I live in Southern California and I am wondering where or how, should I go about finding real world/skin on skin BDSM people. Mostly, looking for a Dom Man. I am a 34 year old w/female, 5' 5" 120lbs ( cute and sexy ) There is no problem meeting men who are interested. Apparently, a normal sexual relationship just wont do anymore. I long to be controlled by a strong, sexy, well hung man. (doesn't everyone). Nothing too out of control; Public humiliation, diaper/urinating kink, orgies, blood, etc. not interested! If anyone has any ideas or suggestions for me, it would be greatly appreciated. Hug and Kiss, Tessa