What we don't know
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Sparky Kronkite
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What we don't know........
relative to what there is to be known........
is miniscule.
We know nothing really. Very, very little.
Now you know more about me.
relative to what there is to be known........
is miniscule.
We know nothing really. Very, very little.
Now you know more about me.
MissTaken
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Perhaps the answer I give should truly land on a different thread.
However, I present myself in real life much the same as I do here, without the slut behavior!
I find that here as well as in real life my sincerity is questioned. I truly am concerned for the human condition whether of close friends or acquaintances. Hugs given are sincere, best wishes are fully intended, kindnesses should be taken at face valute.
However, perhaps it is the day and age, but I find that often people view my acts as a)superficial bullshit b) question my motives.
I am who I am.
I do as I chose
With only the best of intentions.
Niether saint, nor sinner.
I am just me.
C'est ca!
However, I present myself in real life much the same as I do here, without the slut behavior!
I find that here as well as in real life my sincerity is questioned. I truly am concerned for the human condition whether of close friends or acquaintances. Hugs given are sincere, best wishes are fully intended, kindnesses should be taken at face valute.
However, perhaps it is the day and age, but I find that often people view my acts as a)superficial bullshit b) question my motives.
I am who I am.
I do as I chose
With only the best of intentions.
Niether saint, nor sinner.
I am just me.
C'est ca!
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Vanyel_Ashke
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daughter said:
That I have a great capacity to love.
Some women seem to think that men are superficial creatures that are only concerned with beer, football, fucking and control of the TV remote. I beg to differ. Society has relaxed it's expectations of men and women in the recent decades. It's now ok for men to be sensitive and caring. And it's ok to show that. It's ok for men to show emotion and even cry.
I know I have a very sensitive side to me. And I continue to explore that every day.
sch00lteacher
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...that I don't just sit back and gripe about 'it'. I try to do something about it. I always have. I have given of myself to the point there is little left to give that still works. I don't give up either.
MissTaken..I am with you!
What people don't know about me is that I am full of love. As stated, people who are effusive with thier affection, sensual or otherwise, are often accused of having other motives, insencerity, e.t.c.
But the thing with me is, I believe I am accused of such because I do it so often that perhaps the 'value' (better word anyone?) of my feelings are worth less.
So people don't know.... "that even though I compliment people, say how much I love them, tell them how amazing they are, and generaly go out of my way to make everyone feel special, is because everyone truly IS special, and I see that."
..and thank you daughter for strarting this so I can feel special about myself too.
luv TassyMan
What people don't know about me is that I am full of love. As stated, people who are effusive with thier affection, sensual or otherwise, are often accused of having other motives, insencerity, e.t.c.
But the thing with me is, I believe I am accused of such because I do it so often that perhaps the 'value' (better word anyone?) of my feelings are worth less.
So people don't know.... "that even though I compliment people, say how much I love them, tell them how amazing they are, and generaly go out of my way to make everyone feel special, is because everyone truly IS special, and I see that."
..and thank you daughter for strarting this so I can feel special about myself too.
luv TassyMan
daughter
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oh, no you want me to tell
Well, since you asked. I'm far more sensitive than I front on this board. My eldest plays me big time(I'm getting better and she hates me for it). LOL
My confidence and assertiveness has been hard won. I won't be silent anymore. For a very long time, I didn't feel good enough about me to say love, respect, and honor me.
Nothing like a woman who has discovered she is somebody!
Peace,
daughter
Well, since you asked. I'm far more sensitive than I front on this board. My eldest plays me big time(I'm getting better and she hates me for it). LOL
My confidence and assertiveness has been hard won. I won't be silent anymore. For a very long time, I didn't feel good enough about me to say love, respect, and honor me.
Nothing like a woman who has discovered she is somebody!
Peace,
daughter
alltherage
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I am far more insecure than I ever let on in real life or here on the boards. That insecurity springs from many wells inside me and I battle against the feeling. I usually win. When i don't I lock the bathroom door(when the kids are tended too) turn on the shower and bawl my eyes out. That does not happen all that often but sometimes I just get tired of being superwoman. I surely am misscast in that role.
JennyOmanHill
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Except for the name, "Jenny" is very much "me": honest, sincere, curious, hopefully showing a sense of humor, and a good listener (or "reader"). I think most people don't realize how "flirty" I can be, but I'm guessing even that might become obvious in time.daughter said:
alltherage
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Re: We've been bushwhacked
It would be nice to have someone around to say, "here you do it!" There is noone. In truth having someone around who was truely involved in the kids care would be a great help. The problem is that such people usually come with a whole new set of demands. ahhhhhhhh. We twapped!daughter said:
alltherage
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I wonder how well we can get to know each other here. I try not to form opinions about people until I have read a large number of their posts but even then I wonder how sure I can be.
Of course this is much like real life. I have had people in my bed that I would run from today. At the time I was sure there was something of value in them. Thank god thats only happened a couple of times. I have to admit the reality of who they were came as a shock to me.
Of course this is much like real life. I have had people in my bed that I would run from today. At the time I was sure there was something of value in them. Thank god thats only happened a couple of times. I have to admit the reality of who they were came as a shock to me.
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alltherage said:
It certainly pays to be cautious with on line friendship.
Many people have found "little surprises" when meeting someone in person whom they met on line.
After some experience though, I have been pretty much able to weed out those who aren't true from those who are.
daughter
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Whoa! I think we've got a sista gig going here
Guess that means what it cost me was worth it. Seriously somebody reached out to me and she wasn't the least bit phased when I didn't reach back. Woman kept being good to me. Can you imagine that?
Sorta like the good folk here. Back atcha. Hope to hear from you again.
Peace,
daughter
Kandi said:
Guess that means what it cost me was worth it. Seriously somebody reached out to me and she wasn't the least bit phased when I didn't reach back. Woman kept being good to me. Can you imagine that?
Sorta like the good folk here. Back atcha. Hope to hear from you again.
Peace,
daughter
daughter
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alltherage said:
((d nodding))
I can identify, alltherage. I think it comes with experience. I'm easily drawn to people. I also exercise some caution. Nothing like taking time to build a sense of trust and openess. Personally, I don't share what I'm not comfortable with so an adversary has less ammunition as far as I'm concerned.
Still, there are times when you mistakenly trust someone you shouldn't. I did that more than a few times in real life less online. I've learned. I think the better you are to yourself and the more honest you with yourself, you attract the same and repell the others.
Look at the gravitation in this thread. Friends disagree from time to time. May even hurt one another. Friends however make amends, and friends got your back.
If someone doesn't come correct, and I discover it, I'll check a fool quick. I've got no time for mess and unnecessary pain.
Let me know if anyone gives you grief.
Peace,
daughter
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This one's come up in several posts, such as alltherage's, and out in RT
What I wish everybody knew is that underneath all the Super suits equipped with quick-response cuffs and utility belts, there is a human being who needs to be cared for, at least once in a while. It's not gender-specific, it's not weak; it's by no means anything but human.MissTaken said:
