When is sex the best?

[cunme69]

Is sex the best when someone is new in your life?
Is sex the best when two people are in love and are emotionally attached?

 

[Lady2020]

I don't know. It does help that you have a connection, that you like each other, and respect each other.

 

[magicalmoments]

I firmly believe that the societal standard/value that has conditioned people into the belief that for sex to be at its best, meaningful, the couple involved need to be emotionally connected, is absolute bullshit.

I accept that those who have been conditioned to it throughout their lives by churches, protective parents, the education system, society at large, literature, whatever, believe it and that when most of them have stepped outside the box and had sex with someone they are not emotionally connected with they did not enjoy the experience.

It's called brainwashing, people. It's hard to break out of that sort of conditioning.

Those who have been able to, and I include myself among them, have found the truth. You don't have to be emotionally connected to have the most amazing sex.

 

[AchtungNight]

Sex is best when it’s one on one. Unless someone involved wants to bring in more people.

 

[BCJ111]

Agree with MagicalMoments.

While some of the best sex I've had was with people I was emotionally attached to.

Some has been with another party who - like me - just wanted to have a fucking good time.

and some I have paid cash for to a provider who met a particular kink I wanted to try.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have had moments that were amazing, like two of us realizing we liked the same kinky kind of sex, or after both of us being heart-broken by past loves, we found one another and with it, hope for the future. All were amazing sexual times, but the best sex?

The best sex for me was with my ex-wife after waiting the required six weeks to have sex again after she had my daughter; my first child.

THAT SEX was the best, because it was only after having my daughter did I realize the full potential of what sex really can be.

Only after creating a real-live human baby, with its ten toes and fingers, little whisps of hair, and all the amazing details of going from a teaspoon of sperm to living, breathing 7 pound baby in only 9 months time, does a person realize the full potential of sex. To wait, then celebrate with the mother of my child sex together again, was an amazing moment.

 

[mpeters]

Well, in my opinion, the best sex, I’ve found in my own experience, is:

When someone else is involved too.

And they’re enthusiastic about it.

But right now I’d be happy just with the first one.

 

[easyoff]

Spur of the moment sex

 

[womaneater58]

Spur of the moment is always great.

 

[live4thebj]

Honestly I think it is all the above. The best fucks for me were with people I cared about. But it wasn’t every time we did it. And honestly can’t say why those particular events were so amazing.

However early stages of a relationship with someone as sexual as you if not more makes for great sex.

 

[Beth_Anne90]

George Michael says "Sex is best when it's one on one!" I'd have one on one sex with him in a heartbeat if he were still alive!

 

[Diann_Mom]

George Michael says "Sex is best when it's one on one!" I'd have one on one sex with him in a heartbeat if he were still alive!

Me too Beth!! One my favorite sexy songs!!

 

[Sincity09]

Everyone is hard wired differently imo. Some need a total body, soul and emotional connection, others can have raw, passionate sex with simply a compatible individual. No right or wrong answer in my opinion

 

[J_Bone]

Lots of right answers to this and really no wrong ones. However, one that I think qualifies is the first time with a new lover, especially if it's been deeply desired, anticipated, and thought about for some time. Nothing like seeing each other nude for the first time, drinking in and really taking the time to explore each others body as well as mental sexuality, finding all those little hot spots that make her purr, perhaps some she didn't even know she had. Then of course that very first moment of penetration. Lots of other ways and great answers, but that's one that can't ever be recreated and always seems memorable.