What would you do

[ewopper]

I met a young lady today of 23 she has a great body, and she wants me to take pics of her for her portfolio. She wants me to take suggestive, and possibly some nudes. Should I do it?

 

[Ravin the Poet]

sure...why not

 

[TBKahuna123]

Hmm.... Let me think.

YEAH!!!!

I mean seriously, can you think of any reason why not?

 

[Ezzy]

I mean seriously, can you think of any reason why not?

Because your wife doesn't want you to?

 

[ewopper]

Because your wife doesn't want you to?

I'm not married, so that's not a problem, my concern is what kind of woman is she and will my works be viewed in a negative light.

 

[ewopper]

Hmm.... Let me think.

YEAH!!!!

I mean seriously, can you think of any reason why not?

We do live in a politically correct society and a lot of people attack anything you do lmao

 

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[silverwhisper]

ewopper: are you a photographer by trade? b/c if so, that's a perfectly reasonable thing to do, i would think. o, an scalywag makes a very good point there, i think.

i'll be honest, i'm fuzzy on exactly why you're reticent.

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

I think this post actually is a "hey, look at me, I get to photograph a nude woman" post rather than needing any sortof advice...

So, Congrats.

 

[silverwhisper]

sorry, i somehow missed ye olde dancing banana...

ed

 

[TBKahuna123]

We do live in a politically correct society and a lot of people attack anything you do lmao

Well, that's why I asked if you could think of a good reason. I can see what you are saying, ifyou are a professional photographer and want to be taken seriously. However, just as with my own profession, Web Development, you don't have to say that YOU took the pictures.

Take em, give em to her, just don't display them in YOUR portfolio, if you are worried about this kind of backlash. I also agree with having a 3rd party present. maybe even a 4th, someone for her and for you. Added protection.

 

[Eilan]

Never mind. I misread the fucking post.

 

[Recidiva]

I met a young lady today of 23 she has a great body, and she wants me to take pics of her for her portfolio. She wants me to take suggestive, and possibly some nudes. Should I do it?

Are you impaired in some way?

 

[ewopper]

I would be skeptical, but that's me. One thing I would make sure is that there is a third party there that you know and trust. This would eliminate any possible accusations of improper behavior, whether it is warranted or not.

Great point. One I'll definitely keep in mind

 

[ewopper]

Are you impaired in some way?

impaired only by the fact that women have set men up in the past, and I'm very cautious... i.e. if it's too good to be true it probably is

 

[ewopper]

Well, that's why I asked if you could think of a good reason. I can see what you are saying, ifyou are a professional photographer and want to be taken seriously. However, just as with my own profession, Web Development, you don't have to say that YOU took the pictures.

Take em, give em to her, just don't display them in YOUR portfolio, if you are worried about this kind of backlash. I also agree with having a 3rd party present. maybe even a 4th, someone for her and for you. Added protection.

sound advice thanks

 

[ewopper]

sorry, i somehow missed ye olde dancing banana...

ed

Iunderstand but this is a serious thread for me. From what I saw in those pants and halter top she had on I wanted to still do but I'm squeamish

 

[ewopper]

I think this post actually is a "hey, look at me, I get to photograph a nude woman" post rather than needing any sortof advice...

So, Congrats.

sorry but that's not it at all I really wanted some serious feedback

 

[ewopper]

ewopper: are you a photographer by trade? b/c if so, that's a perfectly reasonable thing to do, i would think. o, an scalywag makes a very good point there, i think.

i'll be honest, i'm fuzzy on exactly why you're reticent.

ed

I'm seriously considering Digital Photography and as much as I'd love to take pictures of her I am concerned by some red flags by what she said

 

[Recidiva]

impaired only by the fact that women have set men up in the past, and I'm very cautious... i.e. if it's too good to be true it probably is

Well, men have set up women, women have set up men. People set up people all the time.

You don't have to fall for it. The real question is...are you set uppable.

There's nothing here on the surface. Take pictures, have fun, hand her a set, walk away.

IF she tries to beat you to death with something, drug you or claims you're the father of her child, well, that's different. Ask advice then. In the meantime, don't be impaired?

Don't let her near heavy objects, don't drink anything she has access to and you'll pass the DNA test if you keep it in your pants.

 

[ewopper]

Well, men have set up women, women have set up men. People set up people all the time.

You don't have to fall for it. The real question is...are you set uppable.

There's nothing here on the surface. Take pictures, have fun, hand her a set, walk away.

IF she tries to beat you to death with something, drug you or claims you're the father of her child, well, that's different. Ask advice then. In the meantime, don't be impaired?

Don't let her near heavy objects, don't drink anything she has access to and you'll pass the DNA test if you keep it in your pants.

again thanks for your input, but as I said I see too many red flags and I'm considerng not doing them because of the red flags. There's no sex between us involved at all. As pretty as she is I'm sure she can find anyone to take pics of her. You've made some great observations... thanks but you've also helped me to decide not to

 

[Recidiva]

again thanks for your input, but as I said I see too many red flags and I'm considerng not doing them because of the red flags. There's no sex between us involved at all. As pretty as she is I'm sure she can find anyone to take pics of her. You've made some great observations... thanks but you've also helped me to decide not to

Good, I am the Angel's and the Devil's Advocate. Miss either side of a coin and I'll flip it for you

 

[Treeview]

CAn you elaborate on the red flags that you're seeing?

Going from only what you've written, if you don't want to take her pics I would volunteer to

 

[Treeview]

CAn you elaborate on the red flags that you're seeing?

Going from only what you've written, if you don't want to take her pics I would volunteer to

 

[ewopper]

CAn you elaborate on the red flags that you're seeing?

Going from only what you've written, if you don't want to take her pics I would volunteer to

The red flags are she's loud, and tells all her business, plus she's on drugs