Whats your best quality as a lover?

[curiousjen]

So maybe it is the length of your dick or the size of your breasts....but if we're honest that would make you a pretty boring lay!

I mean, what is the consistant thing about you that has your partner begging for more. The thing that makes them happiest and they compliment you on it all the time. Or maybe its something that others have never even acknowledged, but you still consider it to be your greatest asset. Maybe theres more than one thing, if so, go ahead n share....


I think my best qualities as a lover are my enthusiasm, my interesting conversation, and my efforts to really *understand* the SO in my life.

 

[yesmanuk2004]

Wow

That is a rather demanding question!!

Sensitivity maybe?

 

[towelrack77]

I must say that I dont think its any one quality in particular. I am also sensitive, in that I am more attentive ot my lover's needs than my own. I try to make her cum as much as possible, and do so using whatever I have at my disposal- my lips and tongue, a toy or vib, and my cock. I do have a great deal of stamina, so I can make her cum a lot and beg for mercy! So its all in the mind, you see.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

the willingness to think outside of the box,
compassion
appreciation for my lover
a desire to give my lover satisfaction
a passion for fun but can be serious when required.

~kym~ outside of the box most of the time

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Empathy
Inventiveness
Sense of adventure
A deep, abiding hunger....

 

[Saoirse]

What Makes Me A Good Lover??

Oopss.. double post

 

[Saoirse]

What Makes Me A Good Lover??

A desire to please

A desire to fill my lovers fantasies

A passion that sets him on fire

A willingness to experiment

 

[Missingmeds]

The ability to make my partner as comfortable in their own skin as I am in mine.

 

[oz_akasha]

A desire to please

A desire to be pleased

A willingnes to fulliful fantasies, mine & Ravens...............

And the abilitly to love above all others my partner................

 

[Saint inda City]

So maybe it is the length of your dick or the size of your breasts....but if we're honest that would make you a pretty boring lay!

I mean, what is the consistant thing about you that has your partner begging for more. The thing that makes them happiest and they compliment you on it all the time. Or maybe its something that others have never even acknowledged, but you still consider it to be your greatest asset. Maybe theres more than one thing, if so, go ahead n share....


I think my best qualities as a lover are my enthusiasm, my interesting conversation, and my efforts to really *understand* the SO in my life.

good thread.
i'd agree about enthusiasm, it's hard to explain.
and also the desire to take her somewhere else....


oh, and "intersting conversation," does that mean dirty talk in the heat of passion? or do you mean as an overall lover/SO, including all the non-sexual moments?

 

[tythisredheadup]

My willingness to please...

 

[Saint inda City]

My willingness to please...

that is key! (i'd like to add it to my qualities too...)

 

[danno99]

My willingness to please...

i love the ones that love to please......

 

[alli_cat]

Curiosity! I like to find out all about my lovers' body, find out how they respond to different things, what works best, what makes them giggle, what makes them sigh...

 

[DevilishTexan]

Love to kiss, love to play, and I'm a giver. And I'll do damn near do anything.

 

[1sexylady]

I love to take my time. I like pleasing as well as be pleased. I find foreplay a very important key. Kissing, touching, teasing, just having fun with it all...thats me.

 

[geishaGirl]

My responsiveness to being pleasured - I am VERY encouraging with my noises!

My willingness and curiosity to try something new before I say I do or don't like it.

My desire for "dirty talk" to occur and the ability to let my raunchy/lustful/sometimes animalistic side out.

My innocence about having teased my lover without even intending to or realising I have.

 

[PAPABEAR]

quality

I always always always put the needs, wants and desires of my lover first. And I don't let myself fall asleep before she does.