WhiteRose
Com-passionate flower
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- Jan 12, 2002
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When I gave my first "blowjob" (hates that term because it's so darn confusing to adolescent girls) at 15 or 16, I didn't know what I was supposed to do, so I did what felt natural to me. The guy I was with wasn't very experienced and only a year older than me, so he let me do whatever I wanted. It wasn't even something HE asked for, it just felt natural for me to go there (that was as far as we ever went).
So from my very first time, I've been deepthroating and swallowing. I had no idea there was any other way to do it. None of my friends had gone that far yet, and it wasn't anything we ever talked about so I had NO frame of reference or expectations at all. Licking led to sucking, which led to taking it deeper and deeper until I had him all in my mouth and down my throat. When he came, I just swallowed.
I think what causes a lot of women to gag or not be able to take it down their throats is that they THINK about it while they're doing it. It's like taking a pill, which is hard for me. It gets to the back of my throat, and no matter what I TRY to do, it won't go down...until I relax and concentrate on something else.
As for taste, there are things you can do to alter the flavor like having him eat sweet things like fruit several hours before. There are also products you can use to make it sweeter, but if the head's far enough back in your mouth past the tastebuds on your tongue, you really aren't going to taste it much at all.
I get so lost in the experience of giving head that I've had orgasms from that alone without being otherwise stimulated. I just love it. I'd honestly take oral sex (giving and receiving) over intercourse if I had to choose. There just seems to be so much more sensuality about it.
So from my very first time, I've been deepthroating and swallowing. I had no idea there was any other way to do it. None of my friends had gone that far yet, and it wasn't anything we ever talked about so I had NO frame of reference or expectations at all. Licking led to sucking, which led to taking it deeper and deeper until I had him all in my mouth and down my throat. When he came, I just swallowed.
I think what causes a lot of women to gag or not be able to take it down their throats is that they THINK about it while they're doing it. It's like taking a pill, which is hard for me. It gets to the back of my throat, and no matter what I TRY to do, it won't go down...until I relax and concentrate on something else.
As for taste, there are things you can do to alter the flavor like having him eat sweet things like fruit several hours before. There are also products you can use to make it sweeter, but if the head's far enough back in your mouth past the tastebuds on your tongue, you really aren't going to taste it much at all.
I get so lost in the experience of giving head that I've had orgasms from that alone without being otherwise stimulated. I just love it. I'd honestly take oral sex (giving and receiving) over intercourse if I had to choose. There just seems to be so much more sensuality about it.
