What's girl to do?

[Miss Blue]

I have always been attracted to women, even in my youth. But I was toos hy to buck status que, so I married and had kids. Now I am at a point where I love my husband dearly, but long for the touch of a woman?

What do you think I should do about it?

 

[Elmer Keith]

Do
like my wife, go for it
It's OK

 

[fenderman68]

I have always been attracted to women, even in my youth. But I was toos hy to buck status que, so I married and had kids. Now I am at a point where I love my husband dearly, but long for the touch of a woman?

What do you think I should do about it?

This sounds just like my wife. She had the chance and let it slip by. Now....nearly 15 years later.....she's finally looking to expand her horizons. And I'm there to support her all the way!!!!

 

[bisexplicit]

Your husband may or may not support you. You need to talk to him. Also, its probably important for him and you to join a support group dealing with this.

It isn't something not to be taken lightly.

 

[Pandora8]

Oh thank God!! I was just about to post the same question. I have been married for 2 1/2 years ( but together for 5) I have a friend who is a lesbian, I find her very very attractive. Not too long ago we all went to a club (including my husband) and her and I began dancing and what not,, which led to kissing and touching. I brought it up later and she said it was just releasing frustrations out. I really want to do her, and my husband is kewl with it,, but I dont know how to let her know, nor mess up my friendship....

 

[Lust2Learn]

Don't Wait a minute longer!

I have always been attracted to women, even in my youth. But I was toos hy to buck status que, so I married and had kids. Now I am at a point where I love my husband dearly, but long for the touch of a woman?

What do you think I should do about it?

Blue:

Do not wait a minute longer. Find an experienced woman who can show you the pleasure only a woman can bring to another woman. You can then decide if you are Bi sexual and can make arrangements to stay with your husband or if you want only women.

You must find out. Believe me I waited far too long and had to loose my marriage before I found the answer for myself.

Do it girl. I would volunteer to help you in your discovery if I could.


L2L

 

[Kierae]

Definitely start having conversations with your husband to gauge his response. Most men say they wouldn't mind if their wife was with a woman - but their scenario typically involves them versus just you and the gal which may not match what you are envisioning. I have seen spouses give the go ahead and then get jealous (they witnessed some emotion or response out of you that they have only seen with them or never have seen come out of you before). So talk, talk and more talk!

Most lesbians stay clear of bisexuals let alone married women - usually not worth going toe to toe with the baggage we bring. Plenty of women out there though that have decided its okay/safe/time to explore making love to other women - tons of adverts if you decide to go that route.

 

[symbolicflame]

Your husband may or may not support you. You need to talk to him. Also, its probably important for him and you to join a support group dealing with this.

It isn't something not to be taken lightly.

I very much agree with this post. If this is a part of you who you are then you know it is not just fun and games, and it may be hard for him to deal with. Also find a support group for you to, maybe a counselor to help through the process of your feelings and emotions, so you do not have to go throught the almost 15 years I did.
The best of luck to you.

 

[B20civic]

do it!

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Usually married couples accept each others 'homosexual desires', especially men(maybe because men always like seeing girl on girl porn ),
so I don't think if you told him, he would have any objection.
He'd probably want to watch to, and maybe join at some point.

Don't keep the urge inside you, cause in the end you may do it secretly from him(aka cheat on him-not good).
Just talk with him.Explain to him that it is really important and it isn't going to affect your relationship.
(but if he doesn't understand, sorry, he has every right).

 

[Miss Blue]

We began talking about it last night and he seem to agree with the fact that if it's something that has been on my mind since my youth then I should rely look into it and explore the possibilities. It's going to take a lot more talking before I am sure he is all aboard.

 

[Samuelx]

I know how you feel. I'm bi myself. I like the ladies. I like the gentlemen.
Still, relationships are based on honesty, as someone once told me. Tell your man how you feel. If he's okay with you being with another woman, then go ahead. If it's not okay, you're gonna have to decide what matters most, being with a woman or living with your loving hubby ?

 

[BitterIchor]

It all depends on the nature of your marriage and your husbands feelings on the matter. Is he interested in a threesome with another woman? Would he mind if you had sex with another woman without his involvement? If you can explore this side of you with his blessing or participation, I say go for it.

If on the other hand he doesn't feel comfortable sharing you with a woman, there's only two options open to you. Either you supress these desires or you leave your husband and explore these feelings freely. You asked an internet message board for opinions, and here's mine: nothing justifies cheating.

Sorry if I came across as harsch, but good luck in the future.

 

[Harrowborg]

'Whats a girl to do?'
Can't go on without lovin you!

*Thanks, every time I see this thread can't help but think of that song!*

 

[misspatiant]

I have always been attracted to women, even in my youth. But I was toos hy to buck status que, so I married and had kids. Now I am at a point where I love my husband dearly, but long for the touch of a woman?

What do you think I should do about it?

I say Go For It Girl, im in the same position. Id be interested to hear how you got on

 

[bilegalgal]

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