What Started Your Kink?

[charliebill]

My exhibitionist tendencies probably came from getting my bikini top pulled off at a pool party by my then friend. As embarrassed as I was I also got a major thrill from it.

For me it started when my grandmother (RN) gave me regular enemas at age 6, later continued to age 12 by my mother. I liked the feeling of the nozzle going into my ass, the the full feeling of the water in me. My first erection at 6 and from there on while getting an enema and my next erections were from seeing ladies wearing garter belts/girdles and stockings when I was at the right angle to see up their dresses.From then on, new kinks on a regular basis!!!

 

[Vitriolhack]

I am with you on this! I have yet to find anything that has been banned from my list

Excluding illegal activities; there really are no limits to fantasies and kinks. So long as they are safe and done with willing partner(s)

 

[MahoganyAngel]

Cartoons

 

[Trimjob69]

Cartoons

Do tell....

 

[SinfuIDreams]

My kinks have always been.
As I've aged they made themselves known some kinks lead directly into other kinks.
Like being a exhibitionist with voyeuristic tastes. If I didn't know how good it felt to show off I wouldn't want to watch either and the other way around.

 

[Dollar_Bill]

******

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[pplwatching]

The history of pplwatching's kink(s)

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[Vitriolhack]

Hey Bill,

That's just as hot as some of the wilder stories here.

My own kink first started with a girlfriend who was always horny in the morning. She was also always late for work and didn't want to take the time to fuck or have to clean up afterwards. I tried eating and finger fucking her, but she said she could do it faster if I'd just let her.

Her unexpected solution was to play with my cock to get me hard, and then get on top of me and grind her clit against me until she came. It never took her long, and it was always incredibly hot to watch. Then she'd hop off and rush out the door to work, promising to take care of me later but always leaving me hard and horny.

I tried getting her to get up earlier, but she just used the extra time to get ready. It was always an afterthought for her after getting dressed, when she knew she had a few minutes before she had to leave. She'd hike up her skirt or slip her pants back off and use me without giving me a second thought. The second or third time she did it, I almost came - which would have made a mess of her panties, so after that she would always keep a blanket or a towel between us.

She never told me I couldn't jack off when she was done, but by then I usually had to get ready for work myself - and she was always good to her word. We would either meet at lunch or fuck after we got home, so I got used to going to work horny but with a smile on my face. It was hot to watch, and I wasn't complaining.

Fast forward to my next girlfriend, who was happy to fuck even if she had just gotten dressed, and didn't care if she went to work with a pussy full of cum. It was hot having her call me at work to tell me that she could "feel me leaking out and it was turning her on". When we'd meet for lunch, I'd finger and eat her and we both thought knowing I was tasting my own cum was hot.

My previous girlfriend had left her mark on me, however, and I asked her about using me as a dildo and leaving me to stew for a while. She said that "she wasn't that selfish" and would always make me cum, so my budding kink went on hold. She was happy to have me lick her clean though, so that worked for me.

Fast forward to my now wife and two kids later. The kids would go to sleep pretty easily, but by then my wife was usually tired. If she wasn't interested in fucking, she would sometimes help me out with a hand job - but would often fall asleep mid-stroke with her hand on my cock and wake up if I moved it away. I enjoyed the frustration of her soft hand wrapped around my desperate-to-cum cock, but knowing she was sleep deprived wasn't a turn on.

Then one night we were having a great fuck, when one of the kids started crying. My wife had just cum, and I was close myself, but I got up, put on my gym shorts, and went to take care of the kiddo. When I got back to bed, my wife was already asleep so I was left jonesing pretty hard. The third or fourth time it happened, I realized how much I liked it and eventually brought it up to her. She also gets a lot out of making me cum, and wasn't especially interested.

So, I took matters into my own hands (so to speak). Oral is always on the menu, so she's usually pretty close to cumming when we start to fuck, and if her orgasm didn't make me cum too (funny how that works) I'd slip myself out of her while she was coming down and just savor being hard, horny, and desperate to cum. She noticed, and I'd make it a point to tell her how hot it was to feel the frustration of slipping out of her when all I really wanted to do was keep fucking until I came.

She's halfheartedly told me to stop a few times. It takes a lot of willpower not to just keep going, and since that's what she wants she'll let me, but she'll let me stop if I can manage to not give in. Leaving a warm, wet, willing pussy when all I really want to do is keep going is a challenge, but the frustration of needing to cum so badly is worth it.

There's been a couple of notable times when she's teased me with her pussy pretty mercilessly and either not let me fuck her at all, or only allowed me a stroke or two before having me go down on her. Sometimes if we only have a few minutes before we have to leave, she'll let me fuck her for a few minutes before insisting that we get out the door. It never fails to amaze me how hot it is to finally get back inside of her later.

But while I don't get teased or denied as much as I think I'd like, she is always happy to have me lick her clean after I've cum and will sometimes even push me on my back and smear herself all over my face, so I've got that going for me.

Wow, that is very hot. I love the way she likes to see you clean up your “mess.”

 

[StrawberryNight]

One kink that I have is I enjoy panty stuffing. It just happened I was teasing a boyfriend that I was going to wear a skirt with a thong to show off if I wanted to. Well there came a day I wore a skirt but not being brave enough to sport a thong I wore normal bikini style underwear.

My BF and I went to lunch and were in my car eating when he reminded me of what I had said and asked to see my thong. I told him I had not been brave enough and he kind of smirked. We started kissing and flirting and soon had his hand down my panties and he guided them off of me. Then he brought them up and started rubbing them against me talking about how it's not good to lie. Then I could feel him pushing into me like he was going to finger me some more but he was pushing my underwear into me. I went to ask him what he was doing and he just shushed me and pushed more inside.

When done a small amount was left outside of me and he told me that I was to stay like that for the rest of the day and dare not take them out. It was so hot and the added effect of now I had nothing covering me with my skirt that it drove me wild the rest of the day. Loved it ever since then.

 

[PanKelli]

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[ChefMario77]

One kink that I have is I enjoy panty stuffing. It just happened I was teasing a boyfriend that I was going to wear a skirt with a thong to show off if I wanted to. Well there came a day I wore a skirt but not being brave enough to sport a thong I wore normal bikini style underwear.

My BF and I went to lunch and were in my car eating when he reminded me of what I had said and asked to see my thong. I told him I had not been brave enough and he kind of smirked. We started kissing and flirting and soon had his hand down my panties and he guided them off of me. Then he brought them up and started rubbing them against me talking about how it's not good to lie. Then I could feel him pushing into me like he was going to finger me some more but he was pushing my underwear into me. I went to ask him what he was doing and he just shushed me and pushed more inside.

When done a small amount was left outside of me and he told me that I was to stay like that for the rest of the day and dare not take them out. It was so hot and the added effect of now I had nothing covering me with my skirt that it drove me wild the rest of the day. Loved it ever since then.

Great. Now I have another kink to add to the list...

 

[StrawberryNight]

Great. Now I have another kink to add to the list...

I'd recommend it.

 

[LekaSveta]

My wife introduced me to a lot of my kinks, but only because I hadn't known of them before her. I grew up insanely sheltered (I never even to much as touched a computer or smart phone until I was 17) and until her simply me being attracted to other women was probably the kinkiest thing I could have imagined (Aside from my primary kink, but it was a long time until I could even admit that one to myself, much less pursue it)

 

[SamScribble]

I’d like to play this game, but I’m not sure what counts as kinky. In my book, anything that two (or three, or four) consenting adults do for the purpose of pleasure is just … well … just that.

I suppose that some people might consider that anal sex is a bit kinky. If so I plead guilty. And I blame a girlfriend from many, many years ago.

We were going at it missionary-style and, on one of the backstrokes, she pulled my cock out, put her knees back behind her ears, and then wiped the slick head of my cock around the entrance to her arsehole. ‘Just start gently,’ she said. So I did. But after about five minutes I was glad that it was a cool night and all the windows were closed. At least I hope they were. The young lady could just as well have been performing an aria from a Wagner opera.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I’d like to play this game, but I’m not sure what counts as kinky. In my book, anything that two (or three, or four) consenting adults do for the purpose of pleasure is just … well … just that.

I suppose that some people might consider that anal sex is a bit kinky. If so I plead guilty. And I blame a girlfriend from many, many years ago.

We were going at it missionary-style and, on one of the backstrokes, she pulled my cock out, put her knees back behind her ears, and then wiped the slick head of my cock around the entrance to her arsehole. ‘Just start gently,’ she said. So I did. But after about five minutes I was glad that it was a cool night and all the windows were closed. At least I hope they were. The young lady could just as well have been performing an aria from a Wagner opera.

That is one concert I wish I attended

 

[Fermina_Daza]

Someone gave me the Sleeping Beauty (then) Trilogy to read in college. After that I would dabble one the edge of rough play but never anything too risqué. After a very sexless marriage I decided I wouldn’t get so hung up on what others thought. Then I met “Larry” who was very much into all the things I wanted to try. He and I didn’t work (outside the bedroom,) but I was closer to knowing what I liked/wanted. Took a couple more years, some time spent in local kink community, but I found someone willing and excited to embrace my darker side.

 

[NCTruth]

Woke up in the middle of the night when I was in high school. had to go to the bathroom and as I go into the hallway, I can see the light from the tv. So I was going to go cut the tv off because I figured someone had fallen asleep watching tv. When I turned the corner, there was a porn on the tv and my parents were fucking on the couch. It turned out to be Taboo American Style and my kink was off to the races from there....

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

My penchant for oral sex started when once when I was younger my youngest brother at the time woke me up by sucking my dick. When I was fully awake, I asked him how he knew to do what he did to me and he said our older sister showed him how. I then went to her the next day and told her what he said, she denied it but I told her I was going to tell our dad, she believed me and so she sucked my dick for a few minutes. A few years later she taught me how to eat pussy,
I'll never forgive for turning me on to something so ad(dick)tive... and I'll never be able to repay her for the love and knowledge she gave me.

 

[IKeepItCleanTho]

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[UnderMyKilt]

LOL....which kink? I have kinks upon kinks and kinks within kinks. My fetishes have fetishes.

That said, virtually all of my kinks, fetishes, and less than conventional sexual proclivities have on thing in common....my ass....and most of my ass play, alone or with a partner, is preceded by an enema. I can't go more than a few days without an enema, or colonic, and extended enema play and klismaphilia is my "can't do without it" true fetish.

How did it start? My first enema was when, for whatever reason, I took a shower in my folk's shower upstairs instead of my own and found my mom's douche bag hanging from the shower head. Mind you, I was already into ass play and my fingers and a few improvised toys were already frequent visitors to my anus.

Soooo.....like any red blooded American boy....I looked at the bag, looked at the nozzle, and thought, "That could go in here." I filled the bag, lay on my back, stuck the nozzle up my ass, and let it rip. I swooned at the sensations as I was being filled and then about collapsed from the pleasure as I expelled the steamy liquid. I never looked back. I later rummaged around and found the skinny little enema nozzle for the bag so I wouldn't contaminate mom's douche nozzle and maybe get caught.

As soon as I built up the courage, I went to a nearby drug store and, pretending to be buying from a list for someone else, I bought my own bag and nozzles which I hid in the linen closet of the bathroom closest to my bedroom.

As soon as I moved out of the house I became bolder about it and bought penis shaped enema nozzles at the adult store and later high volume bags and specialty nozzles like double-bardex retention nozzles, colon tubes, and even a JBL Cascade (sit on bag and nozzle) from companies like the sadly defunct Klystra. I have a "shower-shot" type system, with a filter, installed in my bathroom at our house. When you get really into it, the sizes, styles and varieties of bags available, as well as the types of nozzles and colon tubes is a fetish unto itself and the internet really opened up easy access to such fetish/sex toys and made them more mainstream.

I use enemas just for the sheer pleasure of the act, for preparation for play with anal toys, and as prep for bottoming for gay lovers or being pegged by my wife. The new crop of "tunnel plugs" and variety of nozzles from online fetish and kink retailers has "opened up" (pun intended) a whole new realm of possibilities.

My first wife, of ten years ( a story unto itself) never knew about my enema fetish, my anal proclivities or my bisexuality (I abstained..for ten years). My second, and current wife of over 20 years, is an RN (now retired) and is shocked by nothing about the human body or sex and sexuality. We have no secrets and she eagerly participates and helps me along with both fetishes. She sometimes likes to watch, or participate in my enema sessions, and then is more than willing to stick a big dildo up my ass or fuck me with a strap-on. That said, she's six years older than me and I suspect she will be more than a little relieved when this "social distancing" is over and I can get and play with some male lovers.

 

[dz2681]

Woke up in the middle of the night when I was in high school. had to go to the bathroom and as I go into the hallway, I can see the light from the tv. So I was going to go cut the tv off because I figured someone had fallen asleep watching tv. When I turned the corner, there was a porn on the tv and my parents were fucking on the couch. It turned out to be Taboo American Style and my kink was off to the races from there....

Very hot, ever get to see them again? Were they role playing by any chance?

 

[PEAKER44]

To be honest I think it was this site and one other I can’t think of. As my wife became sexually distant I started looking for other means of stimulation. Porn is great but conversations & reading other people’s desires to me is way hotter.

 

[MidKnight1378]

Dick Sarver.
He was a teacher at my high school, back in 1983, (my senior year) I took a course called Modern Family Living, Mr. Sarver through away the book and taught us all about alternative lifestyles, fetishes and sexual techniques. By the end of the class, not one of was a virgin and most of us had tried at least something out of the ordinary. I met my girlfriend there who 7 years later became my wife then 3 years later we became a FFM throuple and are still living happily in this arrangement.

Old Dick passed away back in 2008, same year as my dad but I still think of him often and feel gratitude for expanding my mind.

 

[transqueen]

Naked

I always loved being naked. When I'm home I'll walk around with no clothes. I sleep naked. My spouse isn't a fan of it but she lets me do it.

 

[FetMod]

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