Whats the best part?

[xnotsosurex]

Ok, so i'm an incredibly curious person. I was wondering though: What is the best part about being in a same sex relationship? This is open to both lesbians and gays. Like i said, i'm just curious.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Being happy with your partner is the best part of any relationship.

 

[angelkitty7888]

i'm going to referance a song to answer this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptC9N9YJ24Y
London Wainright - I Wish I Was A Lesbian

i just love this song....

 

[Stella_Omega]

i don't want to come down on you like a ton of bricks, but-- when you think about it, you already have the answer. For a gay man or lesbian, a same sex relationship is the only kind of relationship they are going to be happy in, because...

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They're Gay!

And an opposite-sex relationship is not going to be optimal.

Now as a bisexual queer dyke with a bad case of penis envy I can tell you that I like same sex relationships because the roles are more fluid. If you and your partner want to play it that way, you can be top and bottom in the same evening-- and not only sexually, but in other realms as well. it's easier for me to relax with a top if the reason she's topping me is because she can-- as opposed to men who tend to top because they simply can't not.

On the other hand, for me-- finding a man with whom I can play fluidly makes it all seem much more transgressive. Takes a lot more effort though. Besides your couples dynamics you have those thousands of years of male-female history biting you in the arse.

 

[Experiencedguy]

Why is same sex any different from hetero sex? Everybody has a different answer, depending on there own personal view, doesn't matter if you are straight, bi, or gay.

Or maybe I'm not understanding your question?

I mean, fucking is fucking, doesn't matter your sexual orientation. Same with making love.

 

[xnotsosurex]

i'm going to referance a song to answer this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptC9N9YJ24Y
London Wainright - I Wish I Was A Lesbian

i just love this song....

I havent heard that song, but I'll definitly be sure to give it a listen =].

 

[reachedme]

having been in relationships with both men and women or women and men its always been about the people I've been with and both of us being happy
I believe it is that simple

 

[xnotsosurex]

i don't want to come down on you like a ton of bricks, but-- when you think about it, you already have the answer. For a gay man or lesbian, a same sex relationship is the only kind of relationship they are going to be happy in, because...

...Drumroll...

They're Gay!

And an opposite-sex relationship is not going to be optimal.

Now as a bisexual queer dyke with a bad case of penis envy I can tell you that I like same sex relationships because the roles are more fluid. If you and your partner want to play it that way, you can be top and bottom in the same evening-- and not only sexually, but in other realms as well. it's easier for me to relax with a top if the reason she's topping me is because she can-- as opposed to men who tend to top because they simply can't not.

On the other hand, for me-- finding a man with whom I can play fluidly makes it all seem much more transgressive. Takes a lot more effort though. Besides your couples dynamics you have those thousands of years of male-female history biting you in the arse.

No, no, you're entitled to say what you want, sometimes certain things need to be said to get the message across =]. But i like your input! No arguments from me.

 

[xnotsosurex]

Why is same sex any different from hetero sex? Everybody has a different answer, depending on there own personal view, doesn't matter if you are straight, bi, or gay.

Or maybe I'm not understanding your question?

I mean, fucking is fucking, doesn't matter your sexual orientation. Same with making love.

Yeah i agree, it depends on your personal view. But what i really meant was, in a relationship, apart from the fucking or making love, whats that best part of being in a same sex relationship. Is it the equality? Or some form of mutual understanding? But to be honest it can also be said for any type of relationship i guess. Hmmm, not sure if that made any sense, whatsoever.

 

[Experiencedguy]

Look -I'll try to give you my viewpoint, but I am a bi guy, who has been in several long term relationships with both men and women.

It doesn't matter what the partner's sex is -- what matters most is their brain compatibility with mine. Of course, if the sex is not enjoyable for both, then everything else is moot. But - I have also developed good friendships with some people that I didn't have good sexual compatability.

Maybe us bi people should stay off this thread; if you are a true bi, the sex of the other person doesn't make any difference - the friendship and mutual respect is what counts.

 

[OxonCornish]

Happiness

Hi, i'm in a straight relationship & my girlfriend makes me really happy & the sex is fantastic. She really is "the one" and my soul mate. However, i still crave cock occasionally. Whenever i'm with her, i don't think of anyone else but i still have contact with a bi man who i love to suck and be sucked by. When you've had both, can you ever settle for one or the other?