the face with it if you dare deny it a second time.

 

[blondedreamz]

He said only the ones that American service members marry are prostitutes. It's still a psycho generalization, but remember we're talking to a guy that extolls the "great advances in the field of gay curing" that medicine has made.

Yes, well...I still had to go make a drink for this thread.

 

[renard_ruse]

As long as they are consenting adults, who cares?

What a stupid irrelevant contribution to the thread. What does this have to do with the question asked by the OP?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

My point was that it's not about prostitution. And no, I do not consider a man or woman marrying (partially or otherwise) for financial security as prostitution.

I feel that is barely better than prostitution at best, and it's not uncommon for it to be defined as such. It's a transaction. She doesn't love him for him, she loves him for his money. The only difference is she stays with him for as long as he can pay.

What if she marries him for money and he goes broke?

 

[pornstarwannabe]

Lol no I'm laughing at you. Let's go back and review your deeply racist comment, shall we? Let's replace Asians with blacks?

Geez, I do not know what's worse: a hooker black or a gold digging black. Can anyone help me out? I really do not know what's worse.

See? You're exposing yourself as a true racist bigot.

Racist? Not at all. You cannot make that substitution and result in a valid analogy. By making it about color is way different. I am talking about a class of poor people who's business is prostituting. That's what they do. It's their job because they are poor!! Not race related at all.

Oh, but your vicarious experience or tidbits you heard from someone give you real perspective?

These are first hand storied of a few Sailors I've known through the years. We know your experience differs from theirs. Were you commissioned? What will you say next, that the guys I know were lowly enlisted men?

Oh then you must have some evidence if it's "end of story", right? What's that? You have not even the slightest bit of evidence to back your "confirmed" point?

Why not?

*braces for incoming "It's your job to provide proof for my point"*

Where is your evidence other than that was your experience? See, it goes both ways.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Racist? Not at all. You cannot make that substitution and result in a valid analogy.

"And if you see a Sailor married to a Filipino or Tai woman, you can betcha that they married a prostitute"

That singles out a particular race and assigns a stereotype.

It's racist.

I know you're too stupid to grasp this but I sure as hell want to distance myself from you after you soiled my name with your "LJ wins" rant.

 

[renard_ruse]

Did I hit a nerve?

What I said was factual. Although I should have said there is greater than a 50% chance they married a prostitute. I have friends that were in the Navy and told me stories of the Philippines and Thailand.

Sailors go to bars to meet girls, and drink. If they want to take the girl out of the bar, they have to pay a bar fine (Hmmm. Wonder why). Make no mistake that these women are are in the sex business. And when the Sailors are out to sea, their "wives" are almost always unfaithful.

These are poor nations, and marring a Sailor is like hitting the lottery.

Sad but true.

Fairly factual post, won't go over too well on the Politically Correct board here. They don't like the truth if its doesn't suit their Politically Correct sensitivities. RoryN / BBS is the worst of the bunch.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

You're an idiot. Please do not praise me or side with me in any way. I don't need anyone on this whole forum anywhere no way no how cheering me on, but you I really wish would not ever do it.

Oh, lone wolf. I get it.