Which is 'inappropriate'?

[DallasDonna]

Vote for EACH ONE that you would consider inappropriate if you found out your SO was doing on Lit without your knowledge.

Multiple choices allowed (encouraged!)

If you vote without posting a comment, please post 'voted' to keep on first page.

(Yes, I see I screwed up the poll- repeated one. Sorry.)

 

[DallasDonna]

So far, a tie between flirting via PM and None of the above...

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

posting personal erotic photos

 

[janeyl]

For me, it would be anything implying a degree of intimacy...I'd rather he fucked someone than shared time or something of himself other than his cock with them...

 

[37_ttej]

Voted.

 

[flirtygirly]

Voted.

My SO knows of Lit, I've lead him here to the story section. But he doesn't know that I'm a Litster. That being said, if he'd ever ask, I'd let him look thru anything I've posted and PM's. Nothing for me to really hide. I don't get flirty on here or with others here when I'm spoken for.

 

[alt_ego]

Voted

 

[tiny_tits]

To be totally honest- I am 'inappropriate' here on Lit, IMHO.
I know that.

Posting pics without his knowledge, while in an exclusive relationship is being a bit dishonest

 

[vibes]

To be totally honest- I am 'inappropriate' here on Lit, IMHO.
I know that.

Posting pics without his knowledge, while in an exclusive relationship is being a bit dishonest

As is srp and PM flirting (talking of myself)

 

[mrspank30]

To be totally honest- I am 'inappropriate' here on Lit, IMHO.
I know that.

Posting pics without his knowledge, while in an exclusive relationship is being a bit dishonest

But we love and admire you for it. Wink.

 

[Kalamain]

Voted.

I would have no probs with the wife doing anything. The only thing I would have issues is if she was posting pics of me or someone else without permission.

I too am doing all those things and the wife probably has no idea what I am doing. I'm fairly sure she has a good idea at least.

 

[pete]

voted.

a few of those were kinda like, "well it depends..."

 

[MDaddy]

Voted, but i viewed it wrong

 

[tolyk]

To be totally honest- I am 'inappropriate' here on Lit, IMHO.
I know that.

Posting pics without his knowledge, while in an exclusive relationship is being a bit dishonest

Not really. It's still your body and you can display it however and whenever you want. It's not like you are out sleeping around. We place far too much sanctity on nudity in North America.

 

[EctoJohn]

I voted for Flirting via PM and None of the Above.
Flirting is kind of a grey line, which is why I mixed it with None of te Above that sort of negates it.

We all flirt here for the most part, and a lot of it is innocent, coy flirting.
It's just fun.
I do it, so if I had a SO, I wouldn't mind her doing it.

I would have a problem, though, if it went too far.
I wouldn't want her getting to an emotional point with flirting, and doing it in a PM is extra shady.
Odds are, though, if my SO was on Lit, I'd probably be there too, so I'd know what's up.
If she's flirting to an extend she needs to hide it in PM, that's not good.

So, long story short, if the PM flirting is bad enough that she's hiding it from me, that's inappropriate, otherwise I'm cool with her being here.

 

[may_I_please]

So is this designed to make people take a step back from lit or what?

Every single thing I do is inappropriate ...being inappropriate rocks!

Prrrppppptttttt

 

[mrspank30]

So is this designed to make people take a step back from lit or what?

Every single thing I do is inappropriate ...being inappropriate rocks!

Prrrppppptttttt

Hugs I love that you embrace It

 

[unregistered]

 

[MDaddy]

To be totally honest- I am 'inappropriate' here on Lit, IMHO.
I know that.

Posting pics without his knowledge, while in an exclusive relationship is being a bit dishonest

Guilty myself so voted as if my spouse caught me here

Not really. It's still your body and you can display it however and whenever you want. It's not like you are out sleeping around. We place far too much sanctity on nudity in North America.

And your only partly right its our bodies yes but it still isn't right to hurt our partner as they believe their the only eyes that get to see it.

At least thats what i ummm heard anyway

 

[MDaddy]

So is this designed to make people take a step back from lit or what?

Every single thing I do is inappropriate ...being inappropriate rocks!

Prrrppppptttttt

I'm with you to a point.

 

[tolyk]

Guilty myself so voted as if my spouse caught me here




And your only partly right its our bodies yes but it still isn't right to hurt our partner as they believe their the only eyes that get to see it.

At least thats what i ummm heard anyway

Why would it hurt my partner to know someone else has seen me naked? My wife knows I am on lit, hell I met her here. While we dated and for the first part of our marriage, I had an am pics thread. I've actually been thinking of starting it back up. I get to satisfy my exhibitionist side, and my wife gets the benefits of a hornier tolyk

And just because you disagree with my opinion and views doesn't make them less right. It just means we disagree.

Edit to add: if she posed nude for a figure study class without his knowledge, is that inappropriate/hurtful? If she went to a nude beach.. Etc..

 

[tiny_tits]

Why would it hurt my partner to know someone else has seen me naked? My wife knows I am on lit, hell I met her here. While we dated and for the first part of our marriage, I had an am pics thread. I've actually been thinking of starting it back up. I get to satisfy my exhibitionist side, and my wife gets the benefits of a hornier tolyk

And just because you disagree with my opinion and views doesn't make them less right. It just means we disagree.

Edit to add: if she posed nude for a figure study class without his knowledge, is that inappropriate/hurtful? If she went to a nude beach.. Etc..

Maybe not so much disagree, but more like 'in a different type of relationship'?

 

[Trixareforkids]

I voted NOTA

However, I didn't initially consider the fact that "posting personal erotic experiences" could mean speaking about things your SO is involved in and may not want shared with the world. That IMO would be inappropriate.

 

[thefishfryer]

I voted none of the above on the assumption that it was done anonymously.

 

[beachbaby179]

It would be hypocritical of me to vote anything other than NOTA. I'm a lot of things...but hypocrite is nowhere on the list.