When Former Lovers Reappear

[juicylips]

What do you do when a former lover wants back into your life?

Maybe all he/she wants is one time...no strings.

Do you do it if you're still attracted and unattached? Or maybe you are attached but they remind you of better times.

What has been your experience with former lovers?

Tell me.
jl

 

[Sillyman]

I'd tell them to fuck off. Nicely of course.

 

[juicylips]

I'd tell them to fuck off. Nicely of course.

Of course.

 

[Summery]

I'm still friends with some of my ex lovers. But, for the most part, when it's over, it's simply over. I have a couple that like to pay me a surprise visit occasionally. (Tonight in fact) I have speculations as to why. Most often, I am just too nice for my own good. I view it like this, they are "ex" lovers for a reason. While I admit everyone's situations are different, I never think about going back. Makes no difference whether I am attached or not. I am learning to move forward from each experience.
Sexual attraction or otherwise, would never be reason enough for me to get involved with an ex again. No matter how charming they might be. I don't know, it's late, not sure I really answered what you were asking.

Good morning, sweetness. I have missed you very much!

 

[juicylips]

Good morning, sweetness. I have missed you very much!

Good morning! Missed you, too.

 

[Guest]

 

[Romial]

If she was a good lay...I might depending on how we broke up and what I thought of her.

And of course if I wasn't seeing anyone at the time.

Morning JL.

 

[juicylips]

Are you saying you want me back, Juicy one??

Always

 

[juicylips]

If she was a good lay...I might depending on how we broke up and what I thought of her.

And of course if I wasn't seeing anyone at the time.

Morning JL.

Morning, handsome.


Ever have someone in your life you just couldn't say "no" to?

 

[Guest]

 

[Romial]

Morning, handsome.


Ever have someone in your life you just couldn't say "no" to?

Ya, myself. But other than that...not yet. And you decide if that's a good thing or not. lol

 

[Smiley777]

Don't have a former lover yet. Still loving my original.

Eek za...I don't want any former. I want her.

 

[Summery]

Ever have someone in your life you just couldn't say "no" to?

YES! My current significant other.

 

[ozraven]

What do you do when a former lover wants back into your life?

Maybe all he/she wants is one time...no strings.

Do you do it if you're still attracted and unattached? Or maybe you are attached but they remind you of better times.

What has been your experience with former lovers?

Tell me.
jl

Hi beautiful.........
given your painted situation(ie unattached), yes I would, without question.......
Previous experience has been varied, some I stayed friends with long after, my last one I haven't spoken to since the day I left, her call I tried....... shame really, she was a wonderful person, just not my wonderful person........

 

[markb325]

If one of my very few ex lovers tried to come back into my life, I would tell them to get lost. I don't take being hurt or insulted very easily and I tend to hold a grudge when I it happens.

Morning JL

 

[bknight2602]

Personally if it were a former lover, I would leeave it at being former. No need to stir the pot of emotional BS. This is from my mind, of course if shetook her clothes off in front of me, the "other" head would start taking control.

Morning jl

 

[Lost Cause]

Been there.....

Ex-wife kept wanting to go out, or just wanted to be cuddled like the 'good old days', in her view.
We agreed that there was a .00001% chance of anything happening after what we went through before the divorce, then we went out.
It felt pretty good, we did laugh alot, and had a good time.
We slowly started to make out, and knew all the right buttons already, so we went to my place.
We both tried to turn it into a 'grudgefuck' seeing who could wear who out first.
We had some good fun, but both realized while we fucked good, there wasn't the spark that was between us before.
We did agree to being friends, and maybe fuck buddies, but it was over.

It was sweet and sad at the same time.

 

[ReadyMike]

Ex sex is the best sex! Not that its happened a lot to me.

Maybe I'm a pushover, but if a woman askes me for sex my mind says "whoohoo" and away we go.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: When Former Lovers Reappear

Hi beautiful.........

Flatterer.

 

[juicylips]

If one of my very few ex lovers tried to come back into my life, I would tell them to get lost. I don't take being hurt or insulted very easily and I tend to hold a grudge when I it happens.

Morning JL

Morning, darlin'.

So I take it that your past relationships ended on a bad note?

 

[ozraven]

Re: Re: Re: When Former Lovers Reappear

Flatterer.

Moi?

Just an experienced talent scout....

 

[juicylips]

Personally if it were a former lover, I would leeave it at being former. No need to stir the pot of emotional BS. This is from my mind, of course if shetook her clothes off in front of me, the "other" head would start taking control.

Morning jl

Morning, bk

Emotional BS is a very good way of putting it.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Been there.....

It was sweet and sad at the same time.

It's a shame sometimes when great sex isn't enough.

 

[juicylips]

Ex sex is the best sex! Not that its happened a lot to me.

Maybe I'm a pushover, but if a woman askes me for sex my mind says "whoohoo" and away we go.

All I have to do is ask?

 

[ReadyMike]

All you have to do is hold still!