What She meant

[BreadMan]

Maybe the wife was confusen u. She was trying to say that, after she and I read the reply's to my org. post we went and tried the "hole" assplay thing. Probably should have waited for another day, so we could have been into it a little more. But any way. I was the 1st one to receive (sounds like a football game), She is so afraid of my asss. I dont know why. I am all the time rimming her. I made sure that it was nice and clean you know. Well she lubed me up with some of this desensitizing lube. She started using this small butt plug. It felt okay, but i have used it before and i kinda wanted to venture into new terrority. So she grabed her vibartor. She was so gentle, she eased it in so slow, It was a tiny bit painful, but it was not what i was expecting. I think we should buy a strap on, that way i can feel her body next to mine. So she did me for about 3-4 minutes, Then it was her turn. She was very, i mean very nervous. I spreaded her soft ass checks and began to lick. She began to moan. I applied the desencetizing (however its spelled) lube on and spread it around. Its a petrollum based by the way and cherry flavored. Well some of it ran down into her pussy and began to burn. She had to jump up and run into the bathroom and wash it off. So it was a bad start. She came back we tried again. Same M.O., Started with a finger and then a small plug. and then me. No that i look back on it i think i need to slow down even more. I dont think i should even try to enter yet. I think i should keep using the finger and small plug, at least for a couple of weeks. Anyway i barly got in and had to stop, it hurt. So we both went to bed with a pain in our ass.
LOL, sounds funny HUH?
Anyway that was the outcome of our little ass play.
Thanks for you replies.
PS, We need an idea on strap ons?

 

[huskie]

HELL!!!!! At least yall tried together!!! I say your off to great start and will only grow from here!!!!

i'm so jealous..........

 

[ApplesMcgee]

don't feel bad.

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[sheath]

Smiling...

I'm glad you tried it! Remember that patience is a wonderful virtue.

And...THANK YOU for sharing what is quite obviously a part of a relationship that is filled with trust and caring. I think so many couples never get to the point of wanting to try new things BECAUSE they don't really trust each other. It makes me smile to read in your words just how comfortable you and your wife are with each other. There IS hope out there for the rest of us! LOL

S.

 

[lovechild27]

Well it wasnt that bad if you both are up to it! Sounds like a good time Have fun shopping for your new toy!

 

[Amfig]

Advice on strapons

To answer your question, look at a toy store for a Penetrix or superpenetrix. Comparatively inexpensive (about $40), and if you like, buy online, probably 45 or so cheaper.

A small, firm dong. Good for beginners. Then graduate to somethng else if that works for you.

 

[Monazwx]

Such a sweet experience. I too am jealous.
Maybe this will help I don't know,

http://www.dildoguides.com/dildos/strap-on.asp

Start small; have fun.

 

[Quimmy]

Wow, your first experience with it was quite different than mine. We had success the first night, and I only started playing with her ass at all the night before.

When I was able to fuck her with my middle finger, hard and deep, I moved to the penis. Maybe yours is bigger than mine, but it wasn't that painful for her. I asked her at every step how it felt and the worst she felt was "stretched, but good." Maybe I don't have a thick penis... It's 6.5 inches, pretty average length. I don't know what the girth is.

I think you really have to slow down when you put your penis in. It took me like a minute to submerge the head alone. The tip of the head shouldn't hurt much, since it's so smooth, but it gets wide fast. Don't be afraid to stop, apply more lube, tongue her ass more, finger it more, whatever.

For us, it wasn't long before we could have some good anal sex. It's worth the effort and actually, the effort can be the funnest part if you both relax. The feeling of the long strokes is quite potent for the guy, especially passing through the first 2-3 inches, then driving as deep as possible. And she tells me it feels very filling and satisfying. So good luck to you both!

Oh, another tip. If you don't now, try to masturbate anally a bit. Poke around there in the shower, or in bed a bit. All assholes are basically the same, and if you understand the dynamics of what certain pressures feel like and how the schincter reacts, you can better anticipate your partners reactions and have more success.

 

[lovechild27]

Good advice quimmy

 

[Eddietheman]

My experience

This past weekend...my girlfriend and I spent some magical time together...

She had been telling me she wanted to try it...anal...(she is very inexperienced sexually)...I thought it was just to please so i was hesitant to jump right in...We decided the best thing to do was to let her get on top of me and try that way...Anyway, contrary to EVREYTHING i have read or heard, she just jammed it right in...the head went in and it started to hurt...me, not her...i made her get off to put lube on me and then she got back on and all of a sudden...I was completely buried inside her...no pain, she said...and it was delightful..i kept asking if she was hurting...she finally told me to hush and to fuck her...

It was amazing..i think letting her get on top was the way to go...she was into it like i have never had before...so...good luck...and let us know...