When fantasies go wrong.

bad_dave

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I've often seen people say that fantasies should stay fantasies because they don't live up to it in reality. I've been lucky enough to try many of my fantasies and they have nearly always turned out to be amazing, such as being pegged with a strap-on but one fantasy let me down. So people of the forum what fantasies sucked for you?

For me it was Golden Showers, I'm basically submissive and the idea of being pissed on really turned me on, my current partner got to the point where she decided she could do, the build up was excellent and as I lay on the wet room floor she said all the right things as she pissed on me but some how it just didn't float me boat. I've never had any desire to revisit it, but before it happened I had thought about it a lot.
 
I've often seen people say that fantasies should stay fantasies because they don't live up to it in reality. I've been lucky enough to try many of my fantasies and they have nearly always turned out to be amazing, such as being pegged with a strap-on but one fantasy let me down. So people of the forum what fantasies sucked for you?

For me it was Golden Showers, I'm basically submissive and the idea of being pissed on really turned me on, my current partner got to the point where she decided she could do, the build up was excellent and as I lay on the wet room floor she said all the right things as she pissed on me but some how it just didn't float me boat. I've never had any desire to revisit it, but before it happened I had thought about it a lot.

Getting throat fucked. Was fun until I threw up. A lot. Tried it twice on different occasions. Same fucking result. :mad: I would do it again though.. think he's afraid too though, and it wasn't really his thing in the first place. :p

Oh, and anal fisting.. that was his fantasy to do to me but my fantasy was to submit and give it to him. Got part way and now I am scared to try and finish. Way to freakin' intense. I mean, intense as anything when I didn't even complete it. :/ He got to his knuckles and got them part way in. It has actually for the first time in over 6 months made me not horny... and for almost a week too...I am always horny. So I'd say that's a failed fantasy. Although I am still going to try again. :(
 
I've been lucky enough to live out many of my fantasies and all but one were everything i could have desired. The one failure was a good old fashioned orgy! The actuality did not live up to my expectations, and believe me, I had years of wonderful fantasy on this scenario before the opportunity presented itself. Now I no longer fantasise group sex, can't even be bothered watching orgy porn any more.
 
My wife

She finds her way into my account her on literotica. Reads about my cream pie fantasy and decides to do her boss. Then brings me home my first cream pie.
 
There are one or two fantasy scenarios in my head that I've always had that I sometimes try to base a story on, but they're probably best left in my head because as soon as I write it down it just fizzles out.
 
I've often seen people say that fantasies should stay fantasies because they don't live up to it in reality. I've been lucky enough to try many of my fantasies and they have nearly always turned out to be amazing, such as being pegged with a strap-on but one fantasy let me down. So people of the forum what fantasies sucked for you?

For me it was Golden Showers, I'm basically submissive and the idea of being pissed on really turned me on, my current partner got to the point where she decided she could do, the build up was excellent and as I lay on the wet room floor she said all the right things as she pissed on me but some how it just didn't float me boat. I've never had any desire to revisit it, but before it happened I had thought about it a lot.

The one that did not go like planned was more for the guy I was dating rather than me. I was seeing this guy and he came out to me he found cuckolding to be really hot and really wanted to see me be with a black man. I knew a guy so we set everything up and it went down and he watched us have sex. Afterwards though he became very insecure and questioned everything we did while he watching. In the end I think it hurt him more than him enjoying it.
 
The one big disappointment for me was two guys at the same time. It was fun but it's too hard to concentrate on two cocks at the same time and do them justice.
 
Blow jobs were a bit iffy at the start but I kept at it, got pretty good and love them.
 
The one big disappointment for me was two guys at the same time. It was fun but it's too hard to concentrate on two cocks at the same time and do them justice.

I get that, I forget to suck...but no one ever complains :)
 
I sucked dick long before getting pussy. I had anal but my buddy was small. My fantasy was a big cock in me. I met an older guy in his 20s. He wanted to fuck a guy. He was a lot larger than I had. It was not pleasant. It seemed he thought my ass was a pussy and was rough. Went right back to my buddy. So much better.
 
I haven't had a fantasy go wrong or bad.
The fantasies I've had the good fortune to live out have been better than my fantasies. I want to do them all again. I do have a couple of fantasies that will never become reality.
 
I have a fantasy of fucking a chick with a strap-on and both of us really getting off on it. I've tried many times and always been disappointed. Like they expect it to feel like a real cock but if doesn't so they can't get into it. Shrug
 
This wasn't a fantasy that wrong, it just didn't seem fulfilled.

My wife and I are a hotwife couple. I have this long time fantasy of we're out celebrating our anniversary, birthday, etc. Or just date night. While we're out we're approached by another man. A handsome smooth talker than moves in on my wife. She returns the attraction. We invite him home with us and he fucks her in our marital bed. I recently tried to (kind of) fulfill that fantasy. I took her out, wished her, dined her, then we called her lover over. They spent the night screwing in our bed.

It ended up just feeling like one of his visits. For it to really work it'll probably have to be with a strange man.
 
I have a fantasy of fucking a chick with a strap-on and both of us really getting off on it. I've tried many times and always been disappointed. Like they expect it to feel like a real cock but if doesn't so they can't get into it. Shrug

Have you tried a feeldoe or a realdoe? Also, it is my experience that women do not naturally thrust the way men do, and she may be picking up on that. The feed back you get from your real cock sliding inside her helps you judge thrusts much better, and move in and out smoothly.
 
I've always had fantasies of other guys we've known over the years fucking my wife. I finally got her to do it, years ago after 8 years of marriage. I LOVED IT! He was a co-worker I hung out with once in a while, I wouldn't even think of him as a close or good friend, because we didn't hang out a lot like good friends would. But my wife liked him, and I shared a few hot fantasies with her about him fucking her.

One night he was over and it just happened, we were playing cards and he joked about the three of us playing strip poker. My wife said, "no that's ok," It's late I'm going to bed." Then after a couple minutes she called me from down the hallway. She stuck her head out of the bathroom and said, you really want to do this 3sum. I was WOW! shocked and said "yes, but it's totally up to you," I didn't want her to do something like this that she would regret later. She said "go get your friend and give us some time alone." OH MAN! I was over the top excited.

We ended up hooking up with him a few times for some really hot 3sums, it lasted like a year. I have a few really hot memories of those nights that I like reliving. So the fantasy turned real was great for us.
 
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A ffm threesome with my then fiancé and a neighbor, a very elegant and openly bisexual woman I had been fantasizing about since the first day she had moved into the appartment next to us. It was me who threw out the idea and eventually set it up a few weeks later, and it started off great with my man enjoying our cares, but when the other woman started playing with me, my libido suddenly dropped from extra hot to below zero.
 
I've always had fantasies of other guys we've known over the years fucking my wife. I finally got her to do it, years ago after 8 years of marriage. I LOVED IT! He was a co-worker I hung out with once in a while, I wouldn't even think of him as a close or good friend, because we didn't hang out a lot like good friends would. But my wife liked him, and I shared a few hot fantasies with her about him fucking her.

One night he was over and it just happened, we were playing cards and he joked about the three of us playing strip poker. My wife said, "no that's ok," It's late I'm going to bed." Then after a couple minutes she called me from down the hallway. She stuck her head out of the bathroom and said, you really want to do this 3sum. I was WOW! shocked and said "yes, but it's totally up to you," I didn't want her to do something like this that she would regret later. She said "go get your friend and give us some time alone." OH MAN! I was over the top excited.

We ended up hooking up with him a few times for some really hot 3sums, it lasted like a year. I have a few really hot memories of those nights that I like reliving. So the fantasy turned real was great for us.

Okay, now I am officially envious of you.:D
 
The one big disappointment for me was two guys at the same time. It was fun but it's too hard to concentrate on two cocks at the same time and do them justice.
My wife has said the same thing. She liked our 3sums, but also has told me it's more exciting with the other guy alone. Like you, my wife said it's easier trying to satisfy one cock. I feel she wouldn't have to worry about satisfying the two guys. They would be pretty turned on just knowing she's getting two cocks and think of her being such a slut. That would be the turn on going on in my head.
 
Diapers and mommy dom. It just really didn't fly for more than a week. We tried and I liked it, but it was too "high maintenance " for both of us emotionally. So, we experimented until the current compromise.
 
Diapers and mommy dom. It just really didn't fly for more than a week. We tried and I liked it, but it was too "high maintenance " for both of us emotionally. So, we experimented until the current compromise.

It's a high bar when the play partner has to invest a lot of time, energy, creativity, and sexuality to make it work. If they're doing it just to please you and not enjoying it themselves, that won't last long.

My hubby asked me to indulge him in panties and sissy play. Luckily I warmed to it quickly and we've explored a lot more together.
 
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