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Where do married men who are bi meet each other ?

FlirtyWordy said:
I've noticed that site has taken a big plunge lately, perhaps because of ID requirements?
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In my area there are still lots of guys, and even a few CD/trannies, posting. I've had pretty good success on there. Better than lit for damn sure. Most people here play a good game until it's time for the rubber to meet the road. Then they either back out with some lame excuse or just ghost you.
 
TrailerHitch said:
In my area there are still lots of guys, and even a few CD/trannies, posting. I've had pretty good success on there. Better than lit for damn sure. Most people here play a good game until it's time for the rubber to meet the road. Then they either back out with some lame excuse or just ghost you.
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Yes, lots of flakes. However, I'm in a state with onerous new ID laws, and I'm guessing that might have driven men away. There are maybe 20% of the "blue dots" there used to be.
 
I think the biggest problem is where do you go? Sniffies and other sites show a lot of bi people like myself, but no one can host. As a married bi male (near Grand Rapids, MI) I would love a FWB man, but I can't host. My wife wanted (and got) a security camera for our driveway, thus I can't host. Where do we go to meet like minded men? The ABS? Parks where one can get arrested? Please share location ideas.
 
Excitabletom said:
I think the biggest problem is where do you go? Sniffies and other sites show a lot of bi people like myself, but no one can host. As a married bi male (near Grand Rapids, MI) I would love a FWB man, but I can't host. My wife wanted (and got) a security camera for our driveway, thus I can't host. Where do we go to meet like minded men? The ABS? Parks where one can get arrested? Please share location ideas.
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Yeah, the ol' "can't host" problem. My wife also put up cameras, so it makes it difficult even if she's out of town.
 
Excitabletom said:
I think the biggest problem is where do you go? Sniffies and other sites show a lot of bi people like myself, but no one can host. As a married bi male (near Grand Rapids, MI) I would love a FWB man, but I can't host. My wife wanted (and got) a security camera for our driveway, thus I can't host. Where do we go to meet like minded men? The ABS? Parks where one can get arrested? Please share location ideas.
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Couldn't the backseat of an suv or truck work as a 'host' location?

I'll bet many Lit members were conceived in such locations.
 
Here. I have met several on Lit., nothing IRL … yet. We joke about meeting up someday and someday it might happen.

I have met guys on Fetlife, Feeld and AFF, but only the Feeld guy worked out to be something great. AFF is a dumpster fire!
 
phil1955 said:
Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.
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Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.
 
Milo9012 said:
Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.
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That's interesting. Several of my BJ buds were also avid golfers. I don't golf, but I do play tennis. You'd think that'd be another way to meet potential buds, but so far nothing has happened. Maybe golf affords more opportunities for casual chat, chat that could lead to something less casual.
 
jonjonz68 said:
That's interesting. Several of my BJ buds were also avid golfers. I don't golf, but I do play tennis. You'd think that'd be another way to meet potential buds, but so far nothing has happened. Maybe golf affords more opportunities for casual chat, chat that could lead to something less casual.
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I think that's the difference, the opportunity to chat while walking between holes and the solitude the outdoors provides.

Can't get that kind of intimacy while playing tennis.
 
Milo9012 said:
Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.
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We do not always talk about sports and it is amazing how many guys are not getting anything at home. It does not take too much before they realize that a guys mouth on their cock really beats jacking off.
 
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