Where's my anal?

[Gaucho]

No offense taken, SG. Men do tend to think that everything in the world revolves around the one-eyed toadstool.

But that doesn't change the question: While I'll agree that it's all sex, when you're kissing or licking or using your fingers or even a dildo on your partner's bum, are you engaged in Anal, Oral or are you just diddling around?

 

[Gaucho]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Where's my anal?

And no. Actually the anus is not "ground zero" for subbie sexuality. As with everyone's sexuality, the mind is.

Thank God for that, Cym. Otherwise, those of us who try to engage each other with the written word would be in real trouble, wouldn't we?

And when it comes to interesting and subtle minds, you're the dom.

 

[sexy-girl]

But that doesn't change the question: While I'll agree that it's all sex, when you're kissing or licking or using your fingers or even a dildo on your partner's bum, are you engaged in Anal, Oral or are you just diddling around?

i dont have names for stuff i do or set positions i will try ... i just have fun it seems to work best


i dont care if its called stuffing the elephants earlobe if it feels good im going to do it

 

[Svedish_Chef]

i dont care if its called stuffing the elephants earlobe if it feels good im going to do it

Oh baby you do it so well



Stuff the elephant earlobe!


OK everybody, GIBBON time!

 

[Starfish]

I know I told you that I would. I had to go out of town, but I am back now, and I am ready to give you your anal.

Come Never and bend over my knee.

 

[cymbidia]

OTK: a very short primer

I know I told you that I would. I had to go out of town, but I am back now, and I am ready to give you your anal.

Come Never and bend over my knee.

A little point of procedure?

"Bending over the knees" is a position usually reserved for the following:
1. spanking (ohhh... yeh... barehanded, cuz there's nothing like *that* sound followed immediately by the sharp wild spreading red heat of contact...)(but paddles are good too... can't discount them...)

2. taking one's temperature anally (i had a Dom with a medical festish once upon a time so i know WAY more about ths kinda thing than you might imagine)

3. the giving of enemas (see above)


As a matter of fact, darlin', OTK (over the knee) play rarely includes anything from the delicious menu of Anal sexuality. Hands and knees are best for that, or on one's back and spread widely, at least in my experience.