What's the best way to humiliat a sub woman

[TN_Voyeur]

If a sub is into humiliation rather than (or in addition to) pain, or if her Masster feels like he's in the mood to humiliate her, perhaps as punihment), what are the most effecctive task(s) to assign?

 

[snowy ciara]

It depends on the woman. Go ask HER what she finds humiliating. For instance, I know one sub who loves watersports so it's not humiliating. I know another who finds them terribly degrading and humiliation. I'm somewhat ambivalent. Turn ons and turn offs are so incredibly individual that it's hard to ask a stranger for advice.

 

[shy slave]

If a sub is into humiliation rather than (or in addition to) pain, or if her Masster feels like he's in the mood to humiliate her, perhaps as punihment), what are the most effecctive task(s) to assign?

Also depends if its mental, verbal, physical humilation

 

[catalina_francisco]

And how it is delivered, the message that accompanies the task or treatment, and the moment. I have found over time there is litttle that he can do which humiliates me if I am in the mindset of slave, so I have had to work on it as he has to get to the point where he can make it humiliating by emphasising some aspect, changing the way I look at it (ie. looking at how it would appear to others, and how he wishes it to feel), and accepting it is meant to be humiliating and done with that intention and it is not for me to block that. It works sometimes, not others....but he has found ways to make it work at the worst and best of times.

Catalina

 

[TN_Voyeur]

What about public exhibition as slu?

I'm kind of surpriseed that no one suggested making her dresss in revealing, slutty clothes and instruct her to display herself in the shopping centers or a mall...or her work place?

Maybe that's just they way my voyeurstic mind works!?!

Or force her to service her Master's friend(s).

Sounds like those ideas are not even on the table for any of you folks who replied. Why not? It certainly would be humiliating. Is it a bad idea, or just not what comes to mind for you folks?

Thank for the replies, but let's get a larger sample!

 

[~Blacklace~]

I'm kind of surpriseed that no one suggested making her dresss in revealing, slutty clothes and instruct her to display herself in the shopping centers or a mall...or her work place?

Maybe that's just they way my voyeurstic mind works!?!

Or force her to service her Master's friend(s).

Sounds like those ideas are not even on the table for any of you folks who replied. Why not? It certainly would be humiliating. Is it a bad idea, or just not what comes to mind for you folks?

Thank for the replies, but let's get a larger sample!

Well I for one didnt take your original post as an 'in general what are some good humiliation techniques' type question. I took it as you asking how to humiliate your sub, which I think the others did also. Hence their vague (in your opinion) responses.

what are the most effecctive task(s) to assign?

Again there are many many facets to humiliation, and for everyone it is different.

 

[D's mariposa]

Parts of those are a bad idea Voyeur.

Let's look at consent first. Even if you have the humiliatee's permission to reveal her in a public venue like a mall, is it right to make others participate? It's just not appropriate to go acting like a slut and "displaying" your wares in front of people who don't want to see that. Or worse yet, in front of minors, especially small children. I don't take my niece to the mall for sex ed, I take her there to shop. I don't want to see someone else's kinky little scene going on.

Re the workplace: this could have bad ramifications to the employee. Do you really want your pyl to be disciplined for innappropriate behavior? Are you prepared to support them if they get fired for this? Even if she doesn't get terminated or disciplined, it could still result in the stalling of her career, as failing to behave like a professional could result in lack of advancement.

Servicing her Master's friends in a private setting could work. Putting her on display at a private party or a fetish party could work, where there is a reasonable assumption that x rated behavior will occur, but as soon as you involve other participants who are not kinked or not expecting it, you cross a line.

 

[~Blacklace~]

Parts of those are a bad idea Voyeur.

Let's look at consent first. Even if you have the humiliatee's permission to reveal her in a public venue like a mall, is it right to make other's participate. It's just not appropriate to go acting like a slut and "displaying" your wares in front of people who don't want to see that. Or worse yet, in front of minors, especially small children. I don't take my niece to the mall for sex ed, I take her there to shop. I don't want to see someone else's kinky little scene going on.

Re the workplace: this could have bad ramifications to the employee. Do you really want your pyl to be disciplined for innappropriate behavior? Are you prepared to support them if they get fired for this? Even if she doesn't get terminated or discipline, it could still result in the stalling of her career, as failing to behave like a professional could result in lack of advancement.

Servicing her Master's friends in a private setting could work. Putting her on display at a private party or a fetish party could work, where there is a reasonable assumption that x rated behavior will occur, but as soon as you involve other participants who are not kinked or not expecting it, you cross a line.

agreed

 

[CharleyH]

If a sub is into humiliation rather than (or in addition to) pain, or if her Masster feels like he's in the mood to humiliate her, perhaps as punihment), what are the most effecctive task(s) to assign?

Maybe you should ask how someone could humiliate you - first? Maybe you would find your imagination?

 

[shy slave]

*sitting in the corner waiting to see if this is a new troll*

Popcorn anyone??

 

[graceanne]

*sitting in the corner waiting to see if this is a new troll*

Popcorn anyone??

I'd rather have a cookie.

 

[shy slave]

I'd rather have a cookie.

So it IS you in that blue suit from AA's pic.

Huh and you tried to tell the world it was me!!!!

 

[DVS]

I'd rather have a cookie.

Maybe we could dangle a cookie just out of reach for Graceanne, to see if she will humiliate herself to get it. What will you do, Gracieanne, for that fabulous cookie?

OR

What would you do to Shy, to get it? I know you like that idea better.

 

[graceanne]

Maybe we could dangle a cookie just out of reach for Graceanne, to see if she will humiliate herself to get it. What will you do, Gracieanne, for that fabulous cookie?

OR

What would you do to Shy, to get it? I know you like that idea better.

Now why would I admit anything? CAuse whatever it is I say, you're gonna wanna take it a step further. Why don't you tell me what you THINK I'll do for a cookie - and I'll tell you if you're right.

 

[DVS]

Now why would I admit anything? CAuse whatever it is I say, you're gonna wanna take it a step further. Why don't you tell me what you THINK I'll do for a cookie - and I'll tell you if you're right.

No, because watching you humiliate yourself is more fun.

 

[graceanne]

No, because watching you humiliate yourself is more fun.

Guess you're just gonna be disappointed then.

Sorry.

 

[DVS]

Guess you're just gonna be disappointed then.

Sorry.

^Dangles cookie on a string, in front of but just out of reach of Graceanne^ "beg for it. You know you want it...it could be yours...Chocolate chip...Oreo...Devil's food cake...peanut butter...coconut cream...all you gotta do is tell me how bad you want it."

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

If a sub is into humiliation rather than (or in addition to) pain, or if her Masster feels like he's in the mood to humiliate her, perhaps as punihment), what are the most effecctive task(s) to assign?

Speaking to me like I am a child. Speaking slowly as he explains to me what he is disappointed in. Reminding me of how I have breached a previously agreed to part of our contract. Questioning whether I value our commitment for emphasis. All the above would be horrific to me. I have experienced all first hand to a lesser degree than I have described. Actually makes me feel quite ill even to consider in entirety.

rebecca

 

[Betticus]

It would probably be pretty humiliating for her to make her proof read all of your posts for spelling errors.

 

[DVS]

It would probably be pretty humiliating for her to make her proof read all of your posts for spelling errors.

What's the matter? He just needs some spell check help. We all could use some of that. You don't see it in my posts, because I always check my spelling.

But, it was an interesting observation, just the same.

 

[graceanne]

^Dangles cookie on a string, in front of but just out of reach of Graceanne^ "beg for it. You know you want it...it could be yours...Chocolate chip...Oreo...Devil's food cake...peanut butter...coconut cream...all you gotta do is tell me how bad you want it."

Ah, but you see - it's not a real cookie. So I don't actually want it that bad. Nyah Nyah Nyah

 

[DVS]

Ah, but you see - it's not a real cookie. So I don't actually want it that bad. Nyah Nyah Nyah

You married women are just no fun. You already have someone to take care of your needs.

 

[graceanne]

You married women are just no fun. You already have someone to take care of your needs.

 

[chris9]

I'm kind of surpriseed that no one suggested making her dresss in revealing, slutty clothes and instruct her to display herself in the shopping centers or a mall...or her work place?

Maybe that's just they way my voyeurstic mind works!?!

Or force her to service her Master's friend(s).

Sounds like those ideas are not even on the table for any of you folks who replied. Why not? It certainly would be humiliating. Is it a bad idea, or just not what comes to mind for you folks?

Thank for the replies, but let's get a larger sample!

Might be your voyeuristic mind at word. But there is the component to voyeur - exhibitionist.
Maybe some of us like to dress revealing to lure innocent (or not so) bypassers into our nets.
Other than that your examples sound very story-ish (that word is an example for what happens when Germans make up new English words ) for the reasons others stated.
I could imagine something similar, like making a very elegant woman wear mini-skirt, high heels, small top, very overdone make-up. Or make a 'sluttish' woman go to a party dressed very prudish.

I'm actually wondering what you really want. If you want anyone here to share the humiliating things they participated in, ask directly what people here did. If you ask generally what's humiliating, the only answer you can possibly expect is what you got: depends on the people in question, the mind-set, how well they know each other...
If you want story-like descriptions to arouse you, find a story or sexual role-playing game.

 

[chris9]

*sitting in the corner waiting to see if this is a new troll*

Popcorn anyone??

To find out you gotta feed it!
I'd like some chocolate