What things have you sent (or wanted to send) in the mail to a lover?

[BlondGirl]

If you were to send something to your lover that would be sure to put an erotic thought in his/her head, what would you send?

(Besides underwear, please.)

I would like to send something to a cyberlover, and would appreciate any and all serious suggestions.

 

[lilminx]

Hmmm... never done that, so I might not be of much help, but maybe a little sachet scented with your favorite perfume? That way when he or she smells it elsewhere, he/she will think of you

 

[MissTaken]

I once sent a piece of fabric from my favorite nightie and doused it in the perfume I most often wear.

He liked it

 

[shyybabe]

Audio is good

A favourite story that you would like to read them on tape or CD,
especially if it was an arousing one.

 

[sexy-girl]

love and trust = front door keys


sex and passion = fav perfume (better for lesbians)

 

[April]

A book of erotic stories with your favorite one marked?

 

[Summery]

My honey at the time was in the Navy and getting ready to go out to sea for a month.....so I sent him a package to take with him.

In the package:

-pics of me, and some of us together
-my favorite night shirt covered in my favorite scent
-I wrote an erotic story about him and I, and a letter telling him in great detail all that we would do when he returned.
-a greeting card to open each day we were apart
-a hershey chocolate kiss...one for each day we were apart
-a cassette tape that contained all the songs that reminded us of each other

just a few ideas!

 

[Nicole]

A lock of hair? That way he has a ceratin amoutn of the smell he will get when your head is resting on his chest and you fall asleep in each others arms.

I like the book of Erotic stories idea too, and I LOVE the reading a story on tape for him.

Good Luck.

 

[BlondGirl]

Ooohhh--these are some good suggestions. Thanks. (Please keep them coming though.)

 

[sexy-girl]

a special childhood jewelry

love letter with a lipstick kiss at the bottom corny but it worked on me

childhood book with your fav passages marked

professionally done erotic photos (see my av )

 

[Gilly Bean]

When I was 16, I went to an exclusive Fine Arts camp for Ballet. All the girls in my cabin got together in our bra's and undies, and had a pic taken in the woods behind the cabin. Pretty risky, considering it was right in front of a path that was well-traversed.

Anyway, I ended up with two pics from outside on my camera, and one from us all in the cabin hanging from the rafters.

-sighs- I had a damn nice body then.

Anyway, no digressing... When I was about 17, I met a guy I liked, and after we flirted around a bit, I left one of the pics on his windsheild at work one night. Then, I chickened out, and took it back off before he ever even saw it.

 

[Azwed]

a special childhood jewelry

love letter with a lipstick kiss at the bottom corny but it worked on me

childhood book with your fav passages marked

professionally done erotic photos (see my av )

Is that AV of you or your gf? I never could remember.

 

[nasty]

-a cassette tape that contained all the songs that reminded us of each other

I like that idea. Perhaps, a letter that mentioned what you'd do with them the next time you see each other.

 

[luv2tvl69]

There are many things:
Love cards, a leopard thong for men, cock rings, motion lotion, and another gift on the way (cant tell yet, he may read this )

When we meet I am bringing along my box of toys because I was always taught to share....I cant wait.

 

[on_the_verge]

The simple things in life

What I have done is sent something that we both strongly relate to each other with and we have shared between us, be it have touched our flesh together or something that she would carry and use daily. It does not have to be sensually or sexually oriented, but it may remind the person that something else swelters over a common gesture of kindness and thoughts...

 

[Saturn Return]

Once, my lover in a moment of pure lust, hastily used his favorite scarf to tie me to my bed post...

Before he left..I secretly tucked the lovely scarf under my pillow..

I waited a few months -he thought he had lost it- then sent it to him with a picture of me tucked inside wearing nothing but his scarf..worn very strategically.

 

[on_the_verge]

Once, my lover in a moment of pure lust, hastily used his favorite scarf to tie me to my bed post...

Before he left..I secretly tucked the lovely scarf under my pillow..

I waited a few months -he thought he had lost it- then sent it to him with a picture of me tucked inside wearing nothing but his scarf..worn very strategically.

SWOONED by the thought of that and how you felt sending it and your lover reacting to such a thoughtful and creative deliverance of what was within you reaching to him.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

THINGS I SENT TO A LOVER?

a picture and a romantic care with my thoughts and desires with cologne sented.

 

[SexyChele]

Just a little twist to the audio tape thing: I've sent audio tapes describing a fantasy (or two or three), and kept the tape recording as I went through orgasm after orgasm. From his reaction, I would say it went over big.

 

[Paradyce]

A lock of hair? That way he has a ceratin amoutn of the smell he will get when your head is resting on his chest and you fall asleep in each others arms.

Wow... I like the sound of that suggestion

guess I'm still a true romantic at heart...

 

[sexy-girl]

Is that AV of you or your gf? I never could remember.

her

 

[Nolan]

coupons

Describe a special sexual encounter to your lover and tell them it can be redeemed at your next meeting or whenever, wherever they want! Just be sure you are willing to do what you write.

 

[april-wine]

she sent me flowers from her plum tree.....the one with the hammock.......hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[XXplorher]

Be unique

I once sent a girlfriend packing that, as it turned out, I wasn’t ready to let go. She went home (out of state) and we continued extensive communication, and plenty of ‘phone action’ that should have been recorded and sold for 4.99 a minute, eh.

A month or so into the, uh, ‘break-up’ (that I couldn't follow through on – doh!) she sent me what she called a ‘care package’. It included all sorts of geeky stuff that only SHE would know I like; some sexual reminders; some poetic trappings; even a role of toilet paper to cover the humor angle. ALL stuff that said ‘I remember; I was paying attention; I’m willing to give the effort; I know what you like and I know YOU!’

You can’t measure the impact that had on me.
Of course, I demanded she get back in the car and return to me immediately. (There was a reason she got booted in the first place, however. So I was right the first time. It didn’t last... but she still gets a piece of my heart).

Bottom line – anything that say’s something specific to your lover. Something that say’s it’s all about THEM, for who they are. Pretty sure that will get the response you’re looking for.
(Don’t send something that can be sent to ‘anybody’ (for this reason I don’t understand why women are such suckers for roses. How much thought does a guy have to put into that? Very, very little.))


And you ruled it out – but anything with your ‘scent’ on it is a definite plus.

 

[XXplorher]

I like Shyybabe’s idea as well.

Definitely fell for Nicole’s idea (ouch.. very nice!)

On_the_verge has it right.

SexyChele – uh YUP!


All said and done, however, it should be YOUR idea – not ours. YOUR connection. That makes all the difference in the world. It’s the key to what I said earlier.