What would you advise your younger self?

[SolusX]

So, I thought it would be eye opening to see what advise you would give to your younger self, if you could. This could be related to anything and everything!
I think reading over people's experiences and what they would change is a great way of helping other people when making their own choices.

 

[JudasIscariot]

Seriously I could sit him down all day trying to change his ways, but essentially I know I wouldn't get through and it would end up being life altering situations to eventually make him change and grow as a person.

 

[ShrimpFriedRice]

"Dude, those girls that hang around you all the time? They aren't just female friends, dipshit! A lot of them want to be more than friends. Stop being stupid, ditch the girlfriend (she'll just drive you insane and stomp on your emotions eventually anyway), and GO PLAY."

 

[jp_2012]

^this

 

[TROLLSACK]

Banging your girlfriend's mom is a bad idea.

 

[SolusX]

Seriously I could sit him down all day trying to change his ways, but essentially I know I wouldn't get through and it would end up being life altering situations to eventually make him change and grow as a person.

That is very true, it is said that our life experiences make us who we are but regrets can nag at your mind!

"Dude, those girls that hang around you all the time? They aren't just female friends, dipshit! A lot of them want to be more than friends. Stop being stupid, ditch the girlfriend (she'll just drive you insane and stomp on your emotions eventually anyway), and GO PLAY."

^this

Hehe, did they tell you they wanted more or is it now that you think back and see their hints?

Banging your girlfriend's mom is a bad idea.

You didn't think that at the time?

 

[DesEsseintes]

That it will be alright in the end.

Whatever 'alright' means.

Whatever 'the end' is.

But I think I knew that at the time, deep down.

 

[TROLLSACK]

Nope... Long story short, her husband found out, and so did my girlfriend, and my parents.

 

[jp_2012]

Hehe, did they tell you they wanted more or is it now that you think back and see their hints?

Definitely not one to see the hints. I was a shy little shit too afraid of rejection to even approach chicks!

 

[passionatewife]

Your first love doesn't mean your last love. Be open to being alone, and for God's sake, don't settle so young.

 

[DesEsseintes]

Your first love doesn't mean your last love. Be open to being alone, and for God's sake, don't settle so young.

Very true. Love is like the spiralling chambers on a Nautilus shell. Each time it's perfect for who you are at the time, and you cannot imagine ever needing anything more. But when you look back at all the chambers you managed to live in, you wonder how you ever survived being so cramped. And that's when you remember how much you've grown.

I think I just compared the most powerful of all human emotions to a shellfish. Ah well. There are worse things to be.

 

[passionatewife]

Very true. Love is like the spiralling chambers on a Nautilus shell. Each time it's perfect for who you are at the time, and you cannot imagine ever needing anything more. But when you look back at all the chambers you managed to live in, you wonder how you ever survived being so cramped. And that's when you remember how much you've grown.

I think I just compared the most powerful of all human emotions to a shellfish. Ah well. There are worse things to be.

It's a fitting analogy, in my opinion.

 

[DesEsseintes]

It's a fitting analogy, in my opinion.

If that is a pun, bravo! If not, thank you. And how do you do, of course.

 

[pfflyerhot]

Don't be afraid to explore sexually.

 

[passionatewife]

If that is a pun, bravo! If not, thank you. And how do you do, of course.

What would life be without a little strategic humor? I'm very well, thank you.

 

[wildchild24143]

Don't be afraid to explore sexually.

I want to explore it with you

 

[ShrimpFriedRice]

Hehe, did they tell you they wanted more or is it now that you think back and see their hints?

Definitely a bit of both... I was pretty oblivious to the many, MANY hints that were dropped, but a few times, when they came on to me hard and fast, I decided to stay true to my girlfriend at the time. Found out later that they weren't doing the same! Stupid. Ah well!

 

[xxxpaulzzz]

take the opportunity, some only come once.
love those that love you. you know who they are. tell them!

 

[DirkPitt06]

Fuck it, man. Yeah, shit will hurt. It'll be worth it though. You'll learn more than you will playing it safe.

And would it kill you to have a beer before you were 21? Really?

 

[7inchglory]

'girls are chasing after you, and you don't want to date them because you have confidence issues? man up! take risk and try new things; whether it be dating or any choice in life.'

 

[Doog_kuron]

I would tell my younger self that I made the right choices in life but will pay quite a hefty price tag for the privilege. Invest money in Apple and steer clear of a few specific women.

 

[fredrock]

that day

You decided to pop a wheelie on your motorcycle to impress the girls in the convertible and got caught by the cop going 85 in a 35 on one wheel...while carryng a 1/2 a pound of pot in your backpack..was not good idea...
Anytime your carrying that amount of grass keep both wheels on the ground...and drive at a reasonable speed...

 

[SweetSam42]

You're beautiful and don't worry about that extra 15 pounds. Stop being so shy and go have sex. Lots of it.

 

[kaitlyn_sun]

you actually can't get pregnant. all that worrying is wasted.... enjoy how it feels when they cum in you. it's great.

 

[aim2plz412]

Life is measured in moments... It is only in retrospect, that you can determine the significance of any one experience. Entice. Experience. Endure.