What would you change

[DVS]

Money is one of those things you can always make more of. Time and health, not as much. Money just allows you to have experiences, it doesn't have worth in and of itself.

Yeah, right. Rinse lather, repeat, repeat again.

Since 9/11 my finances have gone south...really south. I could go on and on with details, but no need to bore you with that. Everything was doing quite well, axtually, until that time. It's true when they say shit happens.

The money I need is not just something I could make more of. I'm talking thousands and thousands, or at least someone who would want to invest their thousands in me. So, what I'm talking about isn't something I could ever dig out of, even with time. It's truely a risk.

Yes, I understand what you say about health, and I'm pretty good in that area. But, I'm now on the down side of 50, so I don't have for ever. And, there are no guarantees with my venture, but if it went well, I'd be rich. If it really went well, I'd even be famous.

I know it isn't going to happen without an investment, because the industry is full of wannabees...wannabees with money to spend. I'd have to bypass certain aspects and make a path of my own. That's where the money comes in.

You got any money you want to invest? It's a sure thing. Really it is You know you can trust me.

 

[rydia57]

I'd make myself not so stubborn, and less of a procrastinator. Then I could get things done faster!

 

[jadefirefly]

Shy -- he means clove cigarettes. They're a mixture of tobacco and clove. They smell and taste yummier than regular smokes... sort of a cinnamon-y campfire-y smell.

 

[shy slave]

Shy -- he means clove cigarettes. They're a mixture of tobacco and clove. They smell and taste yummier than regular smokes... sort of a cinnamon-y campfire-y smell.

Oh ummmm

Yummier cigs huh

Jade, cigs are never yummy.

You a little weird, but I like you

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I had to think about this one a bit. I pretty much like who I am but if I were to change anything which is possible to change it would be the fact I hold most everything and everyone suspect. Occupational hazard perhaps but I feel it is deeper set than that.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Oh ummmm

Yummier cigs huh

Jade, cigs are never yummy.

You a little weird, but I like you

*Leeroy thinks shy is being ornery*

I am totally against smoking and I don't try to hide my dislike of it, but I will say that pipe tobacco and a few other smokable tabaccos do have a nice smell its just too bad the hazards are so high.

 

[shy slave]

*Leeroy thinks shy is being ornery*

I am totally against smoking and I don't try to hide my dislike of it, but I will say that pipe tobacco and a few other smokable tabaccos do have a nice smell its just too bad the hazards are so high.

me...ornery!!



I am shocked lol

Although its true I have less patience recently with a number of things and don't always play nice anymore.

I have never smoked and not an rabid anti-smoker.

My son smokes and I hate the smell, even though some of his tabacco is quite fragrant smelling

LOL

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Onrery is of no consequenses.

It is the smokinging that should be a punishable offence. I am an exsmoker and lost my mother to smoking.

That said I'm glad you don't smoke shy and onery is sometimes a good thing.

me...ornery!!



I am shocked lol

Although its true I have less patience recently with a number of things and don't always play nice anymore.

I have never smoked and not an rabid anti-smoker.

My son smokes and I hate the smell, even though some of his tabacco is quite fragrant smelling

LOL

 

[jadefirefly]

Oh ummmm

Yummier cigs huh

Jade, cigs are never yummy.

You a little weird, but I like you

Weird? Moi?



THANK you, Shy!!! You noticed!

*giggle*

I know. I'm just an oddball.

 

[shy slave]

Onrery is of no consequenses.

It is the smokinging that should be a punishable offence. I am an exsmoker and lost my mother to smoking.

That said I'm glad you don't smoke shy and onery is sometimes a good thing.

Well ornery suits me in r/l but its not something I have brought into online conversations very often.

I usually just click off that thread and move on, usually, but not always.

When I first started coming to Lit many people were saying how it had changed and I shrugged and thought little of it, but now 2.5 yrs on, I think it has changed.

So is it me thats changed or Lit??

Some of the topics really piss me off that they are even discussed, and other things have no effect on me at all.

Its seems ages since a really knowledgeable, indepth discussion happened on Lit. With opinions, thoughts and views all differing and yet no-one falling out.

I have left two other groups recently because they are just fluff not BDSM, so I think its me bringing my more exacting and difficult nature into online things as oppose to keeping it at the door.

Meeting Andante may have had some bearing on that but not a great amount, its more about other life changes that have brought the two parts of me together.

As for smoking, well each to their own, I won't stop them; but if they want to give up I run EFT therapy to help them stop.
I am sorry to hear about your mother though BB, losing someone no matter how you lose them is not and easy thing to come to terms with.

Deep breath
I unexpectedly lost my 18 yr old son seven months ago. His death has changed everything, if it wasn't for Andante I would be struggling more than I am. Some people here knew of his death, most did not. I miss him every day, and have no expectation that that will change. His death has made me less tolerant of some things and alot more tolerant of others, my personality appears, in some respects, to now be a work in progress.

 

[Shankara20]

Deep breath
I unexpectedly lost my 18 yr old son seven months ago. His death has changed everything, if it wasn't for Andante I would be struggling more than I am. Some people here knew of his death, most did not. I miss him every day, and have no expectation that that will change.

I lost a wife years ago. That was hard. I can not imagine loosing one of my children.

I wish I could say more.

 

[the captians wench]

What would change about your personality if you could?

I would change two things

1. I would try to relax and not feel threatened when he talked with other women who need his support and advice

2. I would try to be more rational when explaining and emotional point

I need help with your first one too.

the other thing I'd change is my lack of pacientce (spelled terribly). good things come to those who wait, but I just can't seem to be able to wait long enough

 

[chris9]

Deep breath
I unexpectedly lost my 18 yr old son seven months ago. His death has changed everything, if it wasn't for Andante I would be struggling more than I am. Some people here knew of his death, most did not. I miss him every day, and have no expectation that that will change. His death has made me less tolerant of some things and alot more tolerant of others, my personality appears in some respects to now be a work in progress.

I just don't know what to say.
*hug*

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Well ornery suits me in r/l but its not something I have brought into online conversations very often.

I usually just click off that thread and move on, usually, but not always.

When I first started coming to Lit many people were saying how it had changed and I shrugged and thought little of it, but now 2.5 yrs on, I think it has changed.

So is it me thats changed or Lit??

Some of the topics really piss me off that they are even discussed, and other things have no effect on me at all.

Its seems ages since a really knowledgeable, indepth discussion happened on Lit. With opinions, thoughts and views all differing and yet no-one falling out.

I have left two other groups recently because they are just fluff not BDSM, so I think its me bringing my more exacting and difficult nature into online things as oppose to keeping it at the door.

Meeting Andante may have had some bearing on that but not a great amount, its more about other life changes that have brought the two parts of me together.

As for smoking, well each to their own, I won't stop them; but if they want to give up I run EFT therapy to help them stop.
I am sorry to hear about your mother though BB, losing someone no matter how you lose them is not and easy thing to come to terms with.

Deep breath
I unexpectedly lost my 18 yr old son seven months ago. His death has changed everything, if it wasn't for Andante I would be struggling more than I am. Some people here knew of his death, most did not. I miss him every day, and have no expectation that that will change. His death has made me less tolerant of some things and alot more tolerant of others, my personality appears in some respects to now be a work in progress.

Shy .....I don't need to say much here...... lets just say I can think of a couple of people who matter in your life that I know are immensly honored to be a part of it , even as a bystander thats so easy to know.

love

@}-}rebecca----

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I lost a wife years ago. That was hard. I can not imagine loosing one of my children.

I wish I could say more.

Shank .........hugs

 

[babiesmiles]

*hugs* Shy , * hugs* Shankara and *hugs * BB