Who are you ? Poll

What are you?

  • Male Dom

    Votes: 65 22.5%
  • Male Sub

    Votes: 25 8.7%
  • Male Slave

    Votes: 7 2.4%
  • Female Dom

    Votes: 9 3.1%
  • Female Sub

    Votes: 105 36.3%
  • Female Slave

    Votes: 22 7.6%
  • Male Switch

    Votes: 30 10.4%
  • Female Switch

    Votes: 26 9.0%

  • Total voters
    289
I didn't participate in the poll because I am whatever fits into my current dynamic, regardless of standardized labels. I admit I identify as sexually submissive, and I object to some of the other terms as they apply to my life. But I think the interactions between me and someone important in my life are the definitions, not the words we pick to put upon ourselves.

And I think I want the freedom to evolve, if being "sexually submissive" ever becomes something that does not work for me.

Dang...that sounds mightily snotty. No offense intended to anyone.
 
Hey, I feel the same way. I think most people here would agree that its not your label, but your actions that makes you who you are.
 
Dominant male. I agree with many of the commentors who note that such a label doesn't tell one a whole lot about about a person, even in terms of BDSM tastes, but at least it's a start, and it is the answer asked for in this thread.
 
I didn't participate in the poll because I am whatever fits into my current dynamic, regardless of standardized labels. I admit I identify as sexually submissive, and I object to some of the other terms as they apply to my life. But I think the interactions between me and someone important in my life are the definitions, not the words we pick to put upon ourselves.

And I think I want the freedom to evolve, if being "sexually submissive" ever becomes something that does not work for me.

Dang...that sounds mightily snotty. No offense intended to anyone.
More like-- mightily intelligent. I'm giving you a standing ovation, personally.
:rose:
 
Meh.

"Male Switch" is the closest, so that's where my vote went.

But, really, I'm too gay to be straight, too straight to be gay, too femmy to be male, too masculine to be female, too dominant to be a submissive, and too submissive to be a dominant.

Confused?

You would not be alone in that :D


And you wouldn't be alone in this.

Damn, dude, you sound... like me, but the other way around. :D

I'll vote female switch, but it doesn't account for stuff like this. (It does, however, conveniently bypass the lack of bottom/top options.)

I agree with Chiara on the freedom to evolve. These things tend to be fluid, for me at least. Sometimes I'm pretty set in my ways, and sometimes, I'll discover entirely new turn ons in unexpected combinations of gender, orientation and pyl/PYL mode. (Thanks Lit ;))

Yeah well, what can I say? Confusion can be hawt. :devil:
 
this one's story...

i am Master's whore
my greatest joy is serving
He takes care of me

Night in June '09
Fully gave myself to Him
Never looking back

Submitted and knelt
Turned up my ass for His Hand
Loving spanks applied

Never in my life
This kind of passion, giving
Deeper orgasms

my cums? they are His
He gives them when He decides
i eagerly wait

Serving Him is bliss
Craving Him, needing His Cock
Peace found in His Crotch
 
this one's story...

i am Master's whore
my greatest joy is serving
He takes care of me

Night in June '09
Fully gave myself to Him
Never looking back

Submitted and knelt
Turned up my ass for His Hand
Loving spanks applied

Never in my life
This kind of passion, giving
Deeper orgasms

my cums? they are His
He gives them when He decides
i eagerly wait

Serving Him is bliss
Craving Him, needing His Cock
Peace found in His Crotch

Wisdom.

So nice to see a sub that Knows Her Place.
 
Both depends who its with

Im male switch it all depends who im with. If im with my best friend she always loves to be in control and she knows just how to please her pets and i enjoy it very much ;). But if its with any other girl i am always the dom. My mistress is a very good teacher everything i know about being the dom i learned from her. Sometimes she steals my slaves but in the end i still get to play with them so im ok with it lol. I want to he used now i hope shes free right now ;).
 
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