Snowbunnie12
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A strict Christian upbringing in AL and what I was missing out on as a teenager when I finally went to public school
What Started Your Kink?
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A strict Christian upbringing in AL and what I was missing out on as a teenager when I finally went to public school
RjThoughts
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In college, one of my roommates had several well-written bdsm books. I read one and was interested. Several parties later, escorted by two of them, and I began my education.
With teachers, it began when I was asked to tutor some students. I had to first meet with the teachers who had students in need of help
With teachers, it began when I was asked to tutor some students. I had to first meet with the teachers who had students in need of help
JR284
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I've often tried to get to the genesis of my kink which is having a partner who has been with a lot of guys and continues to fuck other men while with me. I haven't been able to pinpoint it though. When I was young, I was extremely possessive and jealous so the fact that I ended up on the complete opposite end is kinda crazy. My first girlfriend was really experienced even though she was only 19. She had already been with 15 guys and had even had a threesome with two guys. At the time I hated knowing that. I then had a streak of women who all tended to be really experienced. At some point in my mid 20s is when I started to watched MFM porn and that's when the tide started to turn for me. I still don't know of a specific event that changed it all, but I imagine it has something to do with learning about the sexual experiences of my exes.
croydon2000
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Me.....
...being made to wear pair of knickers and white dress with red polka dots on it by my parents freinds daughter.ha.x
...being made to wear pair of knickers and white dress with red polka dots on it by my parents freinds daughter.ha.x
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Now mid-thirties. Been kinky as long as I can remember. Discovered wanking in my teens, early, like most guys do.
Well before I was legal I'd realised that my whole body was an erogenous zone. By 18 I loved my ass full, I was searching out kinky porn.
First serious GF was hesitant about intercourse, but would let me lick and finger her. Years of pleasing her and getting nothing, I discovered I adored tease/denial/edging.
Next gf was a prolific cheat. My cuckold kink awoke.
Housemate had lingerie and toys, my sissy side awoke
Lit has been a constant, been reading it over 20 years.
Now I'm evolving, I know what I like.
Wow... your story sounds very similar to mine with a girl who lived two houses up from me. One summer in her basement or mine when moms were out shopping or doing errands.
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Sigmund7
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My "primary" kink is panties and I can trace it back to childhood when I used to explore my mother's underwear drawer. In HS I got my girlfriend's mother to buy some panties as a gag Christmas gift and, when I later met my wife, I bought some novelty panties for her. Fast forward - a camping trip where we "exchanged" underwear, a period where we shared panties as we both wore the same style, and, later, a divergence to our won styles.
There are other kinks and other stories, but that is the main one for now.
There are other kinks and other stories, but that is the main one for now.
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sissy's first dress.
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In HS, especially. Most of the girls were HOT! And they would roll up their skirt to make it shorter, exposing the tops of their thigh-highs.
I was pretty reserved and quiet as a teen. College and moving across the continent changed all that.
How I wish I could be 17 year old me with 41 year old me's personality!
Years ago, my wife said I should become a teacher. Thinking back to those HS girls made me realize that would be a bad idea...
Kitschshaman
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what started my kinks? the love of my life, of course.
I grew up in the country so, I had lots of opportunities to be naked in the great outdoors. To this day, give me a chance to get naked outside and I'm all in. I love to jerk off outside as well. Somewhere along the way I read stories about women getting their men to strip and jerk off for their friends and I became hopelessly hooked on CFNM and exhibitionism. I love it when my wife gives me a hand job while I am driving.
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I've always loved body hair on women + later with a twist!
My earliest recollection was at first school, maybe when I was 7 or 8 years old. At that stage I knew nothing about sex a more innocent era) or sexuality, didn't know about pubic hair. But at that tender age I remember being more than aware of the hair growing on my female classmates' arms and legs and finding something attractive about it.
As a youngster in the 60's many women didn't bother much with shaving their legs, so it I regularly saw women with hairy legs. Didn't seem to notice pits so much, though in the street these would be covered up much more than legs. Bare, hairy legs excited me as did the hair pressed down under nylons Also at that time many European women didn't shave as they now virtually all do these days. I do remember one women who lived down our road- guess I was about 12 + she would have been about 30 but her calves were literally covered in a pelt of thick, long dark hair. I'd never seen any quite like this before + was fascinated. Not sure if I was turned on but certainly not repulsed, but mesmerised.
Reaching puberty I had a definite pull for hairy women + of course loved pubic + pit hair too by then but down the street as a "leg" man i was always scanning for fuzzy or even bristly legs
In the late 70s there were still quite a few hairy legs on show. I was at uni then + both my landlady ( a mother of 3 about 30) + quite a few of my female classmates had hairy legs. But half-way through the course the number of hairy-legs on these women collapsed like dominoes.
One evening in my digs I was sitting on the sofa watching TV in the living room when my landlady came down in her dressing gown with wet hair. Immediately I noticed all the long dark hairs on the front of her legs had gone-she'd shaved for the first time since I'd been there in 18 months.
I couldn't say anything but I felt saddened by this +also by similar actions by my course mates. However when I went to bed that night I found myself imagining her in the bath, soaping + shaving her hairy legs. And here is the twist- though I was truly disappointed that she had shaved I realised I was also pretty aroused by me imagining the scene in the bath of her shaving them!
Until a year or so back female razors or wax kits always showed women shaving already perfectly hairless legs or pits, which always struck me as bizarre. Now a brand called Billie has revolutionised this by showing women keeping their hair or selectively shaving certain areas- a much more positive method.
Working in the 80s there were still a number of hairy women visible- at concerts + remember a shop window in west London where many Polish visitors looked for jobs or rooms + many of these young women in their late teens/20s had unshaven legs, which I revelled in seeing. But in less than 5 years, all the women coming had shaved legs. I went on a trip to Belarus + virtually every woman had hairy legs but i suspect not now.
The 90s + beyond was a very fallow period for those like myself who loved female body hair-especially legs + pits. Occasionally, pre-internet age, a porno mag would feature a hairy woman-bikini area + pits far more likely than legs, but the latter did crop up time to time.
One day one woman blew my mind-she called herself Hirsute Sandra + she truly was with an amazingly thick bush + trail, furry pits (no obvious arm hair though) + thick leg hair from the top of her thighs to her ankles- hairier than any woman I'd seen before.
She had a couple of photo sets in a couple of editions of a mag called Ravers + a more prolonged set in a mag called Leg Sex. Another day I scanned the top shelf in the newsagents + I went sick in my stomach as there was the caption on the cover declaring" Hair Today! Sandra shave shocka" with Sandra in bra + undies + a razor in one hand + a shaving brush in the other!
I wasn't sure if I could bare to look at it. At that time I didn't buy it, but the thoughts just didn't leave my mind. A week later I just had to buy it. a real mix of emotions but I was mesmerised, fascinated + eventually aroused by her shaving her very hairy legs but leaving everything else hairy including the tops of her thighs. Later on I realised all these photo shoots were derived from 2 movies she made: Hirsute Sandra + Hirsute Sandra shaves- both easily seen on-line now. This was certainly a pivotal moment in my hairy turn-ons!
This was the first time I'd actually seen a woman shave hairy legs + over the years though I adore hairy legs, there's something that also excites me about the anticipation + procedure of shaving visibly hairy legs.
Now 60, apart from my partner, seeing publicly visible body hair other than on the arms is extremely rare. So far this year I've seen only about about 6 women with hairy legs + none with pits. Yet there is some momentum on social media for women to not feel pressure to remove hair unless they want to, though it will still be an uphill battle
On the other hand the internet provides endless thrills for the lover of hairy women. There are numerous adult pay sites which feature such women such as Wearehairy + ATK Hairy, though only a minority have hairy legs/pits, more of the latter, while Naughty Natural + Hippie Goddess both feature largely fully hairy unshaved women- some to die for. ATK also did a small number of leg shaving sets.
Instagram almost daily shows updates with women proudly showing their furry pits + legs for free. You Tube also provides some of this + there's quite a few sexy (to me at least) shaving movies where the poster hasn't shaved their legs for many months or even years. Manyvids also show all these things too for the body hair lover.
Despite far fewer real life encounters it's never been hotter for hairy women lovers on-line. + my interest is as intense as ever it was.
It may seem strange that somebody who is turned on by hairy legs on women can also be aroused by their shaving but it all revolves around the hair + the anticipation of the growing back!
I've written a few stories on Literotica that feature my experiences + fantasies with hairy women usually spiced up with some shaving. Hope if you like hairy women, give them a read!
My earliest recollection was at first school, maybe when I was 7 or 8 years old. At that stage I knew nothing about sex a more innocent era) or sexuality, didn't know about pubic hair. But at that tender age I remember being more than aware of the hair growing on my female classmates' arms and legs and finding something attractive about it.
As a youngster in the 60's many women didn't bother much with shaving their legs, so it I regularly saw women with hairy legs. Didn't seem to notice pits so much, though in the street these would be covered up much more than legs. Bare, hairy legs excited me as did the hair pressed down under nylons Also at that time many European women didn't shave as they now virtually all do these days. I do remember one women who lived down our road- guess I was about 12 + she would have been about 30 but her calves were literally covered in a pelt of thick, long dark hair. I'd never seen any quite like this before + was fascinated. Not sure if I was turned on but certainly not repulsed, but mesmerised.
Reaching puberty I had a definite pull for hairy women + of course loved pubic + pit hair too by then but down the street as a "leg" man i was always scanning for fuzzy or even bristly legs
In the late 70s there were still quite a few hairy legs on show. I was at uni then + both my landlady ( a mother of 3 about 30) + quite a few of my female classmates had hairy legs. But half-way through the course the number of hairy-legs on these women collapsed like dominoes.
One evening in my digs I was sitting on the sofa watching TV in the living room when my landlady came down in her dressing gown with wet hair. Immediately I noticed all the long dark hairs on the front of her legs had gone-she'd shaved for the first time since I'd been there in 18 months.
I couldn't say anything but I felt saddened by this +also by similar actions by my course mates. However when I went to bed that night I found myself imagining her in the bath, soaping + shaving her hairy legs. And here is the twist- though I was truly disappointed that she had shaved I realised I was also pretty aroused by me imagining the scene in the bath of her shaving them!
Until a year or so back female razors or wax kits always showed women shaving already perfectly hairless legs or pits, which always struck me as bizarre. Now a brand called Billie has revolutionised this by showing women keeping their hair or selectively shaving certain areas- a much more positive method.
Working in the 80s there were still a number of hairy women visible- at concerts + remember a shop window in west London where many Polish visitors looked for jobs or rooms + many of these young women in their late teens/20s had unshaven legs, which I revelled in seeing. But in less than 5 years, all the women coming had shaved legs. I went on a trip to Belarus + virtually every woman had hairy legs but i suspect not now.
The 90s + beyond was a very fallow period for those like myself who loved female body hair-especially legs + pits. Occasionally, pre-internet age, a porno mag would feature a hairy woman-bikini area + pits far more likely than legs, but the latter did crop up time to time.
One day one woman blew my mind-she called herself Hirsute Sandra + she truly was with an amazingly thick bush + trail, furry pits (no obvious arm hair though) + thick leg hair from the top of her thighs to her ankles- hairier than any woman I'd seen before.
She had a couple of photo sets in a couple of editions of a mag called Ravers + a more prolonged set in a mag called Leg Sex. Another day I scanned the top shelf in the newsagents + I went sick in my stomach as there was the caption on the cover declaring" Hair Today! Sandra shave shocka" with Sandra in bra + undies + a razor in one hand + a shaving brush in the other!
I wasn't sure if I could bare to look at it. At that time I didn't buy it, but the thoughts just didn't leave my mind. A week later I just had to buy it. a real mix of emotions but I was mesmerised, fascinated + eventually aroused by her shaving her very hairy legs but leaving everything else hairy including the tops of her thighs. Later on I realised all these photo shoots were derived from 2 movies she made: Hirsute Sandra + Hirsute Sandra shaves- both easily seen on-line now. This was certainly a pivotal moment in my hairy turn-ons!
This was the first time I'd actually seen a woman shave hairy legs + over the years though I adore hairy legs, there's something that also excites me about the anticipation + procedure of shaving visibly hairy legs.
Now 60, apart from my partner, seeing publicly visible body hair other than on the arms is extremely rare. So far this year I've seen only about about 6 women with hairy legs + none with pits. Yet there is some momentum on social media for women to not feel pressure to remove hair unless they want to, though it will still be an uphill battle
On the other hand the internet provides endless thrills for the lover of hairy women. There are numerous adult pay sites which feature such women such as Wearehairy + ATK Hairy, though only a minority have hairy legs/pits, more of the latter, while Naughty Natural + Hippie Goddess both feature largely fully hairy unshaved women- some to die for. ATK also did a small number of leg shaving sets.
Instagram almost daily shows updates with women proudly showing their furry pits + legs for free. You Tube also provides some of this + there's quite a few sexy (to me at least) shaving movies where the poster hasn't shaved their legs for many months or even years. Manyvids also show all these things too for the body hair lover.
Despite far fewer real life encounters it's never been hotter for hairy women lovers on-line. + my interest is as intense as ever it was.
It may seem strange that somebody who is turned on by hairy legs on women can also be aroused by their shaving but it all revolves around the hair + the anticipation of the growing back!
I've written a few stories on Literotica that feature my experiences + fantasies with hairy women usually spiced up with some shaving. Hope if you like hairy women, give them a read!
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Well, I have many, but for one of my more....unusual ones, that of seducing couples, it really picked up when I discovered that I wasn't really straight, at the time viewing myself as bi.....largely from meeting a neighbor who really turned me on, and then his lovely, curvy wife. I wanted them both....and it just mushroomed from there.
CrowdedStranger
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Reading Penthouse,Playboy and Hustler led to the rape that started my most consuming kink. The little cartoon chick in Playboy started my weird reaction to anything with dots and a triangle,maybe not a kink but .......
danielle140
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When Hubby told me that he wanted to share me with another Man .
Booboobear84
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What was your initial reaction? Was there a lead up so you weren't too surprised? Inquiring perverts want to know.
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I take it that you were on the same page about that.
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In HS, especially. Most of the girls were HOT! And they would roll up their skirt to make it shorter, exposing the tops of their thigh-highs.
I was pretty reserved and quiet as a teen. College and moving across the continent changed all that.
How I wish I could be 17 year old me with 41 year old me's personality!
Years ago, my wife said I should become a teacher. Thinking back to those HS girls made me realize that would be a bad idea...
Short skirts + Thigh Highs on most women is a huge turn on for me! My partner is a high school English teacher at a private school that has uniforms, I don't know how she stands it, I've only visited her at work twice, which is a good thing because after being there I had to have some "me" time before I could drive anywhere!
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I was only 9 or 10 years old when I first saw The Rocketeer with Jennifer Connelly as Jenny Blake in that white dress and Timothy Dalton as the debonair older bad boy. This takes place in the 1940s to 1950s. Total comic book movie. At one point in the movie Jennifer Connelly's character gets chloroformed by Dalton. He knocks her out and then she winds up in his bed when she wakes up. I remembered it as a child that she let's him unzip her in a seductive manner but she acts like she still semi-sedated and disoriented, when the chloroform actually wore off. She acts so hesitant that he zips her back up. But when I saw the movie again years later as an adult, the scene was different and less explicit from how I remembered. When I rewatched it she wasn't in bed and had him offer to unzip her in his bathroom but she then smashes his head with a vase to run away and escape. But in my memory, she was pretending to still be chloroformed and out of it, acting super submissive. I don't know if the Mandala Effect happened or if my memory mixed up The Rocketeer scene with another one. But remembering what movie scenes stick to my mind and heart years later makes me realize what a submissive I am and how into BDSM I am, as well.
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Nice to know it's not just us guys.
Not even a little bit. my wife liberated one of the uniforms..... god help me!
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Oh. My kink?
Stems from being whipped as a little girl.
It wasn't so much the beating...
It was that my father, at that very moment, was completely focused on me.
And nothing else.
I cried, because it hurt, but cried harder when it was over.
Stems from being whipped as a little girl.
It wasn't so much the beating...
It was that my father, at that very moment, was completely focused on me.
And nothing else.
I cried, because it hurt, but cried harder when it was over.
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I wish I knew where my kink started from. I really do not know.
For me it is a woman who is barefoot, but here is the strange part, it has to be her being barefoot where she should not be.
Like a woman barefoot at the beach does NOTHING for me, but a woman kicking off her shoes under the table at a restaurant...or so help me...a woman walking barefoot in an abandon factory or something...and I would buy her a new car and a house! It is not dirty feet, or anything like that, just her barefoot where she should not be. Craziest kink if there ever was one.
Once I was at a strip club, and a dancer danced her first song in heels, and then the next two songs barefoot. It was the only stripper I ever saw who did that, and sadly I admit I have been to too many strip clubs, and seen too many strippers, but have I ever got her fine image burned into my brain from that woman.
For me it is a woman who is barefoot, but here is the strange part, it has to be her being barefoot where she should not be.
Like a woman barefoot at the beach does NOTHING for me, but a woman kicking off her shoes under the table at a restaurant...or so help me...a woman walking barefoot in an abandon factory or something...and I would buy her a new car and a house! It is not dirty feet, or anything like that, just her barefoot where she should not be. Craziest kink if there ever was one.
Once I was at a strip club, and a dancer danced her first song in heels, and then the next two songs barefoot. It was the only stripper I ever saw who did that, and sadly I admit I have been to too many strip clubs, and seen too many strippers, but have I ever got her fine image burned into my brain from that woman.
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