When Y/you test me....test Y/yourself

[chelseachained]

When you test me…test yourself

It is understood within a D/s relationship that at times
The sub will be tested. Speaking plainly, (my opinion only of course)
I believe that this is part of the excitement and the attraction to a
Dom from their submissive. Knowing that this one person will require
Of you what no other would dare to ask, and you are bound to consider it.
Which brings me to the subject of testing my boundaries.
As my Dominant i have made known to Y/you all of my weaknesses,
The areas in which i am hesitant and vulnerable. And i understand
That Y/you are going to push those boundaries as Y/you feel the need
Or desire to do so. As my Dominant Y/you also possess a healthy size ego.
Y/you are not going to set Y/yourself up to fail. So my belief is that
By the time Y/you push me on an issue, Y/you are fairly certain within Y/yourself what the outcome is going to be. However…that out come is a matter of my obedience and loyalty to Y/you. Understand that what
Is an act of faith for Y/you may be a life altering experience for me.
It may very well be for the positive, then again, it may not.
The cause and effect, the aftermath, will still be Y/yours to deal and Live with. So choose wisely and be prepared to deal with the consequences of change. At times choose something which will test Y/you as well. Be sure Y/you are worthy to test the will of another human being.
And above all, this should only be for the purpose of enriching
Y/your D/s relationship. These events should never be instigated out
Of anger, for punishment, or mere entertainment.
I will end as I began…when Y/you test me…. Test Y/yourself.

 

[incubus'_sub]

Yes, yes, that's lovely & you've obviously been thinking about this a lot lately as most newbies tend to do in the beginning. Please don't use that dreadful C/capital thing on the boards though, it's bloody annoying.

 

[jadefirefly]

Such a sweet way to make a request; I'm sure she'll be leaping to post more after that.

No need to be such an ass about it.

Chelsea, I like your posts. They are very well thought out, and well phrased. After the first couple of times, however, the doubled capitals does get very frustrating to sort through. It's why you won't see many others who make regular posts here using it -- although the other reason is probably that assmonkeys run 'em off before discovering that they're actually intelligent, decent people who just want to hang out with others of like mind, and aren't actually out to make nuisances of themselves.

I understand that there's a reason for the doubled caps thing; nobody's going to ask you to deviate from whatever that reason is. It's just a lot easier to read your posts, and they -are- good, without that, too.

 

[chelseachained]

Thank you for your responses

Not to worry that is not typically the way i write, it was in fact in a letter i had written to one that requested that format. Thank you Jade for your encouragement smiles fortunately i am not thin skinned. my comment to incubus would have to be..if you were trying to be condescending consider yourself successful.