When fantasies go wrong.

[LuciousLadyMary]

The one that did not go like planned was more for the guy I was dating rather than me. I was seeing this guy and he came out to me he found cuckolding to be really hot and really wanted to see me be with a black man. I knew a guy so we set everything up and it went down and he watched us have sex. Afterwards though he became very insecure and questioned everything we did while he watching. In the end I think it hurt him more than him enjoying it.

The first time a hubby watches can be devastating to them. Ours have always gone pretty good except he told me after the first time that he'd prefer I didn't kiss my dates anymore. The intimacy of a kiss upset him more than watching me being fucked. The next time I almost forgot and kissed the guy once we were in bed. Ron was right beside me and told me later that it would have been ok to have kissed him then. It was the make out kiss beforehand that upset him. Talk it out with him. Communication is the key.

 

[cuck72]

The first time a hubby watches can be devastating to them. Ours have always gone pretty good except he told me after the first time that he'd prefer I didn't kiss my dates anymore. The intimacy of a kiss upset him more than watching me being fucked. The next time I almost forgot and kissed the guy once we were in bed. Ron was right beside me and told me later that it would have been ok to have kissed him then. It was the make out kiss beforehand that upset him. Talk it out with him. Communication is the key.

I think your husband is right on. I'm so submissive, and I feel so much more jealousy when I think of other men kissing my wife. Just seeing a guy give her a peck on the cheek, gets me excited. I love it the best watching a video where there is lots of kissing during the sex. I get extra turned on, so I can see where your husband might feel more jealousy or something like that, and not like that feeling. It's more like real love making not just simple sex.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

I think your husband is right on. I'm so submissive, and I feel so much more jealousy when I think of other men kissing my wife. Just seeing a guy give her a peck on the cheek, gets me excited. I love it the best watching a video where there is lots of kissing during the sex. I get extra turned on, so I can see where your husband might feel more jealousy or something like that, and not like that feeling. It's more like real love making not just simple sex.

I know when I read his story of that night I was really surprised that the make out kiss upset him. But the kiss during sex on my next date didn't. We've talked it out and I'm gonna try to do what he wants it's just sometimes you gotta go with the flow.

 

[Pee4Fun]

I've often seen people say that fantasies should stay fantasies because they don't live up to it in reality. I've been lucky enough to try many of my fantasies and they have nearly always turned out to be amazing, such as being pegged with a strap-on but one fantasy let me down. So people of the forum what fantasies sucked for you?

For me it was Golden Showers, I'm basically submissive and the idea of being pissed on really turned me on, my current partner got to the point where she decided she could do, the build up was excellent and as I lay on the wet room floor she said all the right things as she pissed on me but some how it just didn't float me boat. I've never had any desire to revisit it, but before it happened I had thought about it a lot.

So sorry that your golden showers experience didn't live up to the fantasy.

I had wanted my wife to pee on me back when I was married. The idea aroused me like nothing else ever did. It took me a very long time to get up the courage to ask my wife to do this for me. She was very surprised and said she didn't know if she could ever do it. Eighteen months then went by.

One night during sex, she asked, "Wouldn't it be erotic if I peed on you now?" My heart pounded with excitement! However, she couldn't seem to do it during sex. So, we went to the bathtub. I knelt down and she stood over me. She let loose with a torrent that I drank as best as I could. The experience was even hotter than I had imagined!

There was one more shower from her before she finally said she didn't want to do it anymore. Oh well, at least she tried. I think most wives would have said no.

So, luckily for me, my fantasy was very erotic when it became a reality!