What the FUCk is wrong with you people?!

[RawHumor]

RW, I like how you gave Never a run down of the story and conveniently left out the lies, cheating and deception

I'm RH, thanks.

I mentioned that she lied to him and that he knew the truth before he told us, for which I don't blame him.

 

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[Calamity Jane]

Re: Re: What the FUCk is wrong with you people?!

She doesn't owe her "friends" here at Lit that she lied to and cheated an apology?

I cannot believe I'm responding to Hanns as if he was asking a serious question!

No, Tantannah doesn't owe her friends at Lit or anywhere else an apology. The idea that an apology can be owed to someone, and paid with no more feeling than a debt is bullshit.

IF Tantanah wishes to apologize to those she considered friend, than that's up to her to do so and them to accept, or not, as they wish. But I see no reason whatsoever for a public apology, they're useless and generally not meant anyway.

She, like Ram, has made her own decisions, acted on them, and hopefully is living with the consequences of them.

 

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[sexy-girl]

i apologize if i went to far in what i said before as i said in my earlier posts though i do wish you best ram ... and you may be right that anyone that has lied to the board before would find it very hard to be trusted here again

but its your life thats important not the lit board and you know her best and all the private details of it ... but just remember you have lots of people here that really care about you and don't want to see you hurt

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I happen to hate cheats, liars and sympathy seekers.

Ram&Tan happen to be all 3.

Some people thought of Tan as a true friend. I wonder how they feel knowing she's posting regularly under a diff nick

hence the pitfalls of getting emotionally attatched, Rams first mistake. To that, I am not jumping on him. I think it was star that said it best about him having a big heart. She, on the other hand....

 

[RawHumor]

He'd still be dragging his bottom lip round here syphoning every last drop of sympathy if it wasn't for the revelations

I don't believe he ever asked for sympathy.

As for you hating lyers, from which branch of the military are you on leave again? From which country?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I don't believe he ever asked for sympathy.

As for you hating lyers, from which branch of the military are you on leave again? From which country?

you just blew the FUCK out of my edit. Did you not get the memo?

 

[RawHumor]

you just blew the FUCK out of my edit. Did you not get the memo?

I've been out of the loop lately.

I think it's because I lost my clique membership card.

 

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[brokenbrainwave]

I've been out of the loop lately.

I think it's because I lost my clique membership card.

Try the Este' Lauder counter.


wait you said Clique, not Clinique, my bad.

 

[RawHumor]

Try and seperate the emotional tripe.

Ram is guilty as hell.

Separate is spelled with two A's.

Which branch of the service did you say?

 

[LukkyKnight]

Agreed...Hanns and 4laterer are pretty irrelevant to this subject. Nobody likes or respects them.

Lance does.

 

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[phrodeau]

Try and seperate the emotional tripe.


Who cares if Ram is back with the liar.

These are the facts

Ram & Lav knew she was alive, while people were posting (and crying) in the sympathy for Tan thread


Ram has stated that Tan does not need to apologize


Ram has refused to tell us what identity Tan has picked out for herself this time round


Ram is guilty as hell.

So fucking what, Hanns? If you don't like the story, don't tune in.

Hates liars, LOL!

Thinks he's owed an apology, ROFL!

 

[RegisteredTroll]

I think another question is does Tantanah tell the same to stories to her husband, who she still lives and participates in a relationship with?

 

[sunstruck]

Ram I don't think anyone (anyone that matters) is judging you for what you are doing with your life. The board is pissed at Tan because she lied to EVERYONE. The animosity probably has little to do with you.

Anyone expressing concern for you is likely doing so because they like you and saw the pain you went through and don't want it to happen again.

Yes you're an intelligent adult, but there isn't an intelligent adult on this planet that hasn't made a dumbass move for love. I'm not saying you are. I'm just saying that it happens and that is usually when the people who actually give a shit about you try and bring the possibility to your attention.

Personally I'd rather have that then have to go through life without anyone who cares enough to question my decisions.

 

[RawHumor]

HOWEVER, we are free people too, and we think it only fair we deserve an apology for being lied to

and we want her new ID

not asking for much

so ram, stop trying to divert the attention

Okay, first, the people asking for an apology (mainly, you and Hanns) are the last two people on the GB who would ever give sympathy, so you can ask all you want.

Second, how did he lie to you?

Third, if you didn't know her before, why do you care what name she's using now - IF SHE IS BACK? So you can tear into her some more. Gee, why wouldn't she want to jump in and give out her new name?

 

[plasticman33]

Ignore it Ram, most of the negative responses are from people who never knew the real Tan. I did. I wish you both nothing but the best!

 

[brokenbrainwave]

Personally I'd rather have that then have to go through life without anyone who cares enough to question my decisions.

why did you let that guy puke on your bug?


heh......

 

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It's your life. You should be able to talk to and to see whoever the hell you want to. And everyone else should take a step back... and butt the hell out.

You have others here who lie their asses off all day long.. about their looks...about being married/not married. About having children/not having children. My god its a fuckin soap opera here.

Who the fuck cares? Is it your life? No. Does your opinion really matter? No.

I am fucking tired of seeing people be judgemental asses while their lives are far from perfect. I am tired of some people getting all forgiven while others are talked pure shit about. If it makes Ram happy... then hell I am happy for him. It's his life. Let him do what the hell he wants.

 

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[brokenbrainwave]

The argument isn't about Ram & Tan cyber fucking again.


The question is, Should Ram be truested after he let everyone spew their sympathy while he knew she was alive

And should he reveal whose identity Tan is using now to befriend us all again

first point to your valid argument. How do you know he knew? I for one am not convinced he knew. If I am wrong, so what. Not a biggie to me considering I had no emotional attatchment to her at all.

point number two, I agree, he should tell her new id if there is one.